Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because "Women Aren't Women Anymore."

[CarmelBarbie]

Wonderful response..it's interesting, a penalty of personal and financial successes.. or even the process of attaining such successes.. is that finding love and/or being in committed relationships is no longer an added benefit but is reduced to a calculated risk.

What about you? Is marriage a thing based on emotion or logical conclusions for you?

Hm, this is a good question. Speaking for myself, I think marriage needs to be based on more than emotion/love. I’ve been in a few long term relationships, but my longest was with my sons father(who I was with for 7/8 years) the latter part of the relationship I had to continuously “work” to fall back in love when for whatever reason I would find it wavering. I think entering anything based on emotion isn’t smart. And I think what Venker said in that article is accurate about what’s going on.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Meh, unless a woman is bringing the same financially to the table as me. Marriage is a liability to me. When she says she is done, half of my 401k, savings etc. Lol fuk that sht.

 

[AuntAnniesPretzels]

Because there are no Men left. Only geek/nerd/weak boys afraid to take their responsabilities.
And lack ambition. They are happy with the bare minimum. Of course no woman want to marry a loser.

Get your assess out of here and get to work on your hustle to become a Man.
Then you will not only meet real woman but will have plenty of choice.

You’re not even American STFU and keep your male feminist BS in Europe

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

its like the average broad got 10000 men on their IG these days. egos through the roof

 

[futureDevelopment]

The fact that you said microwave food tastes just as good as most bytches can cook says it all....... Food is literally life..... and the preparation of cooking of food is one of the most loving acts anyone can do for you....... You'd been better off just saying that I can't cook, so I'm really not going to hold a chick to the same standard..... that's how a lot of you new nikkas think.....

Bullshyt mumbo jumbo. Your food is no more alive than my food, and certainly no more healthy. It all depends on the person preparing, not the means.

And how would YOU know how microwave food tastes? You're eating your "home cooked" fatback and greens, right?...

My point stands about the diabetes, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol rampant in the community... Not to mention the total breakdown of marriage and relations, in spite of all these supposedly "loving acts" going on in everyone's kitchen.

GTFOH with the mumbo jumbo. You're just mad that I disagree with you about that deservedly crumbling institution you call "marriage", so you're piling on irrelevant shyt about cooking requirements.

Cooking = the most "Loving acts"...



You've been watching too much hollywood, kid.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

Saw this Op Ed earlier.. What's y'all thoughts on this?



Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because ‘Women Aren’t Women Anymore’

References: The war on men
8 facts about love and marriage in America

Don't believe these cac articles brehs. I don't care how good her job is and how independent she is. She still wants a man to hold her down in every way even if he can't financially. Women are needy as fukk even when they rich and this will never change.

 

[360dagod]

Because there are no Men left. Only geek/nerd/weak boys afraid to take their responsabilities.
And lack ambition. They are happy with the bare minimum. Of course no woman want to marry a loser.

Get your assess out of here and get to work on your hustle to become a Man.
Then you will not only meet real woman but will have plenty of choice.

That's the dangling carrot that gets raised..

The same "loser" can get the same benefits without the paperwork...



At some point it becomes diminished returns...

 

[EndDomination]

Men giving up on marriage but its no longer a one-sided relationship of pseudo-servitude.
These women, out here getting the right to vote, getting jobs, and demanding respect as human beings
Can't marry women like that
Next thing you know, they'll be out here lindy-hopping without a man

 

[futureDevelopment]

Microwave my nikka?...

You would accept a female who gives you microwaved food?







I'm done

Yep. I've had females cook for me and I didn't want to finish it. Threw out the leftovers.

As I said, not every woman is a good cook, though most think they are.

Requiring a woman who is active and exercises > Requiring a woman who will cook for you.

Requiring a woman to cook for you is overrated.

 

[Curufinwe]

You’re not even American STFU and keep your male feminist BS in Europe

That's why you're lost dude.
Only american men are whining and complaning.

In Africa the things a worst. Women are more materialistic than event. Men struggle to have a decent job.
But People are still getting married because they are able to sort between bullshyt and real wife/husband.

That's the part you cannot understand unless you get off your ass and move on.

Migrant are crossing the ocean to get a better life. And you are whining because working, get educated and upgrade your game compared to women is too difficult.
Come On.

Forget the hoes and work on yourself first. And then you will have the "power" to find a real woman.

 

[knickscity]

Yep. I've had females cook for me and I didn't want to finish it. Threw out the leftovers.

As I said, not every woman is a good cook, though most think they are.

Requiring a woman who is active and exercises > Requiring a woman who will cook for you.

Requiring a woman to cook for you is overrated.

Chances are a person that works out and exercises also cooks their own meals as well. They tend to go hand in hand.


I'm not here to knock your microwave meals. Imo they are prepared meals that are merely warmed back up, essentially leftovers. Nothing wrong with that.

It doesn't beat meals through the stove and oven outside of time factor. Nothing beats preparing your own.

 

[Megadeus]

New young western women arent groomed by this society to be wives. When its time to settle down, just wife a foreign/1st gen chick. Shyt isnt thayt complicated

 

[EndDomination]

Obvious reactionary propaganda is obvious.

The war on men is on the same level as the war on Christianity or white genocide, conspiracy theories made up by lames with a persecution complex.

This.
Nuance is of great importance; once you've deluded yourself into believing there's an overarching attack, then you see it everywhere.

 

[EndDomination]

My boss said that she believes marriage is for poor woman more than anyone else these days. When we asked her to clarify she said that she doesn’t believe marriage can really work(in general) unless there is a level of dependency. For instance A poor woman that is not capable of taking care of herself, is more likely to stay married to her man even when unhappy, because she depends on him. In other words she believes that in order for marriage to last or be necessary there has to be a level of dependency between both parties that will keep them “stuck” together. Once that dependency gets removed(which she believes started to happen when women were able to take care of themselves financially, a couple of decades ago) it won’t work. She doesn’t think “love” works as a reason or incentive for marriage. It’s too fleeting, and she admits this is especially the case for women.

She’s married btw, and both her and her husband make good money. She said her wake up call for staying with her husband was when he had to travel and work out of state for a few months, and she was forced to be a single mom of their kids. She realized that she just couldn’t live that type of life(as a single mom) hence she found the anchors that keep her with her husband for now. It’s interesting perspective. I believe she sees marriage as a business arrangement.

As U.S. marriage rate hovers at 50%, education gap in marital status widens
The opposite is true.
Marriage is for the middle-class, and upper-middle class.
Dependency breeds unhealthy relationships.

 

[Yapdatfool]

Men giving up on marriage but its no longer a one-sided relationship of pseudo-servitude.
These women, out here getting the right to vote, getting jobs, and demanding respect as human beings
Can't marry women like that
Next thing you know, they'll be out here lindy-hopping without a man

Oh but it IS...

If anything, I've seen more and more WOMEN talking care of they MAN like the man is the traditional 'wife' and she's the traditional 'husband'