Would you date an effeminate man?

[wickedsm]

Not certain about their status...except for @wickedsm. They weren't always married though so perhaps will still contribute to your thread!

tftt

no i wouldnt.
no i never have.
a sniff of effeminate would make my vagina shrivel up and try to run for shelter.


no offense to any effeminate men here on the coli.
im a very agressive woman and i am attracted to men that are more aggressive than me.

 

[Neuromancer]

Not my type...I can't respect a man who is superficial and superfluous... It's a waste of energy and breath...

I don't understand this defer decision stuff... We are a team... Major ones we make together and minor ones we call audibles independently of each other... This guy just sounds lazy and uninspired

Nice football reference. What if you disagree on the big ones? Do you rock/paper/scissor it? Do you have a favorite sandwich?

 

[Luna]

I worry about some people's perception of reality. Lol I'm not moved by abstract buzzwords as "lead." There is only 'my life' and 'your life.' Take care of yours and while I gladly take care of my personal decisions. Being in a healthy relationship requires compromise and understanding on both sides, if it ever comes down to it. Surprisingly, couples should expect to hear their partners' input regardless of their gender. But what do I know, being disconnected from conservative honor code and all.
That being said, since I'm shy myself, I love a guy who is shy and quirky.

 

[Neuromancer]

tftt

no i wouldnt.
no i never have.
a sniff of effeminate would make my vagina shrivel up and try to run for shelter.


no offense to any effeminate men here on the coli.
im a very agressive woman and i am attracted to men that are more aggressive than me.

Dually noted, Aunty.

 

[Paradise]

There is nothing wrong with being shy... but when the man too shy it's a problem.

I shouldn't have to reassure him all of the time like I'm his mama.

Most women are looking for a man to be the leader in the relationship and when he fails to do so that kinda makes him look less manly.

 

[Neuromancer]

I worry about some people's perception of reality. Lol I'm not moved by abstract buzzwords as "lead." There is only 'my life' and 'your life.' Take care of yours and while I gladly take care of my personal decisions. Being in a healthy relationship requires compromise and understanding on both sides, if it ever comes down to it. Surprisingly, couples should expect to hear their partners' input regardless of their gender. But what do I know, being disconnected from conservative honor code and all.
That being said, since I'm shy myself, I love a guy who is shy and quirky.

Where did I say they shouldn't? I always ask my gf her opinion on things of import, when she has something to say I'm all ears. She usually defers to me though. Define disconnected from honor. I assume you have some code of honor , correct? I don't imagine you're dishonest or dishonorable.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Aggression is manly


Got it

 

[Neuromancer]

Aggression is manly


Got it

You know that's not what I wrote.

 

[Elle Driver]

Helllll no. Mamas boy???? That's the worst.

 

[Luna]

Where did I say they shouldn't? I always ask my gf her opinion on things of import, when she has something to say I'm all ears. She usually defers to me though. Define disconnected from honor. I assume you have some code of honor , correct? I don't imagine you're dishonest or dishonorable.

By 'conservative honor code' i meant an euphemism for these guidelines defining 'real men' and 'real women', which I can't relate to. I'm all for gender neutrality. On a date I would pay for what I eat, is an example. But that's just me

 

[CinnaSlim]

Nah.

 

[Neuromancer]

By 'conservative honor code' i meant an euphemism for these guidelines defining 'real men' and 'real women', which I can't relate to. I'm all for gender neutrality. On a date I would pay for what I eat, is an example. But that's just me

Oh gotcha.

 

[The Mad Titan]

You know that's not what I wrote.

Yeah, its what I gather from the thread though, over all it seems like aggression is a pretty suitable substitute for manliness.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yeah, its what I gather from the thread though, over all it seems like aggression is a pretty suitable substitute for manliness.

Hmm. lemme go back through it ,broski.

 

[Ol’Otis]

Would have made an exception for Prince (RIP)...Only.

I like MANi's and pedi's