NubianVitruvian
Retired
See, right now you're suffering from the same problem as Zoe. Very poor articulation of what you're trying to get across. Separating yourself from stereotypes has nothing to do with downplaying the fact that there are racial issues that need to be dealt with.
Your last string of posts comes across as, "yeah I know there are racial problems, but they don't effect me and I'm in a privileged position and I'm past all that so let's just all kumbaya and stop talking about race and start talking about people's characters despite all the problems in society directly tied to race and gender."
No, I can't rock with you on this at all. You had a spark when you started, and now you're just venturing into that "let me be mute on the issue" territory. I don't embrace any stereotypes, but most of my pro bono work entails helping poor people who are predominantly people of color and wouldn't get a fair shake without someone representing them. Acknowledging racial issues doesn't mean you're consumed with it. You're going too far.
It's other people that make race a problem. Racism comes from not being about to deal with the other
It's a tough issue. The productive conversation would be, how do we get our neighbors to treat us as equals or how do we improve ourselves as a race, theoretically and practically or how do we proactively and possitively deal with these race issues. It's a two way street, but how do we do our part individually, as a community, etc. But that is a thread in and of itself.