Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because "Women Aren't Women Anymore."
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They have education, but they dont invest their money or save it. At least, majority of the entitled feminists.
Your not saying anything new.They've been heavily entering the work place since the 80s, this is not new. What is new is that women are beginning to out pace men when it comes to education. I actually agree, brehs need to step their game up in that regard. Women out number men in medical school now, for instance.
Women aren't just settling for losers anymore. Sure you can always find women who will settle, but overall a very large group of women are very career and education driven...and by the time they hit 25 years old they start lapping a lot of their male peers. Then they're in a situation where they have a decent-to-good job but have financial liabilities (student loans)...and they start looking for someone who can help them, who is on their level or ahead. I'm not saying they start looking for men who will give them money, sugar daddies etc. I'm talking about professional women who start looking for professional men. They want to build relationships and find some stability with dual incomes. This is why a lot of chicks in their 20s end up with guys in their late 20s/early 30s.
And what do they find, when they re-enter the dating word in their mid to late 20s? An army of bitter, unmotivated young men who have jack shyt going on for them in life. They ignore those men and look for more successful partners...and those bitter dudes get more bitter, more violent (in the case of white men), more miserable, etc. And then we get threads like...well, like the ones that constantly pop up on the Coli with dudes getting so EMOTIONAL and angry over women...doing random things lmao.
I'm 31, successful, doing good. It blows my mind how many women just outright FLOCK to me. Often times they're chicks who heard about me from someone at my job. Or they see me at a restaurant during my lunch hour, in a suit, and approach me. Women WANT relationships. They are literally out here searching everywhere for successful men - hell, they're searching for men who just have shyt going on in life, even if they aren't successful. THEY WANT YOU. You have to be available, by putting yourself in position. All these dating gurus and red pill bullshytters who have men living in the gym are missing the fukking point. It doesn't matter how brolic you are if you have no personality, no money, and no PATH in life.
Redpill dudes constantly say you need
something that attracts women.
Fame
Game
Money
Looks
Or Status.
shyt anyone who made it to junior year in high school and payed attention knows this.
The problem is young women have power of their own sexuality while young men have to take responsibility for that shyt.
And nobody wants responsibility without perks.
Trades is basically education breh, you not gonna make any money in it if you aren't willing to learn constantly, the damn codebooks change every couple of years by necessity. Unless you just mean white collar work, which they'll end up deciding not to have cause future generations of women aren't gonna want to work themselves to the point they can't have a family.
Piff Perkins
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Men don't have sexual power? Lmao
Taadow
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Fam...I seen this book in the car of a broad I know...
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What? How is it a nessecity when two people can have access to all those things without being married?
Marriage most of the time is sought after because women want the traditionalist "wedding experience" and see it as the ultimate sign of commitment (untill the novelty wears off, of course...).
It's a traditional, archaic and wasteful ceremony, which is why it surprises me that liberals like you advocate for it.
Sounds like a intro to a future mass shooter storyThey've been heavily entering the work place since the 80s, this is not new. What is new is that women are beginning to out pace men when it comes to education. I actually agree, brehs need to step their game up in that regard. Women out number men in medical school now, for instance.
Women aren't just settling for losers anymore. Sure you can always find women who will settle, but overall a very large group of women are very career and education driven...and by the time they hit 25 years old they start lapping a lot of their male peers. Then they're in a situation where they have a decent-to-good job but have financial liabilities (student loans)...and they start looking for someone who can help them, who is on their level or ahead. I'm not saying they start looking for men who will give them money, sugar daddies etc. I'm talking about professional women who start looking for professional men. They want to build relationships and find some stability with dual incomes. This is why a lot of chicks in their 20s end up with guys in their late 20s/early 30s.
And what do they find, when they re-enter the dating word in their mid to late 20s? An army of bitter, unmotivated young men who have jack shyt going on for them in life. They ignore those men and look for more successful partners...and those bitter dudes get more bitter, more violent (in the case of white men), more miserable, etc. And then we get threads like...well, like the ones that constantly pop up on the Coli with dudes getting so EMOTIONAL and angry over women...doing random things lmao.
I'm 31, successful, doing good. It blows my mind how many women just outright FLOCK to me. Often times they're chicks who heard about me from someone at my job. Or they see me at a restaurant during my lunch hour, in a suit, and approach me. Women WANT relationships. They are literally out here searching everywhere for successful men - hell, they're searching for men who just have shyt going on in life, even if they aren't successful. THEY WANT YOU. You have to be available, by putting yourself in position. All these dating gurus and red pill bullshytters who have men living in the gym are missing the fukking point. It doesn't matter how brolic you are if you have no personality, no money, and no PATH in life.
Who has final say in having a baby or not.
Do men get to say "I'm not paying for a baby I didn't want."
How likely are men to get custody of kids when they do want them?
Men literally makeup for a lack of sexual power with other things
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when you at the top of the hierarchy they obey
the complaints ain't coming from the top
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the complaints ain't coming from the top
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The thing is, very few man at the top. Most of the men nowadays are (under) employed and struggling. They are the ones that cause pointless shootings and murders. And its only increasing. You want that status quo to remain? Cause that future sounds bleak
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it is what it is*The thing is, very few man at the top. Most of the men nowadays are (under) employed and struggling. They are the ones that cause pointless shootings and murders. And its only increasing. You want that status quo to remain? Cause that future sounds bleak
I'm not a liberal.
That "we can do it without marriage" quote sounds nice.
I'm pragmatic, I know full-well that it doesn't actually happen in real life.
Poorer communities and impoverished ethnic communities in particular rely more on informal arrangements like you're describing.
And they fail in every metric across the board. In part due to the inflexibility of the system to acquiesce to the arrangements, in part because the people making up the arrangements tend to be unreliable, especially the men, and it falls apart within a few years.
My parents are 20+ years married, so I take that as my primary focus.
