You cannot compete with a breh with money?

[Bumblebreh]

what people call clout is just popularity
popularity is just awareness of your existence
How can a woman want you if she doesnt know you exist
if your a 6/10 thats has the attention of 100k women vs a 10/10 that has the attention of 1000 women
the 100k dude will eat more its a numbers game

Before social, yes. But in the era of social media the dynamics can change, all it takes is one photo of the handsome dude to go viral.

There is a reason why many rich famous men have average to moderately attractive looking wives that they knew before the wealth and the fame. Look at TI, Snoop, E-40, Lebron, Kendrick. They stuck with their day ones and probably cheated on the low with countless dimes who they smashed on the under. Because they are smart enough to know that’s all many dimes are good for. They can’t cook, can’t clean, have no personality and only trying to get over on looks in life period and too many dimes are just trying to capitalize of their sexual market value as much as possible especially in the social media age. Men who get trophy wives after they are rich and famous get finessed the most.

If you can’t bag multiple baddies with little to no money, you ain’t gonna keep a trophy wife just because you came up and now have money.

It’s kinda like how some people can go into the thrift store and come out looking more dripped out than someone who goes into Neimans and Saks with thousands only to come out looking like a generic high school student/drill rapper NPC. There are things money can’t buy. Raw attraction is one of those things. You really think a dime is getting wet looking at a George Costanza looking cac?

If you don’t got pull with women, you need to work on more than your finances. You probably have no aura, no mystique, no personality, no real style, no real conversational skill, no interesting life stories, no interesting hobbies, nothing that sets you apart from the masses of men out there who all aspire to look, talk, dress and think alike.

A perfect example is the fr3sh guy fron fr3sh and fit. Breh was making school boy errors.

 

[Turbulent]

Game is the foundation. Looks, being in shape, money are the cheat codes. But game is still the foundation.

The money gives you more access. It buys you some time. Same with being good looking. Keeps her attention slightly longer. Gives you slightly more leeway to fukk up. But eventually all that extra time you manage to squeeze out of your money and good looks runs out. And if you act unattractive, she will stop giving you play.

 

[LunaticVillage415]

It’s about perceived value too. If women see that other women want you, especially women who very attractive want your ass, she want your ass too. It’s sort of like how all these hyped up Nike’s cost no more than $30 to make yet dumb ass people justify paying thousands of dollars in resale to have them. Yet, nobody cares about the handmade dress shoes crafted by an actual artisan in Italy that are actually worth a grand and up.

Many of the finest women are actually lonely as fukk. They get on dating apps, and every nikka on the app tries to holler and their inbox ends up look like a spam folder in their female mind. When the whole app tries to holler, no man on there seems genuine I guess. And few nikkas in real life shoot their shot or only nikkas they ain’t attracted to at all shoot their shot. Or she plays too many mindgames trying to vet the man she is feeling and they get tired of that shyt quick and stop chasing. If she ain’t feeling you from jump, your bank account don’t matter unless she a straight gold digger. Money definitely helps and many respectable women don’t want a broke ass man, but it ain’t the end all be all.

 

[Primetime]

Money will always be a factor in dating to an extent, no matter the habitat (nightlife, corporate, medical, etc). But most women also know that "Trey Songs or a Lawyer" isn't really a choice, bc Trey Songs is just gonna pump and dump her.

Trey Songs also knows that he ain't getting all those 9s and 10s slobbering on him if he wasn't rich. Drake, Future, Tupac, etc they all know/knew this as well. Tupac spoke on this long ago. So as a man, if you're relying on money to pull women, just make sure you're aware/at peace with what that all entails.

 

[Primetime]

And as an aside, clout-chasing is just a more low-risk form of what crypto, sports betting, gambling, and the lottery is = get rich quick endeavors that quickly become toxic/detrimental for those too impulsive. "Clout" is simply having a favorable opportunity cost to your name that catches the eyes of sponsors, corps, and celebs looking to make money with you or off of you. It still comes down to money one way or another.

 

[lib123]

There is a reason why many rich famous men have average to moderately attractive looking wives that they knew before the wealth and the fame. Look at TI, Snoop, E-40, Lebron, Kendrick. They stuck with their day ones and probably cheated on the low with countless dimes who they smashed on the under. Because they are smart enough to know that’s all many dimes are good for. They can’t cook, can’t clean, have no personality and only trying to get over on looks in life period and too many dimes are just trying to capitalize of their sexual market value as much as possible especially in the social media age. Men who get trophy wives after they are rich and famous get finessed the most.

If you can’t bag multiple baddies with little to no money, you ain’t gonna keep a trophy wife just because you came up and now have money.

It’s kinda like how some people can go into the thrift store and come out looking more dripped out than someone who goes into Neimans and Saks with thousands only to come out looking like a generic high school student/drill rapper NPC. There are things money can’t buy. Raw attraction is one of those things. You really think a dime is getting wet looking at a George Costanza looking cac?

If you don’t got pull with women, you need to work on more than your finances. You probably have no aura, no mystique, no personality, no real style, no real conversational skill, no interesting life stories, no interesting hobbies, nothing that sets you apart from the masses of men out there who all aspire to look, talk, dress and think alike.

