Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[360dagod]

This is why I give women my number nowadays so that when they hit me up I know there’s interest there. I pulled one last week...slid her my number and she hit me up the next day and I took her out yesterday...I made this thread after I got home. I got this new lawyer shorty that says she wants to be on the team but she responds mad late and she apologized for it once but my instant reaction as a man was.



But then I thought about all the PUA and Mack stuff on the internet and thought “I can’t bush her off this...she might be working on an IPO for a large silicon valley tech firm and has to have her part done by noon”. But then I remembered that I do WTF I want to and that I don’t like it and so I’m bushing her. We were supposed to go out today but if she hits me up I’ma be like.

“I made other plans...”

I get it...

But sometimes you gotta look at the bigger picture..

Your extra resources(time) should be centered towards people who can possibly help you level up...
Its easier to get over putting time into a lawyer who gave you the runaround than a female who has less value...

I mean she is a lawyer..I'm sure her schedule is hectic.

 

[Majestic]

Bullshyt!!!! No woman that's in a committed relationship is giving her number to a man that is pursuing her.

You're in for a rude awakening breh. So many cheaters in today's society.

 

[Gravity]

Just use some common sense. An average woman probably has 5-10 guys messaging her. Do you really think she has time to be spinning all those plates on a stick at the same time? Or is she going to make 1 or 2 her priority?

I assume by "messaging" you're including social media becuse theres no way that the avg chic has 5-10 guys tryna get at her through her phone. If a chic is talking to 3 guys at the same time then shes a ho of some kind. Either she's an attetion whore who just gets off on stringing guys alone, she's a real ho who is throwing/selling p*ssy to differet guys, or both.

To answer te OP's question tho, not having your texts/calls returned in a timely fashion is a blatant sign of a lack of respect/interest. When women into you they go out of their way to make you a priority. When theyre just stringing you along theyve got all the excuses in the world. Being passive aggressive is in a woman's nature, especially dealing with men.

 

[360dagod]

Bullshyt!!!! No woman that's in a committed relationship is giving her number to a man that is pursuing her.

You joking right

 

[Deuterion]

Well tbh she has a pretty big drinking problem and I found out she does this to everyone even family.

So it’s hard for me to take it that personal.

I also don’t think she’s using me to gas herself up. I don’t know how she’s gassed up over a friendship

Why the hell you even dealing with this broad? If you’re a dude you’re taking a massive L and devaluing yourself. If she ain’t hitting you up to tell you what time:

...she gonna come over and cook you dinner,

...she gonna help you get some money,

,,,she gonna take you out,

...or what time she gonna come to spend the night

You gotta let her go. Cuz those times when she stands you up she is 90% going to go smash some dude and you left out in the cold with rain checked plans. You wanna be the dude she cancels all unimportant plans to go smash and not the dude that is cancelled on. You can’t do that if you don’t show value.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Bullshyt!!!! No woman that's in a committed relationship is giving her number to a man that is pursuing her.

be in denial and live in LaLa land, brehs


believe what you want breh, its all good.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

This is why I give women my number nowadays so that when they hit me up I know there’s interest there. I pulled one last week...slid her my number and she hit me up the next day and I took her out yesterday...I made this thread after I got home. I got this new lawyer shorty that says she wants to be on the team but she responds mad late and she apologized for it once but my instant reaction as a man was.



But then I thought about all the PUA and Mack stuff on the internet and thought “I can’t bush her off this...she might be working on an IPO for a large silicon valley tech firm and has to have her part done by noon”. But then I remembered that I do WTF I want to and that I don’t like it and so I’m bushing her. We were supposed to go out today but if she hits me up I’ma be like.

“I made other plans...”

You’ve got to judge each situation on their individual merit. Sometimes she might be really feeling you but she is genuinely busy. And if she is, she’ll have the courtesy to apologize and make plans for another time.

You can tell when someone is dismissive. That’s why I prefer talking to texting. And even on the phone we don’t need to talk for more than 10 minutes. If I’m calling, it’s to arrange a date. None of this “you hang up first” bullshyt. That’s for school kids.

I will say this, even if you slide your number, she’s always going to expect you to make the first move. That’s just how we’re wired. We initiate and they reciprocate. Plus, we all know women have no game when approaching men, even via messaging. That’s why we do all the heavy lifting.

All we can do as men is focus on improving ourselves: socially, financially and spiritually. Women are going to naturally gravitate towards winners. Just do you and they’ll follow.

 

[Rich Spirit]

its not a dealbreaker to me. I take a sign of low interest and throw the girl in the backburner. The worst thing you can do in this situation is double texting.

