I'm glad I got the "dude making bank in a small town" stimulus package twice over, or I would have been in the same boat.
Honestly, there's something unnatural about a man with a low number of partners in a relationship with a woman with a high number of partners. (If women feel the same way about the opposite, I respect it).
At the same time, although I think it can be a strike against a woman, I wouldn't make it a dealbreaker by itself. If she's bad as hell, proven to be a rider, got her s**t straight, money right, and is down for you, I think you have to look past it. But the ones like that probably bagged one of the dudes they were hoeing with.
Honestly this is one of the reason I prefer small towns.... you tend to find a diamond in the rough easier.
City girls got too much shyt to do.
He pushing 30 and girls are gonna expect him to be past the "How many you fukked" questions.... but I think most men wanna know, and it's unnatural for a man to have little sex compared to a woman, we know what the deal is...
I'm over 40 and I still think about it, I don't act my age for shyt because I really get nothing to gain being my age, I just do me period, love it or hate it.
I really don't wanna be that old simp dude some chick can just take her shyt too and call it a day.
I really don't know how a man can marry a high mileage chick when he never really got his, a man has to go through that stage to me, without it insecurities will kick in and shyt will be a problem.
It's 55 year old nikkas at the club everynight in Miami, grey dreads and all, nikkas ain't really trying to grow up like that.
Truth is a man gotta feel like he's winning when dealing with a woman if he doesn't he'll never really be a peace with it.