Y’all should be concerned about single men. Not single women.

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In all honesty breh, social skills, body language, charisma etc are not things that can be taught

It was skills people naturally developed. It’s lacking nowadays because people socialize way more online than in person. That led to the social awkwardness that made these traits more rare.

Main thing standing in a man’s way is his own fear of rejection. The fact dudes want to know what’s the perfect way to talk and act to have a sure fire way to bag women is rooted in the fear of rejection. Wanting to know how to have a damn near 100% success rate is rooted in the fear of rejection.

I believe it CAN be taught, but doing so would upset the social order of Hypergamy
 

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I believe it CAN be taught, but doing so would upset the social order of Hypergamy

Nah breh I’m telling u from experience, these things are to be learned thru experience

Like I said, the root of all this is fear of rejection. It’s trying to find an absolute definite way to get women at all times to avoid rejection. Eliminating fear of rejection is the key.

The game is to be bold not told :mjgrin:
 

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Nah breh I’m telling u from experience, these things are to be learned thru experience

Like I said, the root of all this is fear of rejection. It’s trying to find an absolute definite way to get women at all times to avoid rejection. Eliminating fear of rejection is the key.

The game is to be bold not told :mjgrin:

Game is meant to be passed down, not clowned. Nothing is a 100% certainty, but giving a solid blueprint goes a far way.
 

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Game is meant to be passed down, not clowned. Nothing is a 100% certainty, but giving a solid blueprint goes a far way.

I wouldn’t ever clown a dude who struggles with women :gucci:

As a matter of fact these pandering ass posts in these threads where dudes co-sign women on some “I don’t have these problems :umad:” be some clown shyt because I know they’re fronting. Men who are successful/have had success with women don’t clown men who aren’t.

Im actually giving u a gem breh. If you pay attention to what you’re asking for, it’s basically how to avoid rejection.
 
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As a single man I just jerk off when horny and play some video games until I'm sleepy, women on the other hand after certain age start having panic attacks about not being a mother yet, not to mention the deep depression during valentines and new years eve.

By the way...it's hunting day in a week my single brehs :blessed: I'm 3-2 in the last 5 valentine days.
 

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But it shouldn’t be that way. Why should men be lonely and why aren’t there open conversations about it?

I know one reason a lot of men are homeless compared to women is because of all the social safety nets women get (DV situations, mothers w/ kids are usually first in line for aid etc). But what about the social circles? Why do men have such limited social circles even with their own families? Anyone reading this can chip in on their own experiences…
Who gets drafted? Who is first line of defense? Women and children are pirority first. Who decides what should and shouldnt be some way? Also, theres already tons of research on why women and nen differ socially. But what difference does it make? Women are usually valued more socially. Nothing really more to it imo. The world will never be a perfect utopia. Theres winners and losers. It is what it is.
 

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I wouldn’t ever clown a dude who struggles with women :gucci:

As a matter of fact these pandering ass posts in these threads where dudes co-sign women on some “I don’t have these problems :umad:” be some clown shyt because I know they’re fronting. Men who are successfulhave had success with women don’t clown men who aren’t.

Im actually giving u a gem breh. If you pay attention to what you’re asking for, it’s basically how to avoid rejection.

I actually agree :hubie:
 

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I agree people are more public with how they’re feeling nowadays but people we’re definitely happier back then than now. I’d argue social media has made people more miserable than anything else. It’s has such a strong reach, it even effects those who don’t participate.

Anyone old enough to remember knows people were way happier in the 90s and even 00s than the 10s and up. Even the battle of the sexes was way less toxic. It was light hearted jokes between men and women not rooted in bitterness and misery while accusing others of being bitter and miserable.

On this site we have women who want to get married someday making arguments about how women who remain single are happy. That’s a coping mechanism of them coming to the realization of that being their future. They lash out with all kinds of insults and assumptions also as a coping mechanism. Then try to disguise it as concern or wanting to have a genuine discourse :comeon:

This thread itself was a spin off from a thread where OP got offended by a male poster asking the same question about women that she stated as an absolute fact for men here.

Also this:

Why is plastic surgery so high nowadays? Even among black women, the amount of BBL procedures and ass injextions never been higher historically. Women 20 years ago weren't like this.
 

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women good men bad :unimpressed:

Yeah, even with facts being spit in this thread, they still shyt on men, instead of helping them and building them up. Its disgusting and abnormal, in historical term.

The pursuit of superficial materialistic needs, really fukked up male/female relations in America.
 
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