Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

be in denial and live in LaLa land, brehs


believe what you want breh, its all good.

Whatever you gotta tell yourself to make you feel better about your woman giving her number out to other guys. If you think that's normal for women in monogamous relationships I feel for you.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

All these paragraphs on the coli tho..

You replying to michael b jordan within 5 mins. Max. Facts.

Lol @ that. I’m replying to who I like when I want. And MBJ doesn’t do it for me, nice body but that’s where it ends. Next

 

[Matt504]

real spill. most nikkas just have fragile egos thats why they cant handle being left on read.

nikkas talk about wanting the Coli to be a safe space for Black men but refuse to get on here and be honest about the heart of these issues which is insecurity and fragile egos.

nikkas are obsessed with the idea that a woman they aren't committed to might be fukking someone else when in reality they just want to be the next in line to fukk, these same nikkas have issues committing to to those same women because they have too many bodies but have no problems running through women and helping them get their numbers up.

We'll never be able to have constructive discussions about any of this shyt because nikkas are too busy posturing for other men instead of breaking down the walls and having authentic dialog.

 

[Majestic]

Sad part is that is what women are reduced down to attention. This is the reason they give they number out sometimes with no intention of getting back. It’s the same thought process with social media it for women’s attention you think they wanna fukk all the nikka that be in that comment section ? I’m say to all you men your attention is worth more than what you think. Men just have to start treating with more respect.

even if you tell them this, some are just so fukking thirsty that they'll find it hard to stop. @The Wave said the other day how a female receptionist sent a message on snapchat for someone to order her food, and within seconds some breh actually ordered her food. How the fukk are you going to do that and not even be fukking/dating the chick? Men are to blame as much as women.

 

[DuncanWebayama]

so much emotion in this thread jesus. it is what it is. How is it disrespectful if a female take long to text you back I don't understand.

 

[Deuterion]

She’s been a good friend of mine and she’s actually a good person but she has some demons from a fukked up childhood that involves sexual and physical abuse so I feel sorry for her

As far as going out with or smashing dudes she hasn’t in a year or two because she wants to concentrate on her daughters senior year of high school and not take time away from her

Bruh. If you ain’t getting paid to be Dr. Phil then don’t try to play his role. Let that bird fly into the wind.

Probably because he has more free time on his hands.

You totally missed the point that HE’S NOT SUPPOSED TO HAVE A FREAKING PHONE IN THE FIRST PLACE! A nikka in prison in a 24/7 monitored facility can text me back within 2 hours most time...but some female can’t?

Whatever you gotta tell yourself to make you feel better about your woman giving her number out to other guys. If you think that's normal for women in monogamous relationships I feel for you.

Yeah I agree with this. That’s not to say it doesn’t happen but a commited woman is not gonna be handing their number out because she already knows what dudes are after. Only a bird is gonna be handing out her number when she is in a relationship.

 

[The Message]

And let’s keep it real. And let’s all be mature.

Do you think any woman would take hours to respond to someone like Trey Songz? Most women are hitting him back ASAP. (Except for women on Rihanna or Beyoncé’s level)

Now of course a small percentage of men are in his position. However, I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum. I used to be a heavy simp until I got to college. Once I learned how most of these women are, my game went up 90%.

You want the best advice on women? Watch a woman’s actions more than her words. They’ll lie to you about what they want in a man but their actions tend to be the complete antithesis. A man who has played the field will give you that realness on women.

I was messing with one dime whose phone would literally get a ping every minute. She had 100 unread messages from 100 different thirsty guys. She CHOSE who would get an immediate response. Some guys she wouldn’t respond to in weeks. And when she would respond it would be a “hey” or “cool.”

They have hierarchy of who they’ll respond to. Trust me. There’s no such thing as “busy” unless you’re low on her priorities.

All I can tell you men is that remember, YOU are the prize. She is replaceable. Do the initial hunting but make sure you remember you’re the king and she wants to stay in your castle.

Some women on here will dismiss what I’m saying for obvious reasons but you know I’m keeping it real with you.

powerful. nikkas need to read this five times and let it sink in

most chicks (and people in general) just live an average simple life....nine to five job, planet fitness membership, MAYBE a hobby, church and kickin it with their social circle--dinner & drinks or whatever.

these broads aint busy like they want you to believe.

she just aint interested. flat out

these chicks have their phone surgically sutured to their fukkin palms....of course she sees your text.

theyre texting somebody....just not you.

i deal with all types of women...psychologists, doctors, attorneys, superintendents, women with busy schedules and they never took long to text back...because they liked me. all the ones with demanding jobs hit me back within the same time as the chicks i fukk with who work at starbucks or nordstroms.

because their interest level in me is high.

if it takes her hours to text me back...that bytch better be out running the boston marathon

if not, then i see where i stand with her

when a girl is feeling you...like REALLY feeling you...you damn near gotta pay that bytch to stop texting you.

 

[Action Mike]

I went off on a female friend because she always takes long to respond to texts which is one thing but to either ignore me making plans or too flake all the time and say she’s coming out and then not show up without telling me is disrespectful

It takes 5 seconds to say sorry I can’t make it.im a pretty easy going person but I have no tolerance for sh1t like that

Iam a pretty loyal person/friend and when the other person seems to not care it annoys me

She aint your friend. You a ear

 

[Gravity]

5 to 10 is 5 to 10 whether its thru social media and/or phone..all the messages end up on her phone anyways..

