Attack? You're reaching and you know it. You want your side to be heard understandbly but this is not the way to go about it.
What you need to understand that there is a disconnect between black men and women and there needs to be a very honest dialog between us. In order to do this effectively we must be respectful, diplomatic and willing to hear out different opinions without judgement and name-calling.
What you also need to understand is that most of the male posters in this thread (and most Coli posters in general), save for 1 or 2, have been anything but respectful and have resorted to name calling and gross accusations.
If you don't want your argument to fall on deaf ears, try choosing your words more carefully and use tact in your delivery.
You're nuts if you expect any decent woman in this discussion to respond to some of this trash favorably.
And it's this very disrespect (which is what these ladies are trying to tell you) that is driving them away from black men.
These women aren't making up lame excuses to jump ship from the black race. They are not self-hating. They are not pro-white/anti-black, they are pro respect and they feel that it has eluded them from the very men they should be getting it from.
And if we don't get this from our natural partners then yes, we will leave and seek other options.
Now what black men may want to consider is if they will carry on the way many have been or if they will take an honest look at themselves, accept constructive criticism and make changes where fit.
really,...
only reason black men are not consistently having this dialogue is because in general our females disallow their education and facts.
in favor of parroting talking points given to them by an oppressor.
plus, the majority of our educated sisters have become bedroom bussa eic /cs support vampires and deflect away from their purposeful destruction of the black community.
by purposefully, finishing school with an education where a sociology course on poverty I nationally required to graduate from college.
yet, totally ignore any facts in said course.
to trap, jail, and demonize their lovers/mate by purposefully using the black male for children out of wedlock to engage jn reverse sexist laws and false traditionalism to save face.
While they purposefully and factually create poverty on purpose.
while deflecting away from their education base, facts, etc.
to then use a deflection narcissistic based system to cover their wrong doing in this.
plus, use a traditionally racist system to cover up their wrong doing. All because society has demeaned both sides and are compensated financially/benefits/shelter.
which purposefully seeds the prison economy system.
In favor of bullshyt feminist stances not welled in any sociological fact.
plus, ignore sociological fact they learned getting a degree.
plus, culturally any and every other race demonizes their women for children out of wedlock.
yet, since black females who subscribe to this mentality revel in it.
all, because they were given a fake false positive as mother matriarch by a patriarch led society being demonstrative to their own race.
so, spare me all the bullshyt.
It is a fact black women have gravitated towards this.
All from being given a matriarch control over the black American race.
this is in general, whether our women are educated/uneducated.
so, why is it black women try to act so above.
It is because they gravitatrd towards being in a mother matriarch role from the oppressor.
Then, are educated enough not to do so, and continue to do so.
this thread exposes the long con that the oppressor has grafted onto our women, and the veil of bullshyt they subscribe to because they have been given a role of power.
war, is fought by controlling a people's warriors and most importantly that op's women. They have control over our women kn a level.
Our educated women don't even want to acknowledge.
To the point every image of black american lifestyle has been compromised in Full scope.
which makes it so there is no refuge as a black person to find quality culturally driven and forthright in the black community in general.
I am glad this thread exists.
As, it tackles yet another good faith image of the black community that has been compromised in full.
that once, had a semblance of hope.
Plus, if angela Davis is a bedwench turn coat feminist.
What makes any other black female think she is super righteous because of natural hair off gp.
The hairstyle is just part of the long con, in the white degradation of black american life.
Art Barr
