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We also need to deconstruct these things with a critical mind to see if they reinforce sexism, misogyny, and patriarchy. Men get mad about plenty of things that they think are tied to manhood, but don't have any importance beyond what society arbitrarily tells us they have.
Basically, people need to understand intersectionality as a concept, and respect the experiences that different groups of people have and how different oppressions interact with each other.
The more BM and BW sit around slinging shyt at each other and showing an unwillingness to concede a point, the less understanding there is, the worse the situation is. Guess who that benefits...
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Yes, you are correct. We need to equip ourselves with knowledge of these things and how they work, and discuss it diplomatically with the opposite sex.
We need to also start protecting our image that is put out in the world and holding those who try to damage it accountable.
The first bold.I truly and honestly do not believe that the vast majority of black women who have dated IR do so for superficial reasons or white worship. *if* you truly are seeing a rise in black women/ white men in our media, ask yourself if we're still outpacing black men. Do you think this would've even happened if black men were holding us down like they should've been?
White people are everywhere and they outnumber us by a lot, #1.
#2, it's an unfortunate observation for me to have to make but in general they are more emotionally healthy and viable for relationships. Blame it on the fact that they're families haven't been persecuted by oppression, blame it on economical disadvantages that cause us to not be as carefree and open whatever.... If it remains that Tyler is going to treat me with dignity, consider my thoughts and feelings and make me feel like a woman, I'm going in that direction. This goes for black men or women, I believe. We're going to go where we feel appreciated and genuinely loved.
Too much of a sexual component has been made of black relationships and it seems many black men somehow think that a woman simply being white will produce these feelings of adoration and respect in him.
naw I say that because white men are known to rape black women and get away with it for years.
get all in your feelings and neg me for truth. also I go at male c00ns on this site daily so miss me with that bullshyt. whites just look at it as a fantasy.
I said it about males in the thread about the movie with bedwenching cheating wife....so keep talking shyt out your ass.
the blackwomen on this site never say anything about a black woman with a white man. it always ends up in the race track and them defending them or being silent. not one black girl.
but I know for fact some guys on the coli including me don't praise interracial shyt with white females like its the best thing since heaven.
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are you bringing up slave rape? why do you guys always do this? if you want to see black women protest interracial dating go to LSA. they do it all the time to the swirlers.
i'm just looking for a good man, and since I know my black woman stock is low I gotta take what I can get with no room to be picky. a .04% chance is better than nothing.
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But yet the majority of black men who date IR have self hate.:FMJR:
The second bold.
You remember you said about media propaganda against blacks, well your spreading propaganda with that statement which is far from the truth.![]()
@Sunshine alias...finally figured it out
no, I am not.
i am simply agreeing with all the things you guys tell me about black women.
are you bringing up slave rape? why do you guys always do this? if you want to see black women protest interracial dating go to LSA. they do it all the time to the swirlers.
i'm just looking for a good man, and since I know my black woman stock is low I gotta take what I can get with no room to be picky. a .04% chance is better than nothing.
The problem is that your giving black women a pass when it comes to IR dating and that stating that black men do it out of self hate.What statement? How am I spreading propaganda?
Just listen to what many black men have put out there in popular music and media and you can clearly see there is self-hate going on.
I don't presume to know why *every* black man enters into an interracial relationship nor should I. For some it may be convenience, for others the stars just aligned so that he fell in love and yet for others they pursue IR because of some self-hatred. However,but there is a litmus test and when you see certain things repeatedly the "love sees no color" schtick doesn't add up.
A measure of health in a community is when both genders are actively seeking, mating with and building families with their counterpart AND seeking to compete with other groups.