Approaching girls in 2024 as a mid 30s breh

[maxamusa]

“I know it’s not very original but you caught my eye and I’d love to see if we could be compatible if you aren’t seeing anyone. My name is ( name ). *extend your hand* if you’re uncomfortable exchanging numbers how about we exchange instagrams and start there?”

That’s it. Just say that. It’s assertive but friendly, it’s not pushy or cheesy but it’s direct enough that if she is interested you’ll get her IG and start the conversation there.

You amish breh?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

You cant walk up on a woman when she is buried in her phone in 2024. They dont want to be approached and its where you approach not how.If she has her headphone earbuds at gym,store etc.. Nah. If you a shy dude create you some business cards put your name and # on them. More different and more you stand out more women you get.Women see thru smooth talk game.When you approach within first few second they already know. Make sure you have a scent.

 

[maxamusa]

You cant walk up on a woman when she is buried in her phone in 2024. They dont want to be approached and its where you approach not how.If she has her headphone earbuds at gym,store etc.. Nah. If you a shy dude create you some business cards put your name and # on them. More different and more you stand out more women you get.Women see thru smooth talk game.When you approach within first few second they already know. Make sure you have a scent.

You ever just go to a parking lot of a girl store like sefora or something and stick all your business cards on the windshields under the wiper blades?


its a # game breh I think this would be the move for you

 

[TL15]

You amish breh?

Yep. 100% Amish.

No, but seriously there’s a lack of confidence because he doesn’t know what to say. What I wrote was simple and effective, it gets to the point quickly and it’ll take a lot of the anxiety away from approaching

 

[maxamusa]

Yep. 100% Amish.

No, but seriously there’s a lack of confidence because he doesn’t know what to say. What I wrote was simple and effective, it gets to the point quickly and it’ll take a lot of the anxiety away from approaching

Breh thats a WILD opener and super aggressive......they're gonna get real nervous

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

It should be easier for you as you get older if you’re still in the game. If you focused on you got established by means of finances and property women will choose you homie.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Go to places where people go to socialise don’t look for women in places where people go for goods or services.

Clubs bars barbecues parties concerts carnivals festivals universities colleges outdoor celebrations

OP, if you're in your 30s, for your sake, don't do this.

 

[Shadow]

Glad I'm married because the streets are rough.

How'd you meet your wife?

 

[Ohene]

Excuse me is a great opener. She'll probably have to excuse herself to go to the bathroom and dry her panties off with one of these after hearing that

thats game

Excuse me is merely to get her attn
And you dont need an opener
Compliment her, tell her you find her attractive and ask her name

Its really that simple.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

OP, if you're in your 30s, for your sake, don't do this.

Masters PHDs and mature students all be eating

Also old people attend community colleges look at @Stringer Bell

 

[MBwithadream]

I am trying to get over my fear of rejection and approach these women but often find it hard because everyone has a god damn phone in their hand and earbuds in


I think I have a fear of getting clowned in public even though I know I shouldn't care. In a place with some privacy it's not a big deal, but in a crowded area with tons of eyeballs I get cold feet. Especially if the chick is walking towards me and id have to stop her to talk to her. It feels like I'm being intrusive


Whats the strategy? Numbers game? Selective shots?

I find that if in a situation where I have the chance to talk to them for prolonged periods of time, I have a great shot because I'm intelligent and funny and dont take myself too Seriously. Cold approaches in public is a lot harder.


What y'all brehs doing?


Background: I'm 35 and in decent shape but not ripped by any means. 5'9" and pretty good looking but not a model or some shyt.

It been long time since I heard from you. how you been doing?

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Op you approaching some hoes tomorrow? Will you give us updates @The Jewnited States

 

[Shadow King]

It should be easier for you as you get older if you’re still in the game. If you focused on you got established by means of finances and property women will choose you homie.

Your money and property getting female cooperation is steps ahead of what OP's barrier is.

 

[Nymbus]

I always feel like I'm on some animal planet documentary when I go out to approach women
Sir David Attenborough providing the play by play voiceover in my head

 

[Insensitive]

Not even gonna lie.
It should feel no different than when you were 25.
And to keep it real, you should confidence should be through the roof
because presumably you're like ten times richer than you were at 25 with the same looks you've
had since 16.

Rejection happens to us all, rip off the bandaid and if she isn't feeling you, on to the next one.