Approaching girls in 2024 as a mid 30s breh

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Start normal conversations and learn how to read body language.

 

[Shadow King]

Not even gonna lie.
It should feel no different than when you were 25.
And to keep it real, you should confidence should be through the roof
because presumably you're like ten times richer than you were at 25 with the same looks you've
had since 16.

Rejection happens to us all, rip off the bandaid and if she isn't feeling you, on to the next one.

Breh I'm sorry but this is Coli 6-6-6 babble

 

[Insensitive]

Breh I'm sorry but this is Coli 6-6-6 babble

lol ! I know not everybody is going to have my situation but the way I look at it is just
if a breh has pulled women before but his position is only better, I can't understand why they'd be afraid of rejection.
It's all apart of the game.

My personal situation is just....WAY better than it was in my mid-20s (I'm younger than OP tho).

I pulled THEN but pulling NOW is like shooting fish in a barrel because I was putting so much time
into education, fitness and now wealth building.

On paper breh should be more attractive if the necessary work was put in, so any woman at the level he
was pulling before should be pretty accessible barring her not being attracted.

 

[Shadow King]

lol ! I know not everybody is going to have my situation but the way I look at it is just
if a breh has pulled women before but his position is only better, I can't understand why they'd be afraid of rejection.
It's all apart of the game.

My personal situation is just....WAY better than it was in my mid-20s (I'm younger than OP tho).

I pulled THEN but pulling NOW is like shooting fish in a barrel because I was putting so much time
into education, fitness and now wealth building.

On paper breh should be more attractive if the necessary work was put in, so any woman at the level he
was pulling before should be pretty accessible barring her not being attracted.

OP in particular seems to have an anxiety about getting memed/embarassed and a general social anxiety. Sometimes the acquisitions (that you ain't supposed to lead with anyway) aren't gonna beat that demon.

Outside of wearing and driving certain things, your finances shouldn't be known in the stage OP is trying to move past. But he's said dressing isn't an issue.

 

[The Jewnited States]

It been long time since I heard from you. how you been doing?

Struggled with mental health issues and substance abuse and just got out after another 2.5 years in prison bringing my total to 5 years down on a 20 year bid. Went through transcranial magnetic stimulation prior to going into prison and have been clean for almost 3 years now. In a much better place than I was for the last 15 years of my life.


That's the brief summary

 

[WaveMolecules]

taking to women is easy, i never understood the fear.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

I’m married but man it seems like the chicks in their 30’s are pretty easy to talk to. shyt I have them starting conversations with me and I just be chillin. Got a couple I work with who saw me with my camera and approached me. I have no advice other than be nice and talk to them if they want to talk to you:

 

[Gains]

Become a passport bro

its an option for older brehs that are retired and sick of living in the US

 

[BlaccSunrise]

OP's username

 

[mag357]

Agree to disagree.

From my perspective, I don't care at all about random people in public, because I know I'm a megastar (requires a lot of discipline and earned self-esteem) and nothing will get in my way, certainly not my own perceived social constructs. If I see a woman that I think, I can't just let her walk out of my life without doing anything, I will approach. Do I strike out a lot? Yes, but so what.

I can approach without fear of embarrassment because I know whether the approach works or not I'm going to be fine with or without her.

100%
This should end the thread.

The only problem is most nikkaz don't feel like they are the sht... Megastar, the man.

So if bro doesn't have that kinda confidence he needs to just gather the courage to say "hi. How are u"
bytch gonna ignore you or she gonna speak. And just go from there.

Somebody said ask for IG instead of the number.
If that's ur preference, cool.
But I ain't never taking a bytches IG.
Da fck I look like.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

Excuse me is merely to get her attn
And you dont need an opener
Compliment her, tell her you find her attractive and ask her name

Its really that simple.

Here’s an easy one. Again I’m married but you know what they say about what happens when you get married…

Anyway. Go to an event in your town where there’s music, a jazz fest, a food or wine taste event, etc. You’ll find women vibing by themselves enjoying the music. That could be a possible layup if you play it right I’ve found events to be easy places to at least start conversations with women whether they end up being your girl or just somebody you end up being friends with. I mean shyt I’ve had women talk to me and end up finding me on social media later.. crazy shyt but whatever.

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Here’s an easy one. Again I’m married but you know what they say about what happens when you get married…

Anyway. Go to an event in your town where there’s music, a jazz fest, a food or wine taste event, etc. You’ll find women vibing by themselves enjoying the music. That could be a possible layup if you play it right I’ve found events to be easy places to at least start conversations with women whether they end up being your girl or just somebody you end up being friends with. I mean shyt I’ve had women talk to me and end up finding me on social media later.. crazy shyt but whatever.

If OP wants to make it easier, hit a happy hour (classy/mid scale)…Sunday brunch spots.… join a yoga class… idk OPs preference… certain hoes frequent certain spots… fat hoes be at chilis and buffalo wild wings

Classier hoes at whole foods
Hood hoes at family dollar, Popeyes
@Pull Up the Roots got some game

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Talk to them.
Approach with caution.
Read the room and her body language.

In my mind,
there's a war still going on.​

Bless Frank Costanza...

 

[Roid Jones]

I am trying to get over my fear of rejection and approach these women but often find it hard because everyone has a god damn phone in their hand and earbuds in


I think I have a fear of getting clowned in public even though I know I shouldn't care. In a place with some privacy it's not a big deal, but in a crowded area with tons of eyeballs I get cold feet. Especially if the chick is walking towards me and id have to stop her to talk to her. It feels like I'm being intrusive


Whats the strategy? Numbers game? Selective shots?

I find that if in a situation where I have the chance to talk to them for prolonged periods of time, I have a great shot because I'm intelligent and funny and dont take myself too Seriously. Cold approaches in public is a lot harder.


What y'all brehs doing?


Background: I'm 35 and in decent shape but not ripped by any means. 5'9" and pretty good looking but not a model or some shyt.

This is your core issue and I'm sure you know this already but you will simply have to go through that fire. Approach constantly, yes you may even get clowned but you will have to experience it and learn to DEAL with. There is no other solution.

 

[MicIsGod]

100%
This should end the thread.

The only problem is most nikkaz don't feel like they are the sht... Megastar, the man.

So if bro doesn't have that kinda confidence he needs to just gather the courage to say "hi. How are u"
bytch gonna ignore you or she gonna speak. And just go from there.

Somebody said ask for IG instead of the number.
If that's ur preference, cool.
But I ain't never taking a bytches IG.
Da fck I look like.

A bytch offering me her ig is lowkey worse than rejection.