why it always gotta be extremes a billionaire vs a dude making 80kIn these convos I think you gotta be more specific about the amount of money. I asked a female friend if all else equal (eg age, personality) she would choose a breh with 6/10 physical attractiveness and he’s a billionaire or a dude 10/10 physical attractiveness with normal income and she swiftly replied the billionaire without hesitation lol.
what people call clout is just popularityVery interesting convo to re-up. I'll say from 2018 to now; escorting/tricking is at an all-time high.
I'll say clout is even MORE important for easy access nowadays.
so you think the answer would be different for menA 6/10 guy can still be considered handsome. Women are wired differently and genuinely turned on by wealth and power.
what people call clout is just popularity
popularity is just awareness of your existence
How can a woman want you if she doesnt know you exist
if your a 6/10 thats has the attention of 100k women vs a 10/10 that has the attention of 1000 women
the 100k dude will eat more its a numbers game
Women have 2 online dating accountVery interesting convo to re-up. I'll say from 2018 to now; escorting/tricking is at an all-time high.
I'll say clout is even MORE important for easy access nowadays.
In this environment, it would be very hard to compete. It's possible, but hard. Remember the market is all optics now. The girls are being sold the instagram dream(likes, nice cars, expensive vacation, gucci bags) not the marriage and perfect family dream.
Case in point. We busy planning our wedding this year. My lady and I were invited to this other wedding last weekend. Man the dude went all out. Booked the perfect place, super expensive and everything was beautiful and classy and people were blown away. Knowing already what our budget was and how we are going to do our wedding(much less extravagant and low budget), my lady was a bit grumpy our whole ride back. She didn't even want to discuss OUR wedding and how we would go about it coz her heart and emotions well full on that expensive wedding. She was already contrasting and comparing(probably even her choice of groom lol). You could tell that she was envious of the other friend of hers who just had the perfect wedding(like i said, the idea of money and extravagance is the currency, not getting married to a man you love)
If we were not engaged already or too serious, you think if a guy with money came she wouldn't bush me? Of course she would. It's just one of those things that we as guys have to deal with now. Social media makes people see everything, even the best things. So women constantly want better.
You created that whole story in your head about your girl instead of initiating a conversation. Secondly, women aren't a monolith you could have chosen a woman with different values. You sound mad insecure, why would you marry someone who you feel like would leave for another man with money.In this environment, it would be very hard to compete. It's possible, but hard. Remember the market is all optics now. The girls are being sold the instagram dream(likes, nice cars, expensive vacation, gucci bags) not the marriage and perfect family dream.
Case in point. We busy planning our wedding this year. My lady and I were invited to this other wedding last weekend. Man the dude went all out. Booked the perfect place, super expensive and everything was beautiful and classy and people were blown away. Knowing already what our budget was and how we are going to do our wedding(much less extravagant and low budget), my lady was a bit grumpy our whole ride back. She didn't even want to discuss OUR wedding and how we would go about it coz her heart and emotions well full on that expensive wedding. She was already contrasting and comparing(probably even her choice of groom lol). You could tell that she was envious of the other friend of hers who just had the perfect wedding(like i said, the idea of money and extravagance is the currency, not getting married to a man you love)
If we were not engaged already or too serious, you think if a guy with money came she wouldn't bush me? Of course she would. It's just one of those things that we as guys have to deal with now. Social media makes people see everything, even the best things. So women constantly want better.
This is not true. If a bytch want you for your money, she like your money not you. This is why rich men stay getting finessed (i.e. Tracy Morgan, Wiz Khalifa, Mos Def). When a bytch is giving you the googly eyes in public, she is signaling that she is feeling you. She doesn't know what kind of car you drive unless you peep her in traffic or the parking lot. Nowadays, all that designer and hyped up shyt has 1:1 reps or your priorities might be out of wack so she don't know you got money because of your dress code either.
People who think all that money is what matters are lames. That's why the ultimate diss to rich nikkas is you wasn't getting hoes before you got paper.
And nikkas with money be having their bytches cheat on them with broke nikkas. It's a tale old as time. The rich housewife getting piped by the pool boy.
When women say they ain't attracted to 80% of men, they aren't talking financially. If bad bytches you don't know never giving you that lustful eye, trying to get close to you etc. You ain't him.
Plenty of woman not gonna let you fukk just cuz you got moneyIt depends on what you want. Looks and clout gets the bytch but money ultimately keeps the bytch. Also, the same way a broke dude can fukk a rich dudes bytch, a rich dude would have an even easier time fukking a broke dudes bytch. I do well financially but I have friends with a bag and they’re not particularly handsome or clouted up but they do hella number.
A bytch can make her mouth say anything but when a man pulls up in a S class or a 7 series, he’s well dressed, and smelling good… Unless he’s completely disgusting looking, she going to be intrigued and she will stick around even if he’s not tricking off.
There is a reason why many rich famous men have average to moderately attractive looking wives that they knew before the wealth and the fame. Look at TI, Snoop, E-40, Lebron, Kendrick. They stuck with their day ones and probably cheated on the low with countless dimes who they smashed on the under. Because they are smart enough to know that’s all many dimes are good for. They can’t cook, can’t clean, have no personality and only trying to get over on looks in life period and too many dimes are just trying to capitalize of their sexual market value as much as possible especially in the social media age. Men who get trophy wives after they are rich and famous get finessed the most.No one is saying money is all that matters. But there’s a difference between a girl liking you for your money and a girl liking you more because you have money. A girl who likes someone without money will probably like him even more with money. And most women with wealthy men aren’t cheating on their man like that unless there’s a major age gap and/or the dude is cheating on her a lot leading to a breakdown in the emotional connection and her seeking it with someone else. The women I know with rich dudes who treat them well look at their men with admiration.