45, yep, 45 is the body count she just admitted to me.....I love her but still feel cheapen

[Kings County]

wife thots brehs shoulda asked that question before u was in too deep

 

[Londilon]

To put it in perspective. I am literally number #45. She is been a great gf so far. Everything was going great until I found out. I feel so cheapen. I have only been with 2 women long term.

Edit: I am 29, she is 27.​

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

whatever the number they give you is, you have to multiply it by 10, so she has slept with three THOUSAND men that we know of op, sorry it had to be you

10 x 45....carry the extra 0....hol up...

 

[Londilon]

Ask questions you dont want the answer to bruhs
My mans in love wit an amateur pornstar

He must have noticed that when he puts it in she keeps asking if its in. Must have ate at breh for months trying to understand why she has no walls. A woman like that always has a nikka waiting for the relationship to end, if not the nikka already getting a little from her here and there.

I bet he even passed up dating a good girl to date a bad bytch, thinking because she is 27 she hasn't been ran thru.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

45 is the number of a woman who at one point either didn't respect herself or her body or whom nobody saw any longterm value in. You shouldn't ask these questions anyway but now you know. I wouldn't deal with her, not tryna wife that mess

 

[Reece]

Lmao! I think what I'm trying to convey is that life isn't as simple as the boxes we like to put people in.
I'm half trolling but also half pushing people to think beyond these binaries b/c I do know chicks who were wild as fukk and now Suzy homemakers.
You don't become an automatically good wife for not having a lot of bodies. And the character of somebodies heart can't be quantified by their body count.

Excessive promiscuity IS oftentimes a sign hell in men and women that there is something going on. But that doesn't mean that's who she is for the rest of her life. And also be honest, either u naive if u think there ain't more than a couple of freaks married with family photos OR u in denial.

I'm not encouraging people to go chase down train lovin broads, but I also don't advise people to dismiss what could be a good person who genuinely cares about him just b/c she had some wild ass nights. Especially in our current dating climate where "bytches get ghosted" if they not fukkin by the 1st date.
It ain't even about being fair. It's just common sense.

Yea who cares. A lot of husbands getting cheated on too, raising kids that aren’t theirs...50% of marriages go down in flames.

Imma take a wild bet and wager that the slores with 77 sexual partners are over represented in that group.

If I want the perfect job candidate for new position I’m picking someone with 99% of what I want in a candidate. I ain’t picking someone with multiple red flags.

 

[Lifejennings]

45 bodies lmao - she is not going to hang up her jersey at 29 years old with 46.

If your looking for a wife, ideally you want a woman that's capable of creating lasting connections, you know the type that has been in a few 3-4 year relationships,a couple 1-2 year relationships and hopefully a longer one,like a 7 year relationship

Those kind of woman are capable of loving deeply,only have sex with guys they really like,and are incapable of racking up high body counts because their feelings - which they give out sparingly- are tied to her sexuality.


The women OP is dating doesn't fit that mold.Have fun with her because I'm sure she is a fun woman,but tread lightly.Wouldnt want to see your next thread full of '''GMB" posters.

Let's say this hypothetical woman started dating at 15. She'd be old as hell after doing all that.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Smh.. I remember this 29 year old thot told me 45... I was like damn! You gotta find a way to spin it like that's only 3-4 guys a year since 17...

So through her adult years she hasn't been able to keep anyone for more than a couple months.

 

[Londilon]

To put it in perspective. I am literally number #45. She is been a great gf so far. Everything was going great until I found out. I feel so cheapen. I have only been with 2 women long term.

Edit: I am 29, she is 27.​

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

45 is the number of a woman who at one point either didn't respect herself or her body or whom nobody saw any longterm value in. You shouldn't ask these questions anyway but now you know. I wouldn't deal with her, not tryna wife that mess

why is this always the assumption? You do know there are women who give zero fukks about being in a relationship, the same as men who choose prolonged stretches of being single. But on the coli, it must be that she couldn't get wifed cuz that's like the only thing women live for

 

[Mugenight]

You shouldn't have asked breh? You peeps kill me with this shyt


why do you all prefer to be delusional?

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

that she aint wanna wife them nikkas

45 is a number that you know she ain't have time to get to know a lot of them. She was just giving it up to whoever. Not someone you wanna wife imo

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

if a woman said this to me, I'd be hard as fukk

Guess I'm a different breed of a nikka though

Nah you really aline with most group of men called “Simps”

 

[MaxPain]

why is this always the assumption? You do know there are women who give zero fukks about being in a relationship, the same as men who choose prolonged stretches of being single. But on the coli, it must be that she couldn't get wifed cuz that's like the only thing women live for

No. Thats a lie.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Do you go to these women's gyno appointments with them?

Lol! U right! They could be lying! But in college it always seemed like it was the goodie two-shoe hyper judgemental chick who would jump on one dikk and BAM! Pregnant! And crabs!

Meanwhile other chicks were riding the dikk carousel with nary an issue!