14 men open up about the devastation of divorce...

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The divorce rate is 50/50, you're going to hear a lot of negativity about it because half of marriages fail. It's simply rolling the dice and hoping for the best in this country.

Bill Burr (also married) put it best, if you went skydiving and someone told you there's a 50/50 chance the parachute didn't open, would you still do it?

Theres a lot you can do to help your chances. For example there's an inverse relationship between education/income and divorce rates. I.e. the more educated/higher paid the couple the less likely they are to divorce. Age is also a factor... marrying later is big. Marrying young is pretty stupid, ESPECIALLY for a man. So just saying "its 50/50" is not fully honest. And Bill Burr is a miserable fukk with lingering childhood issues. Funny dude but eh.

 

[Mantis Toboggan M.D.]

Thing is looking at this I'm not sure there is a surefire way to know someone isn't gonna just turn on you at the end of the day. What do you guys think?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

These crybaby ass nikkaz in the article sittin around in a circle discussing how hurt they are

 

[Scott Larock]

You don't even have to have kids, you're not forced to go down that path, I got cousins pushing 40 (females) with no children, it's not easy for black people to come together anymore.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

The divorce rate is 50/50, you're going to hear a lot of negativity about it because half of marriages fail.

This is a patently false meme now. Please, stop using it as an argument.

http://www.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2014/May/Divorce-Shocker-Most-Marriages-Do-Make-It/

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"First-time marriages: probably 20 to 25 percent have ended in divorce on average," Feldhahn revealed. "Now, okay, that's still too high, but it's a whole lot better than what people think it is."

Shaunti and Jeff point out the 50 percent figure came from projections of what researchers thought the divorce rate would become as they watched the divorce numbers rising in the 1970s and early 1980s when states around the nation were passing no-fault divorce laws.

"But the divorce rate has been dropping," Feldhahn said. "We've never hit those numbers. We've never gotten close."

I purposely found this link so OP couldn't wrangle his way out of it.​

 

[CHILLL]

what the fukk is wrong with OP?

 

[MikelArteta]

i can definitely vouch for number 1. i was separated before. i thought i was alone in the world and NOBODY loved me. i had my own apartment, but i didn't buy any furniture. i had a couch, a TV and a mattress on the floor in the living room. nothing else. i spent countless days just laying on the mattress in the dark staring blankly at the tv. shyt was painful breh.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

This is a patently false meme now. Please, stop using it as an argument.

http://www.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2014/May/Divorce-Shocker-Most-Marriages-Do-Make-It/

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*EDIT* This is a fukking church site

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

I know how these guys feel, puttin your heart, your all into something and it just doesn't work out
That's why I'm getting me a mail order bride, a woman who deserves my heart

 

[MikelArteta]

This is a patently false meme now. Please, stop using it as an argument.

http://www.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2014/May/Divorce-Shocker-Most-Marriages-Do-Make-It/

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divorce rate is dropping because the marry rate is at an all time low

 

[Koapa]

You can wait till your 40 start a family and the only thing left will be women with dried up ovaries matching up with some weak ass sperm.

Get some standards in a woman beyond n how fat the ass is how good the puss is and how good she sucks dikk.

If she don't cook clean obey and have intelligence she's not marriage material.

I totally agree with you on that. You have to get pass the physical appearance.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

I’ve seen my close peers go through so messed up situations. That’s how I learn what to do and what not to do.

My homeboy tried to ignore all the signs before marrying his now ex-wife. This chick only cared about herself and her daughter. The little girl was not his child but he cared for this girl since she was three months. At the time of the separation, the little girl was 5 or 6 years old. His ex-wife pretty much viewed him as a support person. They divorced almost 18 months after the wedding. My homeboys expense because of his ex-wife: $15,000 wedding (loan), $20,000-$25,000 (loan) for a new family truck, honeymoon $5,000, new house $150,000.

Because he was in the little girl life majority of the time he has to pay child support, alimony, and some of the mortgage to the house he once lived in. He just got a new job making some decent money but most of his cash went to his ex-wife. This dude can’t live life like he wants to. He was some much in debt that he had to file for bankruptcy. This nikka is depressed af.

Bruhs, if you have any reservations about the girl you dating, wear a condom and DON’T marry her. It will put you in a financial hole that will cripple yo azz if you have to get a divorce.

 

[MikelArteta]

like typical coli i post a article say nothing and everyone gets upset at me.

I'm not causing the divorces,

 

[Koapa]

Yea my boy is a gentle giant. Chicks like that makes it hard for single women. Not only did he have to deal with the little girl sorry dad, but he also had to deal with her. She literally drained this dude energy and bank account like a real life X-men. This btych Rogue my boy.

 

[MikelArteta]

Are you tryin to turn people off of marriage with these or somethin? lol if you too stupid to pick the right one to spend the rest of your life with you deserve to get cleaned out, I know a dumbass who married a chick after 3 months of dating. nikkas need to look up that Dopamine effect

did i write this article you stupid fakkit?

This site is so damn backwards. You'll make threads like this, then make another thread asking why *insert random woman* isn't married.

3/4 divorces are initiated by women