They make a real good point about alimony tho.
Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because "Women Aren't Women Anymore."
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He has a chronic illness?!
Young birdbrains turn into old bird brains.I tried to go the older women route earlier this year. Only to found out, @Hennessypapi was right about them being just as delusional and susceptible to game as young women.
I was likeif I'm going deal with this, I might as still mess with women my own age or younger.
@paperbag @Elle Driver
They never learn, just get worse as time goes by
Crazy thing is, they respond to the same game.
I'm like how are you still responding to the same crap, I've been using for 10 years on women in their early 20's.
Worst of all, the thirstiness and self disrespect in one woman turned me off so much, I wasn't even trying smash.
During the date she was trying constantly stare deep in my eyes and shyt, then afterward she was trying kiss and hold hands. She even tried to talk her way into something later on, meanwhile I was trying stay a gentleman while planning my exit home.
For me, I already knew if I even mildly entertained her, it would have been like dealing with a sprung young woman.
Elle Driver
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Because the parts of their brain responsible for critical thinking never develops properly.Crazy thing is, they respond to the same game.
I'm like how are you still responding to the same crap, I've been using for 10 years on women in their early 20's.
Worst of all, the thirstiness and self disrespect in one woman turned me off so much, I wasn't even trying smash.
During the date she was trying constantly stare deep in my eyes and shyt, then afterward she was trying kiss and hold hands. She even tried to talk her way into something later on, meanwhile I was trying stay a gentleman while planning my exit home.
For me, I already knew if I even mildly entertained her, it would have been like dealing with a sprung young woman.
Piff Perkins
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They've been heavily entering the work place since the 80s, this is not new. What is new is that women are beginning to out pace men when it comes to education. I actually agree, brehs need to step their game up in that regard. Women out number men in medical school now, for instance.
Women aren't just settling for losers anymore. Sure you can always find women who will settle, but overall a very large group of women are very career and education driven...and by the time they hit 25 years old they start lapping a lot of their male peers. Then they're in a situation where they have a decent-to-good job but have financial liabilities (student loans)...and they start looking for someone who can help them, who is on their level or ahead. I'm not saying they start looking for men who will give them money, sugar daddies etc. I'm talking about professional women who start looking for professional men. They want to build relationships and find some stability with dual incomes. This is why a lot of chicks in their 20s end up with guys in their late 20s/early 30s.
And what do they find, when they re-enter the dating word in their mid to late 20s? An army of bitter, unmotivated young men who have jack shyt going on for them in life. They ignore those men and look for more successful partners...and those bitter dudes get more bitter, more violent (in the case of white men), more miserable, etc. And then we get threads like...well, like the ones that constantly pop up on the Coli with dudes getting so EMOTIONAL and angry over women...doing random things lmao.
I'm 31, successful, doing good. It blows my mind how many women just outright FLOCK to me. Often times they're chicks who heard about me from someone at my job. Or they see me at a restaurant during my lunch hour, in a suit, and approach me. Women WANT relationships. They are literally out here searching everywhere for successful men - hell, they're searching for men who just have shyt going on in life, even if they aren't successful. THEY WANT YOU. You have to be available, by putting yourself in position. All these dating gurus and red pill bullshytters who have men living in the gym are missing the fukking point. It doesn't matter how brolic you are if you have no personality, no money, and no PATH in life.
Suleiman Bey
Banned
women ain't shyt.
Suleiman Bey
Banned
LMAO!! Women may have better education and better careers, but they are still chasing and lusting after "losers". They can finanace themselves, they need your time. Who has an abundance of free time but "losers"?They've been heavily entering the work place since the 80s, this is not new. What is new is that women are beginning to out pace men when it comes to education. I actually agree, brehs need to step their game up in that regard. Women out number men in medical school now, for instance.
