Approaching girls in 2024 as a mid 30s breh

[The Jewnited States]

Thanks for feedback brehs. Overall that interaction was maybe 3-4 minutes. I will try again today down in Waikiki if I get the chance.

How do you go about trying to get one womans number if she is in a group of 3+ people? Try to talk to all of them then just ask the one? Ask the ugliest one for their number on some mind game shyt, then ask the one you wanted to ask?




Anyway let's see how it goes today

 

[re'up]

Thanks for feedback brehs. Overall that interaction was maybe 3-4 minutes. I will try again today down in Waikiki if I get the chance.

How do you go about trying to get one womans number if she is in a group of 3+ people? Try to talk to all of them then just ask the one? Ask the ugliest one for their number on some mind game shyt, then ask the one you wanted to ask?




Anyway let's see how it goes today

When you are traveling, do dope stuff. Go to new spots. Go to omakase sushi, go to the undergound bar whiskey tasting or whatever it is. You'll meet people in those spots, BUT you can also use that to invite someone. This is my last night here, I'm going to (whatever place) come with me. You are on vacation in Hawaii. you can invite someone for a walk on the beach and it won't sound goofy, it could sound like exactly what that person wishes would happen.

but you need to already have that plan. Going up to a group of really attractive women is pretty intimidating, it's like working the room. But you just talk to the one you want. Unless you want to work the group and buy drinks and all that shyt. Go up to the one you want, and introduce yourself. Compliment her. Acknowledge that you are interrupting. If she closes you out, let it go. If she opens up, keep going. Once you are reasonably comfortable, invite her somewhere and that's it.

 

[The Jewnited States]

When you are traveling, do dope stuff. Go to new spots. Go to omakase sushi, go to the undergound bar whiskey tasting or whatever it is. You'll meet people in those spots, BUT you can also use that to invite someone. This is my last night here, I'm going to (whatever place) come with me. You are on vacation in Hawaii. you can invite someone for a walk on the beach and it won't sound goofy, it could sound like exactly what that person wishes would happen.

but you need to already have that plan. Going up to a group of really attractive women is pretty intimidating, it's like working the room. But you just talk to the one you want. Unless you want to work the group and buy drinks and all that shyt. Go up to the one you want, and introduce yourself. Compliment her. Acknowledge that you are interrupting. If she closes you out, let it go. If she opens up, keep going. Once you are reasonably comfortable, invite her somewhere and that's it.

Today I approached a 5/10 and just said "hey, I like your T-shirt" (it said cigarettes after sex on it).

She said "aww thanks! I was just at their concert last night" (I didn't realize it was a band).

I said "and you ain't invite me? The nerve of you" (she laughs). I said "take my number down and text me for the next time you're going to do something fun, before or after the cigarette". (She laughs). I give her my number and she texts me right then and there. I tell her "I'm going back into work but I'll hyu later!" She says "okay cool!" (She smiles). I walk back to work. I have been talking to her a little bit throughout the day but nothing major because I was at work. I met her while on my work break.

I will just see how things go. She's really not anything special looks wise but maybe she will be cool

 

[The Jewnited States]

I can see how this could be addicting. The feeling of growing in confidence and comfortability in fostering connections with other human beings

 

[Shadow King]

Glad you mentioned it...told us a lot

The poster you quoted calls women bìtches at 37. How much does that tell us?