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I'm all for splitting the weight 50/50. Some folks just leeches and parasites out here
That's what I don't get.

If you ain't paying bills; you're under my "rule." Don't talk that talk and you don't even have any real responsibility to justify have a voice in how things are ran.

Of course, I'm compassionate, though.

Main reason I do see myself gettin' married, let alone "living in sin" to have a woman come in my life and twist it up.

I gotta take care of another person on the same salary? Nah, b.

Power = Responsiblity

You don't pay nuthin', I don't wanna hear nuthin' but the stove runnin' and the floor being mopped :yeshrug:
 

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does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill? :patrice:

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half :shaq2:

if u dont ask her to chip in her portion, u going down a dangerous slippery slope

good luck wid that type of relationship
 

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She's gotta pay half definitely

I ain't taking care of a grown ass woman, who is just gonna be at home twiddling her fingers :hhh:

We can split other minor bills but she's gotta contribute. We can share the cooking load but otherwise nah.

Dudes be fukking up wifing broads that are fine with having everything paid for them.

It's 2017, if feminists want to be treated as equals than they need to work and contribute as equals :stopitslime:
 

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Buying a home in California is not like buying a home in the south or some shyt.

You might have to spend damn near half a mill for some bullshyt in cali.
maybe because I come from London that shyt is normal to me, and btw I live in cali so not much people on here can tell me about cali unless they've lived in cali since birth
 

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maybe because I come from London that shyt is normal to me, and btw I live in cali so not much people on here can tell me about cali unless they've lived in cali since birth
I've lived in cali almost my whole life.

:stopitslime:

And how you gonna act like you know cali better than anyone and your not even American?

How long you been in cali? How long you been in America?

Breh, you from a country that's allowed to special benefits that we dont, because American tax dollars pay to defend yall.

:gucci:

You don't know shyt about cali.
 

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She's gotta pay half definitely

I ain't taking care of a grown ass woman, who is just gonna be at home twiddling her fingers :hhh:

We can split other minor bills but she's gotta contribute. We can share the cooking load but otherwise nah.

Dudes be fukking up wifing broads that are fine with having everything paid for them.

It's 2017, if feminists want to be treated as equals than they need to work and contribute as equals :stopitslime:





This is a given.....Everybody should be contributing in a relationship, in all aspects. He should do what a man should, and the woman should be contributing in a way a woman would. If it's one sided.......








YOU SHARE THAT....
 

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I'd make her pay bills, that way she cant come back with some kind of partial ownership claim of my house if it doesnt work out and she's more aware of how much utilities she's using.
 

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Hope you don't have kids. Imagine having nothing to pass down to them? :francis:

But basically, everything is overpriced and that's the sign that America will go through another economic downturn soon. High prices, low wages, no one is willing to buy = depression.
:gucci: Im still on the fence about buying a crib, how you going to pass down a crib when the bank owns it:hhh: I got life insurance and investment I can pass down to them :stopitslime:
 

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I say hire a financial adviser and have them make the decision.

A lot of decisions in marriage are ripe for the other party to be salty as hell because it's two people making decisions that "control" the other.
 
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