Women aren't just settling for losers anymore. Sure you can always find women who will settle, but overall a very large group of women are very career and education driven...and by the time they hit 25 years old they start lapping a lot of their male peers. Then they're in a situation where they have a decent-to-good job but have financial liabilities (student loans)...and they start looking for someone who can help them, who is on their level or ahead. I'm not saying they start looking for men who will give them money, sugar daddies etc. I'm talking about professional women who start looking for professional men. They want to build relationships and find some stability with dual incomes. This is why a lot of chicks in their 20s end up with guys in their late 20s/early 30s.
And what do they find, when they re-enter the dating word in their mid to late 20s? An army of bitter, unmotivated young men who have jack shyt going on for them in life. They ignore those men and look for more successful partners...and those bitter dudes get more bitter, more violent (in the case of white men), more miserable, etc. And then we get threads like...well, like the ones that constantly pop up on the Coli with dudes getting so EMOTIONAL and angry over women...doing random things lmao.
I'm 31, successful, doing good. It blows my mind how many women just outright FLOCK to me. Often times they're chicks who heard about me from someone at my job. Or they see me at a restaurant during my lunch hour, in a suit, and approach me. Women WANT relationships. They are literally out here searching everywhere for successful men - hell, they're searching for men who just have shyt going on in life, even if they aren't successful. THEY WANT YOU. You have to be available, by putting yourself in position. All these dating gurus and red pill bullshytters who have men living in the gym are missing the fukking point. It doesn't matter how brolic you are if you have no personality, no money, and no PATH in life.
Hoodoo Child
The Urban Legend
What does a young man gain from bring married?
Suleiman Bey
Banned
A wife. A family. Unfortunately women have devalued themselves so greatly.
Cat piss martini
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hoe culture won.
this is the wrong climate for marriage.
this is the wrong climate for marriage.
Haven't used the term much in the past several weeks.
Has a cutting, angry term: I've heard it used long before "c00n" become the pejorative for Black people who tap-dance, parrot conservative Whites, or act in self-hating or purely ignorant manners.
Why?
Field Marshall Bradley
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hoe culture won.
this is the wrong climate for marriage.
Even though I’m about to get married, I’ve been blessed with the wisdom of Solomon to avoid the obvious, and not so obvious pitfalls when choosing a mate.. With that being said, I’m blessed to be in the minority....#hoeculturewon should be a hash tag movement, because it’s a fact.. and it’s spiritually important to recognize such...... so if you want to get married and build that legacy, it’s wise to move outside of western man’s thinking/ideology
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DrBanneker
Space is the Place
Marriage is about business and vision. The former has been talked about but not the latter. If you and your girl don't have a vision about what you want to achieve besides just "getting married" you aren't going to make it since you will lose perspective once it gets rough. The big issue is everyone thinks they need to be self-satisfied and not compromise. Trust me, I don't care how pretty she is, how many degrees she has, how much she makes, etc. If she (and you) aren't willing to compromise for each other's sake it is doomed.
I agree if you are in your early or mid twenties you should not consider marriage unless you truly have found a good woman...and even then push it off to the late twenties to get your life together.
However, a lot of you young cats will hit late 30s like me and see friends who have literally been playing the field for 20 years get worn down. The chicks blend together, the p*ssy doesn't continuously get better, and you can never trust jump offs, side chicks, etc.
I can only think of maybe one dude I grew up with who isn't asking me how to find someone good to settle down with. Problem is, now they have to dip into young chicks or just accept someone set in their ways.
I agree if you are in your early or mid twenties you should not consider marriage unless you truly have found a good woman...and even then push it off to the late twenties to get your life together.
However, a lot of you young cats will hit late 30s like me and see friends who have literally been playing the field for 20 years get worn down. The chicks blend together, the p*ssy doesn't continuously get better, and you can never trust jump offs, side chicks, etc.
I can only think of maybe one dude I grew up with who isn't asking me how to find someone good to settle down with. Problem is, now they have to dip into young chicks or just accept someone set in their ways.