Just accept that the average female has this going on and dealing with them will be way easier...

Well a woman receiving messages from random cats on the internet who like her pics, is different from a woman receiving messages from men that shes actually met out in the world and taken the step of voluntarily exchanging numbers with. For whatever reason the internet makes black men unashamedly thirsty. You see it here on this site and its kinda disturbing. Chics who wouldnt make ppl look twice in real life can post touched up pics on the internet and gain a following.

The avg woman isnt talking to 5-10 men that shes actually met out in the world tho.

 

[360dagod]

Yeah but I’m an Engineer so she need to get her mind right...it ain’t lopsided. That’s why they be talking about “ain’t not good men out here” cuz they be playing themselves. They play the type of games only a certain type of dude is gonna entertain but that dude is tryna hit it and move on to the next while she slow texting the real one in her phone.



I find that sliding the number works for me but YMMV.

A lawyer's job doesn't always end after they leave the office..
Playing tit for tat isn't the way to go..
If you feel that strongly, just drop her

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Remember:

Social media has got even basic chicks thinking they are 10s (thank you Filters & Simps).

So any single somewhat attractive chick (I’m assuming you are aiming above 6) is now using texting as a job application process.

So while you’re wondering ‘why didn’t I get hit back tho’ and turning into a bytch, she is talking to like 4 other guys.

While you’re posting about this, she’s setting up 2 dates: this Friday and next Tuesday with 2 different, simply more aggressive dudes.

The combination of ‘hoing is something to celebrate’ (chicks with millions of followers only because they have a fat azz + Amber Rose) AND a huge amount of options (Tinder, DMs, the rare dude who approaches them irl) these hoez get lazy.

The best advice you’ve gotten so far is to get busy and build by @Wiles.

When a woman is attracted, you will know. If she plays games: you as a man should realize it fast and decide if you’re with that.

If not, NEXT.

All these chicks thinking they ‘run shyt’ are basically 1) getting ran through by dudes, they just select which ones and usually its the aggressive/confident types they choose 2) are insecure and lonely deep down already or there soon

Your strength should be you making yourself a priority and having high standards and self-respect AND building your life.

This separates you from the guys who all do and say the same shyt. Yes even the ones in the gym etc. If you build yourself up a woman can sense it, and you will be rejecting thots because you’re not feeling the girls talking to 10 guys who need constant confirmation that they look good.

You’ll meet high quality women who spend their times differently from the basic chicks who are playing you and playing games.

A woman can be on IG it’s not about that, it’s about meeting someone who carried herself right and is confident and good with herself and doesn’t need 10 guys in rotation to prove this to herself.

And the answer to “but why is it ok if guys bang 10 chicks?” is: it is also ok for women to do that, it’s their lives - you should ask yourself if that’s the type of girl you want though. Better is to have fun and when you run into the high quality women, to then build something with the one you connect with on a way deeper level than physical.

 

[Gravity]

I stay off social media so I mean on their phone only. And yes, the reality is most people are hos (men and women.) Some May be more discreet than others but believe me when I say an average woman has at least 5 guy’s trying to get at her.

But she’s probably only taking one or two seriously and giving the others one word answers. I’ve been around enough women (in platonic situations) to see this.

This is why it’s good to have female friends. It’s good to have this intel when they let their guard down around you. When you see their true nature, you really stop sweating the BS they put a lot of men through and just accept it’s in their nature.

Never take it personal, they just want whoever is top of the food chain. You can’t rationalise biology.

Thats simply not true. You need to get off the internet.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Whatever you gotta tell yourself to make you feel better about your woman giving her number out to other guys. If you think that's normal for women in monogamous relationships I feel for you.

Nobody said its okay for them to do that....but the sooner you understand that women don't operate on logic, the better you will be able to accept these things. Its just how it is, not cause I like it...but i've accepted it because as a man there's no way I can try to prevent that without putting my dignity on the line.

You obviously want things one way, but they're obviously the other. So goodluck

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Well a woman receiving messages from random cats on the internet who like her pics, is different from a woman receiving messages from men that shes actually met out in the world and taken the step of voluntarily exchanging numbers with. For whatever reason the internet makes black men unashamedly thirsty. You see it here on this site and its kinda disturbing. Chics who wouldnt make ppl look twice in real life can post touched up pics on the internet and gain a following.

The avg woman isnt talking to 5-10 men that shes actually met out in the world tho.

This is V E R Y



Why don’t you explain this before I neg you?

Let’s be real I’m very likely negging you for that racist ‘black men are hyper sexual’ BS that’s been used by the media and Hollywood forever to paint black men as aggressive and only operating on a basic instinctive primal level.

So wtf were you trying to say?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Thats simply not true. You need to get off the internet.

Fam, did you read what I said? I’m not on social media. If I’m online I’m mainly on here. I’m talking about from what I’ve personally seen dating and being around women inside and out of work.

It’s really not that big of a number, shyt, I may be underestimating it. I already told you I’ve fukked with dimes who have their phone pinging every minute. And I’ve fukked with above average women who get messaged every 10/15 minutes by another guy.

I’ve got no reason to lie. I’ve done the field research. Why is it so hard to believe when you see how thirsty guys are? You see average women on here (no disrespect) who get gassed up because their p*ssy is an oasis amongst a pile of dry dikks.

Like I said, I only bring the facts. I’m not forcing anyone to take what I say as gospel.