Like fasting, tithing, forgiving those who have done wrong against you, refraining from sexual immorality, helping the poor. Following the commandments, staying in the word. Fighting lust and temptation daily?
To be a real Christian someone who attempts to live a righteous life have a strong relationship with God and following his word is not easy.
"the harvest is plentiful but the labourers are few"
Being a Christian in this day and age is not easy.
My fav poster here. Couldn't said it better