Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because "Women Aren't Women Anymore."

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But the dudes getting with broads compared to the dudes who ain't, like the wealth gap, is vastly increasing as time goes by. You really want your personal safety endangered, all for access to broads?
i take responsibility for my safety

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I'm not a liberal.
That "we can do it without marriage" quote sounds nice.

I'm pragmatic, I know full-well that it doesn't actually happen in real life.
Poorer communities and impoverished ethnic communities in particular rely more on informal arrangements like you're describing.
And they fail in every metric across the board. In part due to the inflexibility of the system to acquiesce to the arrangements, in part because the people making up the arrangements tend to be unreliable, especially the men, and it falls apart within a few years.

My parents are 20+ years married, so I take that as my primary focus.
I still don't see a incentive for young men to get married.
 

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i take responsibility for my safety

i am 100% comfortable with reality & all implications

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Thats how thots and simps are winning while people with integrity are losing. That mentality of "I got mine, and fukk yours" is cannibalizing society. Individualism from heterosexual males is being decimated by unity of feminism and external powers that are working their hardest to overthrow people like yu. If You yourself dont get harmed, everything around you will get destroyed. Thats not a world worth living in.
 

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Thats how thots and simps are winning while people with integrity are losing. That mentality of "I got mine, and fukk yours" is cannibalizing society. Individualism from heterosexual males is being decimated by unity of feminism and external powers that are working their hardest to overthrow people like yu. If You yourself dont get harmed, everything around you will get destroyed. Thats not a world worth living in.
everything is as it must be

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Cooking for the most part is what sets women apart from others. Likewise men being able to provide security sets them apart from others.

What can a woman do for you another can't? Cause all women can fukk, suck dikk, borrow you money, let your drive their car, look good, hit the gym, use make up or extensions to look better,

:ufdup: but not all women can cook a healthy hearty nutritious meal.

If you're a guy with his shyt together(career, mentally stable) all you're really looking for is a woman who is nurturing cooking is one of the ways women can set themselves.

lol. That's bullshyt. Macho-signalling, outdated gender roles bullshyt.

You can cook for yourself. You can cook for her in fact. Or any combination.

There's nothing special about cooking. No more special than doing the laundry or making the bed.

There are a million ways a woman can show you love that are more valuable than cooking. And if your cooking is so healthy, why the alarming incidence of obesity, high blood pressure, diabetes etc. in the black community? And if cooking is such a sign of "love" why are black relations swirling right down the toilet in 2019?

But I'm gonna take ya mans advice and not go back and forth with you guys.

Y'all aint trying to make sense -- you're trying to "machismo signal".

"A real man demands a woman dat bees a-COOKIN! Now call the ambalamps whilst I have my third heart attack":troll:


"Cause all women can fukk, suck dikk, borrow you money, let your drive their car, look good, hit the gym, use make up or extensions to look better.."

:mjlol::mjlol: :mjlol:

"I tell a good women by the way she cook rice"
:ohhh:...:mjlol:
 

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i agree

i have mine secured

& i am prepared to stand on it & for it

you answer for yourself

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It needs to b a movement as big as Civil Rights Movement. Nothing less. Get off the paradigm of "all for yourself" and start the movement of "integrity" to keep people of selfishness out.
 

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Wonderful response..it's interesting, a penalty of personal and financial successes.. or even the process of attaining such successes.. is that finding love and/or being in committed relationships is no longer an added benefit but is reduced to a calculated risk.

Jesus Christ.

I've tried to articulate this to myself a dozen-hundred times but could never come up with the words. This is exactly how I feel as a man who has freedom and means. Relationships offer no benefit. At all. It's all about assuming risk for someone you kinda care about, but could easily live without.

I need to read this a few dozen more times.
 

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I think the solution to the breakdown in "marriage" -- and the path to redefining it -- lies in actually talking to your woman about such things in real life. People talk about this stuff online, but in real life it's taboo -- so it gets to fester under the radar.

Talk to her about the gender wars, about the breakdown of marriage and black relations, etc. -- and see where her head is at.

Far more important that nonsense like "cooking" (:rolleyes:)-- having a woman who you can talk to about ANYTHING, without her becoming defensive, combative, or emotional -- is a great sign.

...Plus you spot those red flags early on by bringing up these topics, and be sure you're on the same page.
 
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