Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because "Women Aren't Women Anymore."

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Yo I let your dumb ass slide the first time- about your stereotypical Black comments but you sound mad stupid.
Nobody said anything about black community or black relationships.
I'm talking strictly male female gender roles- there is no culture in the world that doesn't expect a man to provide and a woman to nurture.

I specifically said cooking nutritious meals for the family- so i dont know where you got diabetes, high blood pressure from
nothing in my posts indicates im talking about bw or bm or the black community.:rudy:


stupid ass nikka:mjpls:

Who sounds "mad stupid"? :mjpls:

Seriously -- take your meds, son. You can ask your mom to help with the child-proof cap.
 

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When exactly was she single and free if she always was in relationships:patrice:...am I missing something:flabbynsick:

She recently had a baby and the father already bounced:heh:..

nikkas circling because she about to be "free" and explore..

Most women who get sheltered eventually "explore":hubie:....


Commitment is the male.vagIna

Some women don't get it most men just want to smash not be in a ltr
 

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Btw don't feel.sprry for older women. It's crazy that every woman I talk to like 28 plus had a great guy who loved them and wanted marriage but they didn't feel the same way. Now there Shawn Kemp in Cleveland status they are looking for that samw damn great guy they threw in the trash years ago
 

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Btw don't feel.sprry for older women. It's crazy that every woman I talk to like 28 plus had a great guy who loved them and wanted marriage but they didn't feel the same way. Now there Shawn Kemp in Cleveland status they are looking for that samw damn great guy they threw in the trash years ago

:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

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Btw don't feel.sprry for older women. It's crazy that every woman I talk to like 28 plus had a great guy who loved them and wanted marriage but they didn't feel the same way. Now there Shawn Kemp in Cleveland status they are looking for that samw damn great guy they threw in the trash years ago

:mjlol:

Kemp was :flabbynsick: in Cleveland!
 

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That’s not always the case breh .

I have a friend that’s a doctor .

She studied hard got through school .

Bought a crib ,travels and enjoys life .
Do you know how many nikkas kept asking what’s wrong with her .

They never thought maybe she had strict caribbean parents who made her finish school .

She also was always in a relationships since hs so she wanst out there like some women .


So in her late 20’s is when she got to date .

Recently had a baby now every nikka in the world tryna date her .

She like where the fukk were y’all at when I was single and free .


Shawty not with the father of her child so she single again . I guess dudes like ahh ok now you got a flaw .


That shyt is so crazy to me .



She is sheltered and flawed.
No man wants a poverty maker.
or a poverty maker mentality based women. Women who have kids out of wedlock are poverty makers and soft John the government for a check. When if she was really smart educated and successful like her life path suggests. She would not ever agree to be a poverty maker.

Showing you are educated as a woman.
strictly revolves around whether that female is an actualized poverty maker or not.
Same as a man.
I am a poverty maker so I call it how it is.
So since I recognize the other style of poverty makers opposite me. I hope people who have not committed to poverty making recognize the danger of poverty makers.

As past poverty makers and poverty makers all are slaves to using resources gained from the return of creating poverty. Which is why the world is crippled in the manner in which it is.

Practice and fully committ to safe sex.

If you not married with 50k in cds per child. You are a poverty maker.
Simple as that. America has been kept from us as what it is. This is capitalism. Stay down and capitalize.

Think of America like this place where you will be a veteran with war money comes back to and knows the new deal and think that way.

Meaning, stay in the bunker till you have the time and resources/supplies to win the battle. The battle is capitalism and for 50k in cd money or 200k. You should be free like the so called gold bricks and candy cane myths of America explain.


Instead our goof ass,... Is doing everything under the sun to spend to fit in. When if you just stayed down for four years of the first earning years of your eighteen year old duly life. You would never have to work again. Plus you could get this fit in image and wardrobe rather easily.
I feel so stupid after learning of the shyt all of us were doing it wrong. That I will tell everyone how I see to do it the least stressfull and do right.

Like literally ...
Could be in shelter for four years and in year four go to a rental paid for the year wash and repeat. To a house whenever after that you felt like it after budgeting.

Damn I feels stoopid and hopefully you change your life and and stop being stoopid like everyone else.

Literally rejoice in being poor and literally in six years you could never work again and live like a king. Or I. Your case thiefypoo a queen.
Just because you lived poor and stuck to the plan and said fukk living like everyone else.
Till you really were better than everyone else.

shyt is simple

Budget
Stack 25k a year off salary
Buy cd
Rinse
Repeat

By year eight you Sckraight and literally never have to work again.

I will never work again and by twenty eight you should not be at work either.



Art Barr

Be wise and learn from the twenty year mistake I learned from.
In 99, I learned what I was doing wrong. Then never changed it till twenty years later. Now I feel stoopif as fukk with Twenty years wasted of my life. The best value is the knowledge and experience. Yet I endure for naught. When I did not have to. I wanna make it so you guys and gals no longer have to.


You could work at Mickie d's and never work again after six years.


shyt makes me feel so damn dumb now.


Art Barr
 
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This is white guy shyt. The hatred towards men part ain't coming from black women (And one or two LSA post or tweets don't change that)
I’m in my 30s and majority of my FB “friends” are and all them chicks talk about are men and marriage. I can’t speak on other ethnicities but women of African descent love men.
 

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If you were indeed "pragmatic" you'd acknowledge that divorce rates indicate marriage isn't as reliable or stable as you perhaps think, despite outliers like your parents.

