The REAL Reason most women over 30 aren't Marriage material.

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Used to look at couples, relatively my age, and would think they must be having intense, wild, sex all the time behind closed doors, until a little later in life realized I was projecting my own stuff onto them. And a lot of people prefer the kind of companionship and daily partnership.

There's no doubt that domestication/domestic slows down the sex, and there's also the idea that once you become a "wife" "mother" or a "girl friend", both men and women have different ideas about what sex looks like with their wife, rather than their previous lover or girlfriend.

part of this is sex has been such a long taboo subject, both in the marriage and outside, kind of like who makes what salary in a workplace. People feel like it's super weird they aren't having sex, and so they don't talk about it with friends, who could confirm that they too were in a similar place.
 

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I think most people period regardless of gender are not marriage material:francis: The mask is off in the 21st century and neither men or women like what they see in their counterpart. Maybe a certain degree of ignorance is necessary to keep society rolling along smoothly.:yeshrug:
 

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It's sex.

Dudes could be straight up and she'll still fall in love and try to change the dynamics. She might stop taking the pill to get pregnant hoping you'll stay.

Broads need to stop fukn. That's the main reason. If they were casually dating without sex they wouldn't have problems.
dude acting like these girls dont be jumping from dikk to dikk.
 

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:mjlol: Always an excuse to shirk responsibility.

Women become "sluts" because men have sex with them. It's a mutual agreement.
What are you talking about? For all I know, I could be the 2nd person that she has had sex with in her life. If I knowingly have sex with an involved/married woman, then I am certainly assisting her in being a slut but other than that, the onus is on her.
 

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It’s not necessarily how much, but how much under what circumstances or context

This the correct angle to approach this from. We want to encourage moderation of vices and thinking through the consequences of actions.

Everything else is Abrahamic religion babble.
 

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Pretty much all my co-workwers say this. They all come in miserable looking. One breh at my job said it's been 9 months since he's had sex with his wife, he finally broke down ans started cheating like I told him.
Maybe he’s an a$$hole lmao you never know you just know his side
 

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What are you talking about? For all I know, I could be the 2nd person that she has had sex with in her life. If I knowingly have sex with an involved/married woman, then I am certainly assisting her in being a slut but other than that, the onus is on her.

The point is sexual intercourse is a mutual endeavor unless force is involved. Stop trying to remove male agency.

This goes back to the virgin shaming. Why shame a man for lack of sex in a thread decrying promiscuity? One less man out there creating sluts.
 

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Pretty much all my co-workwers say this. They all come in miserable looking. One breh at my job said it's been 9 months since he's had sex with his wife, he finally broke down ans started cheating like I told him.
He'll probably get cut off by the mistress too.
 

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You keep bringing up 'games'. If a man says he only wants FWB, then ole girl know what it is. That's about as straight and narrow as you can get with a woman. The woman know what it is, but decides to try and change that by having a baby. That's her fault, not his, she should've left him where he was at.

Women fukn dudes back to back ain't good. Yes they should stop fukn so many dudes. Yeah it's a biological urge, but when that baby comes and dude ain't nowhere to be found....Well shyt, she's a single mother now.
Even if she know what it is, its still games. Secondly, we all know words dont mean shyt. Thats the very foundation of game. If you tell a chick you dont want anything serious but then sell the dream with your actions you are playing games. You cant say "bu...bu....but I said this" when all your actions run counter to that. I agree women should be more shrewd when navigating this shyt but their responsibility to see through the play doesnt outrank the mans responsibility to not play in the first place.


Its like if a chick says "You can come over but we ain't doing anything" and then meet you at the door with her ass out. She is playing games. Her words and actions arent adding up. Is she right to turn around and say you forced her afterwards because afterall she said yall wasn't doing anything and you shoulda just knew what it was?
 
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