Your girl just moved in with you...

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

she has a job? she should be paying. lmao @ taking care of things around the house, what you think you can't live here and not take care of the house? shyt, i pay my rent and i still have to take care of my house. your brother can do what he pleases but i'm saying common sense should tell you to ask for or even expect half is sensible.

 

[Phoenix Rising]

Eh.. that's true. I think there is a difference if a woman puts up voluntarily when the expectation isn't there.

For the women that I know that are stay-at-home, they are college educated and were former attorneys or CPA's. Now, many of them do volunteer work for charities or sit on non-profit boards while managing the house.

Again, I think people should do whatever is financially sound for them.

So in essence a lot of these women have their own money because they had careers which means when they want to have kids and get married they can do it like that.

Of course someone has to still pull in an income so the spouse works.

I personally don't see it as some sort of status symbol though.

I'm around a lot of high powered women who would never think to quite working. All married for years too...It's less of a financial thing, more of an identity thing, meaning they like to work.

 

[NoChillJones]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

Stay out yo bros business...

 

[Black Magisterialness]

does she HAVE to pay half of rent or a bill?

Would you let her skate with just cooking and taking care of the place?

Edit: she does have a job and takes care of things around the house

Edit: asking because my bro bout to have his girl move in with him and I'm just tryna to make sure I'm not in the wrong by telling him that he should have pay half cause she using half

nah, she pay half. Period.

I'm with a grown ass woman...not a fukking child. And even children gotta pay rent past the age of 18.

We split certain bills (i pay this bill, she pays another.)

That shyt deads the whole "I'm paying the rent in this bytch" argument off rip. And it also makes it harder for you to resent some one for not pulling their weight.

People use this type of shyt to have power over people, men and women.

 

[Gold]

Let someone who doesn't share your last name move in with you

You think a breakup is bad? How about tossing an eviction on top of it.
I sweatagawd this generation is lawst, but keep doing what's convenient over what makes sense

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Let someone who doesn't share your last name move in with you

You think a breakup is bad? How about tossing an eviction on top of it.
I sweatagawd this generation is lawst, but keep doing what's convenient over what makes sense

these people are idiots breh

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Let someone who doesn't share your last name move in with you

You think a breakup is bad? How about tossing an eviction on top of it.
I sweatagawd this generation is lawst, but keep doing what's convenient over what makes sense

I see your point but i don't know. Some people have plans to move to the next level but want to know what its like to live with a person first?

Do you think that is still a bad idea? Serious question no trolling.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Stay out yo bros business...

He asked me I just wanted to make sure I wasn't out of pocket by telling him she need to be footing some bills

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Let someone who doesn't share your last name move in with you

You think a breakup is bad? How about tossing an eviction on top of it.
I sweatagawd this generation is lawst, but keep doing what's convenient over what makes sense

I get what ya saying and he's young and probably won't listen anyways

 

[Gold]

these people are idiots breh

I'll just say this, most of the shyt people complain about is easily avoidable if they can be disciplined in their desires.

I'm never letting a woman move in with me who I haven't proposed to simply because I know myself, and I know I would absolutely fukk it up

 

[Gold]

I get what ya saying and he's young and probably won't listen anyways

Yeah sometimes traditional advice is looked at as being and out of touch... but I have friends who have bought homes with girls they got infatuated with and they constanstly remind me how terrible it is.

A breakup is 100x worse when there is property involved, and 1millionX worse when there's children involved

 

[Gold]

I see your point but i don't know. Some people have plans to move to the next level but want to know what its like to live with a person first?

Do you think that is still a bad idea? Serious question no trolling.

Nah i dont think its a bad idea if you have moved on those plans. Like you are engaged or have made it formally known to others (not just your girl) what your plans are.
Then its a fine idea.

But if its just in the back of your head that "yeah, she's wifey ", that shyt might change by dinnertime

 

[Egomaniacal1]

I'm with the "pay something camp" but i am curious, is your brother really making bank like that where he can pay it all, how much does he make on his job? Also what does his chick make on her job?

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I see your point but i don't know. Some people have plans to move to the next level but want to know what its like to live with a person first?

Do you think that is still a bad idea? Serious question no trolling.

I think that's a good idea but some people are stuck in a more old school ideology. People put on for SO long u till you get to know them and living with them will let you see who they really are before you decide to marry them.

What if you don't like they hygiene practices? How they cook? How they maintain a household? What she look like first thing in the morning or you find out he change his underwear every 4 days.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I'm with the "pay something camp" but i am curious, is your brother really making bank like that where he can pay it all, how much does he make on his job? Also what does his chick make on her job?

He's on a manager salary but I haven't asked him and his or her finances. He's been living on his own so I assume he can handle paying- I just think the idea of her laying up not contributing is trifling.

She has a kid and he has a kid btw..if that makes any difference