As most know, divorce rates are incredibly high and increasing rapidly. So you essentially want our communities to rely on a failing institution to keep our families together, does that really sound like a "pragmatic" solution to you?

This issue is alot more nuanced than you understand, which is a common problem I notice with your posts. You're a smart man with alot of potential but you need to be careful, you don't have all the answers.
Divorce rates rising or not, still far, far more stable that informal obligatory relationships.
“My baby’s father will pay 1/2 of these costs this month” is not a viable or stable way, and every single Black community in the US is a testament to this.

I’m not arguing that it’s a perfect solution, nor have I implied that.
I’m arguing it’s a better solution of the options available.

The issue is you’re adding to what I’m saying. Don’t do that.
 

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integrity is an individual matter*

Say it, Bruh.

As hazardous as the road is, everybody can only control their car.

So I ain't mad at ladies whose "integrity" won't let them get in the car with no "loser",
but I also ain't mad at no men whose "integrity" says they ain't pulling over for no broads who ain't kicking in...
 

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This is so circular.

People are lying to themselves, about themselves, and to others. Yet they demand accountability. It is more important to peacock & degrade than to be humble & edify - Imagine the benefits of that to self and community.

No one is looking at the real issue that affect BM, BW, us collectively - WS.
They extract our resources and you have those who consciously/zealously desire to give it to them by any means necessary even at the detriment of his own kind and eventually to himself/legacy. They are called c00ns for laughs, kicks and self importance.

They extort our resources and enjoy the spoils ill-gotten from generation to generation while we suffer for generations to come perpetuating the cycle. Actively participating.

No one wants to be who/what they are meant to be (men need to be in their role and women in theirs):
Women are the catalyst for change. Women are powerful. Still, every other single group/culture protects their women even if it is done through war. Why? Black men and women were/are UNDER ATTACK and incited to attack each other! WS gain because of it. They rise, benefit and strengthen from distracting us and pitting us against each other - the cancer runs deeply entrenched in our community.

We have the power still - we have outstanding achievements and accomplishments - singularly. Yet power IS IN NUMBERS. They know this and implement it in their groups. They try to divide and conquer us - They have tried to cripple us at every turn yet we are still here.

The day the black man wakes up and do what he is supposed to is the day that it will be over. WS know this. WS is hoping this day never comes and makes the effort every single day to delay it - Any attempts we make at empowering ourselves in key areas - Agriculture, Finance, Politics, Health, Sports/Entertainment (They murdered MJ 's father and thwarted his purchase of a team. They murdered Michael & Prince for their music rights, etc. They murdered 7 bankers, bombed black wall street, assassinated prolific leaders, poison our bodies with man made illnesses and treat us with subpar healthcare/insurance, indoctrinate young black boys & girls in their formative years in their lopsided learning institutions (black babies develop quicker and are smarter) they keep us out of agriculture and fine us for home gardens and flood us with fake food, they distract us with social media/TV and control the images of us which are usually negative (This is the real reason Bill Cosby is in jail and his son was murdered because he tried to own media and thus could potentially control the narrative and images we see. Why do you think WS buy BET, OWN, Essence, etc), they pit us against one another, they suppress/weaken the black man and try to make black women their concubines, they mass incarcerate us/murder us - lawfully and simultaneously exclude us from the right side of the law (judges/politicians), they reward Reverend Chickenbone to lull our women into false hope every Wednesday & Sunday. Many black neighborhoods have 4-5 churches which the Preachers do not reside yet extract from but not sow back into it in a meaningful way i.e purchasing the land, homes, all black home associations, keeping our neighborhoods black and not allowing gentrification. Yes, sick & shut in, feed the needy, etc is fine but we need to pool our resources! Wealth is in real estate. Yet in WS neighborhood there is 1 synagogue. They are more harmonious in their religions thus pooling resources while Christianity is too divisive i.e. Baptist, Pentecostal, etc thus further dividing our resources and beliefs.
White blue-eyed Jesus is going to reward us at the pearly gates for our long suffering here on earth. If WS didn't treat us right they aren't going to teach us right either.

You start with loving self first and foremost. Then that extends to loving those who REFLECTS you in your image - woman, offspring, family. If you see no value in that you are no value to our community and are harmful in your thinking thus subsequent actions. You will tear down not buildup - right next to WS.

Everyone is not marriage or parent material and not for the silly self-important, self-aggrandizing reasons lots of people think it is.

Black women are the catalyst for change and we are powerful...very. The day the black man owns his history/rightful place in this world and true knowledge of his purpose, it will be over. I don't see why this cannot be done together, as a group. WS know the results if we did wake up and come together.

PS - There are men in this thread who have said they don't date/dislike black women. Yet here they are with bells on dapping every single disparaging post against us. Like clockwork, they are in every thread dapping every negative foolish post about black women. They are weak and extremely poisonous - don't be influenced by them. I don't worry about or concern myself with people that I don't want romantically. That's what a healthy normal person does.
 
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When exactly was she single and free if she always was in relationships:patrice:...am I missing something:flabbynsick:

She recently had a baby and the father already bounced:heh:..

nikkas circling because she about to be "free" and explore..

Most women who get sheltered eventually "explore":hubie:....
I clearly said in her late 20’s she became single and free . She’s in her early 30’s now .

Basically through out hs and all of college was she in relationships .

She never really dated always had someone .

She wasn’t sheltered the fukk lol .

Shawty was in relationships .

Her parents was about school and she had to finish .

She had a little life just had to balance it .


Things didn’t work out with her child father is that unusually or something ? Does every relationship work ?
 
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