I don’t think most are virgins, I also don’t think most are whores either, especially when reformed whores just emulate the behavior of women with smaller body counts.
But good for you and your circle. I don’t believe any of it. Everyone knows a convienent outlier online after all.
I always assume that my experiences are other people's experiences. But I realized that some of the opportunities I've been afforded in life means I've encountered a LOT of people. I've spent the last 15 years of my life in four different parts of the world. But even beyond that I love people. I listen and watch and people share secrets and stories and I just absorb all of them b/c those experiences are so rich to me.
I have female friends who are successful single moms bringing in 6 figures. I have female friends who were once strippers. I have friends married to older church husbands who won't all them to go out with us anymore and friends who are still virgins in their 30s. Friends who grew up in conservative households and have participated in orgies. Smart ass hood homegirls who are secretly the most soft-hearted romantics. I know church going freaks and I won't even get into my teacher friends and chicks I know in education. I mean I don't judge but...DAYUM...u think u know somebody!!! Lol!
But yeah I know a lot of people in a lot of different cultures in a lot of different age groups b/c that's just the way my mind works b/c I gravitate to many different areas of interest.
The nerdy friends I play Overwatch with are COMPLETELY different from my homegirls I see on the weekend. And they are completely different from the higher ed people I hang out with in my PhD program. And they are completely different from the old men I play chess with in Barnes and Noble and they are different from the older middle aged females who give me life advice and even more different than the students I've taught that I still hang out with. And they aren't the people I bar crawl with and meet up with from my Discord for conventions. And none of these are my high school friends or my undergrad friends or my friends from Japan or England or Canada or the schools I've worked at or the cohorts I've been in.
I say all of this to say I'm only in my 30s and I've met a lot of people. And u make me feel blessed to have those different perspectives and that open of a worldview b/c what all these people have taught me is that nothing is ever as simple as we want it to be. Life literally exists to confound our certainties.
Edit: I don't think ur wrong btw but sometimes it ain't that simple.