13 Reasons Why - Season 1 Official Thread

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

Just for the record my little sister who's 18 (my perceived demographic of this) loved it.

@biscuitsnbangers is this a fair representation of suburbias problems and issues. As I said I know people who have committed suicide for little to no reason so I'm always interested in others perspectives

I'm also thankful for shows like this because it allows me to open up a dialogue with my sister on certain issues.

That's the thing, we see things from our perspective while watching this. We think what she went through isn't shyt compared to what other people have gone through, now things get more serious in the latter episodes but I get what you're saying. And not only are we viewing it from our own perspectives, we're also males, so of course being on a list for "best ass" seems completely inconsequential to us as men. But girls get all fukking sensitive about shyt like that, and that also led to Bryce grabbing all up on her ass in that convenience store.

 

[Mr210]

Well she was beating around the bush with the counselor
What was she expecting with giving him no answers then running out

Excuses, plus he dropped the ball before that...Anyways I've said my piece the ignorance in this thread is too much to handle...For the posters dropping respectable knowledge and insight keep doing your thing

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Excuses, plus he dropped the ball before that...Anyways I've said my piece the ignorance in this thread is too much to handle...For the posters dropping respectable knowledge and insight keep doing your thing

 

[The Fukin Prophecy]

Well she was beating around the bush with the counselor
What was she expecting with giving him no answers then running out

Anyone blaming the counselor clearly has never been in position to counsel anyone...

Counselors are not fukking mind readers, if you're unwilling to talk to them there is nothing they can do for you...

That man feels he failed because a child that came to him ultimately committed suicide but what could he have done differently other than lie to her?

He told her the truth, she only had two options, accuse Bryce of raping her or try to move on...She wanted to make the accusation and stay out of the picture but that's not how the legal system works in this country...You can't accuse somebody of rape and go into hiding especially when you don't remember if you said no...

She didn't like the truth and ran out of his office expecting him to chase her...Even if he chased her, what would have changed if she still insisted on that guarantee to stay hidden? The options are still the same...

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Anyone blaming the counselor clearly has never been in position to counsel anyone...

Counselors are not fukking mind readers, if you're unwilling to talk to them there is nothing they can do for you...

That man feels he failed because a child that came to him ultimately committed suicide but what could he have done differently other than lie to her?

He told her the truth, she only had two options, accuse Bryce of raping her or try to move on...She wanted to make the accusation and stay out of the picture but that's not how the legal system works in this country...You can't accuse somebody of rape and go into hiding especially when you don't remember if you said no...

She didn't like the truth and ran out of his office expecting him to chase her...Even if he chased her, what would have changed if she still insisted on that guarantee to stay hidden? The options are still the same...

She admitted her mind was already made up at that point
She was just grasping at straws going to him really

 

[ECA]

My 18 year old sister was telling me about this
Sounds like some Dawson creek teeny bopper shyt
I'll pass

Dawson's Creek is better than this

 

[ePiffany]

How is this chick gonna tell a person to fukkin leave, then get sad because they left? Clay asked multiple times what was wrong and she shoved him away. How she gonna blame him. The other characters were right she wanted attention

This is a girl thats in shock from just watching some1 get raped. Nobody is in a proper state of mind after something like that. As other posters have said women are complex in general this conversation coulda gone this way without the trauma. it's not supposed to be Black and White, cut and dry. Very few serious things in life are

 

[ePiffany]

Well she was beating around the bush with the counselor
What was she expecting with giving him no answers then running out

Right cuz everyone would be perfectly articulate after experiencing something like a rape.

 

[ePiffany]

Anyone blaming the counselor clearly has never been in position to counsel anyone...

Counselors are not fukking mind readers, if you're unwilling to talk to them there is nothing they can do for you...

That man feels he failed because a child that came to him ultimately committed suicide but what could he have done differently other than lie to her?

He told her the truth, she only had two options, accuse Bryce of raping her or try to move on...She wanted to make the accusation and stay out of the picture but that's not how the legal system works in this country...You can't accuse somebody of rape and go into hiding especially when you don't remember if you said no...

She didn't like the truth and ran out of his office expecting him to chase her...Even if he chased her, what would have changed if she still insisted on that guarantee to stay hidden? The options are still the same...

She admitted her mind was already made up at that point
She was just grasping at straws going to him really

Please Don't Have Kids

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Right cuz everyone would be perfectly articulate after experiencing something like a rape.

So u admit she wasnt communicating well

 

[Kaypain]

Right cuz everyone would be perfectly articulate after experiencing something like a rape.

Right cuz every counselor should be perfectly intuitive to read between the lines

She went there to record a conversation. Point blank

 

[Kaypain]

My takeaway from this:

• Hannah is fine as fukk
• There was genuinely no way to prevent Justin from being reason #1 unless she was born with a sixth-sense. 99.9% of women, especially young women aged 14-21, have tunnel vision when it comes to the guys they like. They don't have the intuition to know that they're dealing with a scumbag.
• Why didn't she call the police on her stalker? Would've caused alot less problems. If I'm correct, she could've hooked him up with possession of Child Porn.
• I felt that Tall Asian guy was legit being nice to her.
• Jessica and the Asian girl acted exactly how alot of High School girls act. Selfish and Deceptive
• Clay definitely could've saved her life, but he didn't have enough experience with women to know how Hannah felt about him. See, women are complicated. Not only do you have to pay attention to what they say, but you also have to read their body language in order to get the full picture. All he really had to say to prevent her death were 3 words. "I love you"...
• Suicide scene was sad. Even though I don't have kids, I felt empathy for the parents. I could put myself in their shoes and even started to tear up a bit on episode 8. I dropped a few years when they found her in the tub.
• The Counselor didn't do enough. He could've saved her just by giving her his word. He dropped the ball on a colossal scale.
• Alex killed himself because he was sick of his privileged life. Since his dad was a cop, he felt that he was untouchable. This was foreshadowed when he stormed out after only getting let off with a warning for starting the fight.
• Hannah should've told her parents what was going on. If they move, chances are that she doesn't commit that.

HannahBae

 

[Mazino]

Right cuz every counselor should be perfectly intuitive to read between the lines

She went there to record a conversation. Point blank

The guy was a super shyt counselor not sure how that's beyond doubt.

 

[Kaypain]

The guy was a super shyt counselor not sure how that's beyond doubt.

whatever dude.

we just gonna have to agree to disagree

 

[Kaypain]

the whole premise of this series embodies white woman entitlement. my god. premeditated suicide, but going to blame a dozen people for your own actions. she literally threw the counselor under the bus just for kicks, cus a random cop, detective or lawyer could have easily been that 13th victim of her passive aggressive reign of terror.

right

but listen to these gullible people

I was suicidal myself... shyt I still am but I'll be got damn