If your only value is in your wallet and your bytch look visually mismatched with you because how bad she is, the relationship is obviously transactional and you will be finessed in the long run. You gotta have something else to back that money up like looks, height, clout, personality etc.

I get where you’re coming from about attracting women only because of money but there are also dimes that are attracted to different things, especially when you consider women across cultures and races. A dude that got women in the hood growing up because he has attributes that most Black women consider attractive wouldn’t have the same success with girls at Princeton. And again, it depends on how much money the dude in question we're talking about has amassed and assuming he's average to above average in attractiveness. A trophy wife isn't going to risk her relationship with a 5 or 6 in physical attractiveness who's a billionaire because she will probably never have a chance of being with a guy like that again in life.

 

[Diyhai]

Before social, yes. But in the era of social media the dynamics can change, all it takes is one photo of the handsome dude to go viral.




A perfect example is the fr3sh guy fron fr3sh and fit. Breh was making school boy errors.

What is the difference the popular people in your neighborhood/school just “look cool”
A cool person is a cool person wherever they go
And that “whatever” that draws people to them

 

[Van Cleef]

if ur handsome you can

 

[Van Cleef]

Game is the foundation. Looks, being in shape, money are the cheat codes. But game is still the foundation.

The money gives you more access. It buys you some time. Same with being good looking. Keeps her attention slightly longer. Gives you slightly more leeway to fukk up. But eventually all that extra time you manage to squeeze out of your money and good looks runs out. And if you act unattractive, she will stop giving you play.

there is no such thing as game... just be handsome and dont be needy

 

[LunaticVillage415]

I get where you’re coming from about attracting women only because of money but there are also dimes that are attracted to different things, especially when you consider women across cultures and races. A dude that got women in the hood growing up because he has attributes that most Black women consider attractive wouldn’t have the same success with girls at Princeton. And again, it depends on how much money the dude in question we're talking about has amassed and assuming he's average to above average in attractiveness. A trophy wife isn't going to risk her relationship with a 5 or 6 in physical attractiveness who's a billionaire because she will probably never have a chance of being with a guy like that again in life.

I think the playing field is more even now because whites and non-blacks from even the most privileged of economic backgrounds have completely co-opted most black aesthetics and mainstream “urban” culture at this point. Even whiteys in the richest areas wearing Air Forces, Jordan’s, Dunks, white girls be wanting a fat ass if they don’t have one. Gen Z has no self awareness. Bunch of Vanilla Ice, Marky Mark, Miley Cyrus in 2013 type of people. And all other races follow whiteys.

So now, if you actually authentically fly and grew up cut from that cloth, which very few people are these days, all races from all income brackets from the cul de sacs to the projects will fukk with you. There is no more stigma of dressing too black, talking too black, acting too black or too hood because whiteys gentrified mainstream black culture.

 

[Diyhai]

And as an aside, clout-chasing is just a more low-risk form of what crypto, sports betting, gambling, and the lottery is = get rich quick endeavors that quickly become toxic/detrimental for those too impulsive. "Clout" is simply having a favorable opportunity cost to your name that catches the eyes of sponsors, corps, and celebs looking to make money with you or off of you. It still comes down to money one way or another.

You can have clout and be broke
Money and clout don’t go together
It’s plenty of parties being rich can’t get you in
You have to be “cool” enough to be in the room sometimes

 

[lib123]

I think the playing field is more even now because whites and non-blacks from even the most privileged of economic backgrounds have completely co-opted most black aesthetics and mainstream “urban” culture at this point. Even whiteys in the richest areas wearing Air Forces, Jordan’s, Dunks, white girls be wanting a fat ass if they don’t have one. Gen Z has no self awareness. Bunch of Vanilla Ice, Marky Mark, Miley Cyrus in 2013 type of people. And all other races follow whiteys.

So now, if you actually authentically fly and grew up cut from that cloth, which very few people are these days, all races from all income brackets from the cul de sacs to the projects will fukk with you. There is no more stigma of dressing too black, talking too black, acting too black or too hood because whiteys gentrified mainstream black culture.

Yeah people can connect on more surface level things like clothes and music. But still someone who grew up in the hood is still gonna have trouble relating to someone who grew up in a privileged environment and vice versa. And other groups who co-opt Black people the most (eg Italian Americans) still hold very stereotypical and racist views about Black people collectively, especially Black people from the hood.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

there is no such thing as game... just be handsome and dont be needy

No such thing as being charming, convincing, sweet talking or flat out lying to get p*ssy?

In what world?

 

[Van Cleef]

No such thing as being charming, convincing, sweet talking or flat out lying to get p*ssy?

In what world?

@Thurgood Thurston III

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

No such thing as being charming, convincing, sweet talking or flat out lying to get p*ssy?

In what world?

All of those things are colored by a woman's attraction for you.

If she doesn't find you physically attractive, you can't charm her nor sweet talk her.... at least in regards to casual sex. Stuff like that holds more weight when pursuing a woman for committed relationships.

Sure, you can use coercion and manipulation to have sex with a woman, but that's no longer "game" now is it?