Your girl just moved in with you...

[Lo-Co]

He's on a manager salary but I haven't asked him and his or her finances. He's been living on his own so I assume he can handle paying- I just think the idea of her laying up not contributing is trifling.

She has a kid and he has a kid btw..if that makes any difference

Well. That's a new plot Advancement

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Well. That's a new plot Advancement

Whatcha think? She should still pay something right?

 

[Gold]

I think that's a good idea but some people are stuck in a more old school ideology. People put on for SO long u till you get to know them and living with them will let you see who they really are before you decide to marry them.

What if you don't like they hygiene practices? How they cook? How they maintain a household? What she look like first thing in the morning or you find out he change his underwear every 4 days.

I dont disagree with this, I just think that you should plan on living with someone long term before moving in with them.
Too many people just move in cuz they wanna fukk more often and its cheaper/more convenient.

To me that alone isn't good enough.

All those things you mention matter if you want to take the relationship further.
But if you dont... they dont

 

[Lo-Co]

Whatcha think? She should still pay something right?

Whatever she can contribute. To the living situation. Whether it'd be money, groceries. Bit of cleaning. As long as these things are communicated well between the two.

 

[Egomaniacal1]

He's on a manager salary but I haven't asked him and his or her finances. He's been living on his own so I assume he can handle paying- I just think the idea of her laying up not contributing is trifling.

She has a kid and he has a kid btw..if that makes any difference

He has his kid full-time? Yea that definitely makes a HUGE difference, he's not only trying to move her in but it's a package deal with the kid. You're giving him the right advice, that's two more bodies using up resources everyday in the house. I don't know what kind of voodoo she has put on your brother for him to be this ridiculous but you're giving him the right advice....i think he's gonna do it his way regardless and some ppl have to learn stuff the hard way. At least you'll be able to say i told you so when it all goes left.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

He has his kid full-time? Yea that definitely makes a HUGE difference, he's not only trying to move her in but it's a package deal with the kid. You're giving him the right advice, that's two more bodies using up resources everyday in the house. I don't know what kind of voodoo she has put on your brother for him to be this ridiculous but you're giving him the right advice....i think he's gonna do it his way regardless and some ppl have to learn stuff the hard way. At least you'll be able to say i told you so when it all goes left.

He doesn't have her the entire time. I think currently she's with her mum. He's not going to listen so idk why I'm wasting my breath lol I hope this works out in his favor

Second times the charm, I suppose

 

[5n0man]

As long as she isn't pissing her money away on foolishness, she lives rent and utility free with me. Me and my lady have lived together for 8 years and she only helped pay bills when I got layed off. I don't feel right asking her to pay for sh1t.

This is how men end up paying alimony, if you were married and told your lady she don't have to pay for shyt.

She tell that to the judge and now you gotta keep paying her to live the lifestyle you got her accustomed to.

 

[☃ ೋ]

fukking yes.

 

[YaBoy]

I'm not taking care of another able bodied adult. If we live together, we're splitting rent, utilities, etc. I don't get how this is even a discussion

Women talking bout they'll keep the house in order. I already keep the house in order, its not that hard
But it would be really helpful if you went half on the rent

shyt, if its one or the other, I'd probably rather you pay 50/50 everything than cook/clean anything. nikkas acting like keeping a crib is rocket science, its fukking home ec

 

[Another Man]

Nice t*ts op

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Nice t*ts op

Nice hairline

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nice hairline

 

[Easy-E]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

I never got the idea of a woman can have a job and pay for nothing or use discretion when she pays.

But, we're supposed to be "equal."

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I never got the idea of a woman can have a job and pay for nothing or use discretion when she pays.

But, we're supposed to be "equal."

I'm all for splitting the weight 50/50. Some folks just leeches and parasites out here

 

[Donald Trumps Twitter]

He's on a manager salary but I haven't asked him and his or her finances. He's been living on his own so I assume he can handle paying- I just think the idea of her laying up not contributing is trifling.

She has a kid and he has a kid btw..if that makes any difference

oh then forget all the questions, she gotta pay half of everything split evenly down the middle