 

[Frump]

Why the hell you even dealing with this broad? If you’re a dude you’re taking a massive L and devaluing yourself. If she ain’t hitting you up to tell you what time:

...she gonna come over and cook you dinner,

...she gonna help you get some money,

,,,she gonna take you out,

...or what time she gonna come to spend the night

You gotta let her go. Cuz those times when she stands you up she going to go smash some dude and you left out in the cold with rain checked plans.

She’s been a good friend of mine and she’s actually a good person but she has some demons from a fukked up childhood that involves sexual and physical abuse so I feel sorry for her

As far as going out with or smashing dudes she hasn’t in a year or two because she wants to concentrate on her daughters senior year of high school and not take time away from her

 

[360dagod]

I assume by "messaging" you're including social media becuse theres no way that the avg chic has 5-10 guys tryna get at her through her phone. If a chic is talking to 3 guys at the same time then shes a ho of some kind. Either she's an attetion whore who just gets off on stringing guys alone, she's a real ho who is throwing/selling p*ssy throwing to differet guys, or both.

To answer te OP's question tho, not having your texts/calls returned in a timely fashion is a blatant sign of a lafk of respect/interest. When women into you they go out of their way to make you a priority. When theyre just stringing you along theyve got all the excuses in the world. Being passive aggressive is in a woman's nature, especially dealing with men."

5 to 10 is 5 to 10 whether its thru social media and/or phone..all the messages end up on her phone anyways..

Just accept that the average female has this going on and dealing with them will be way easier...

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

The reason nikkas is in their feelings is because they're delusional. They feel entitled to taking priority in woman's life who's basically a stranger because they want to fast track the time it takes to get to the point where they're fukking.

The most ironic part about this is, once these nikkas finally smash, they won't give a fukk about text response times and may even start taking longer to text HER back.

real spill. most nikkas just have fragile egos thats why they cant handle being left on read.

 

[MJ Truth]

I’ve been dating a lot recently and I have found myself having less and less time for women who take 5 and 6 hours at a time to respond. I know common “mack” and “pua” wisdom is to disregard this and let her text when she gets around to it but I’m like “fukk that”. I get the logic behind it and it works but I feel like if a woman has not recognized my value enough to respond to me within a reasonable amount of time, she is not worth my time. I got a homie in prison that texts back faster than some of these broads...to me it’s unacceptable. So the question I have is does anyone else feel the same way? I personally don’t have the time or energy to be trying to conquer low interest bytches...if she ain’t with it and won’t put forth any effort she can keep it pushin’.

P.S. If you’re not out here dating and smashing hold your opinion because your lack of female attention FORCES you to follow up on every opportunity. I’m asking dudes who are successful with women and in a good space in life.

Probably because he has more free time on his hands.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I assume by "messaging" you're including social media becuse theres no way that the avg chic has 5-10 guys tryna get at her through her phone. If a chic is talking to 3 guys at the same time then shes a ho of some kind. Either she's an attetion whore who just gets off on stringing guys alone, she's a real ho who is throwing/selling p*ssy to differet guys, or both.

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I stay off social media so I mean on their phone only. And yes, the reality is most people are hos (men and women.) Some May be more discreet than others but believe me when I say an average woman has at least 5 guy’s trying to get at her.

But she’s probably only taking one or two seriously and giving the others one word answers. I’ve been around enough women (in platonic situations) to see this.

This is why it’s good to have female friends. It’s good to have this intel when they let their guard down around you. When you see their true nature, you really stop sweating the BS they put a lot of men through and just accept it’s in their nature.

Never take it personal, they just want whoever is top of the food chain. You can’t rationalise biology.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Then she shouldn't be giving her number out like it's fukking candy. Stop wasting men's time. If she ain't feeling the guy, she should tell him she a ain't interested. This shyt is so fukking frustrating. It's woefully disrespectful.

Sad part is that is what women are reduced down to attention. This is the reason they give they number out sometimes with no intention of getting back. It’s the same thought process with social media it for women’s attention you think they wanna fukk all the nikka that be in that comment section ? I’m say to all you men your attention is worth more than what you think. Men just have to start treating with more respect.

 

[Deuterion]

I get it...

But sometimes you gotta look at the bigger picture..

Your extra resources(time) should be centered towards people who can possibly help you level up...
Its easier to get over putting time into a lawyer who gave you the runaround than a female who has less value...

I mean she is a lawyer..I'm sure her schedule is hectic.

Yeah but I’m an Engineer so she need to get her mind right...it ain’t lopsided. That’s why they be talking about “ain’t not good men out here” cuz they be playing themselves. They play the type of games only a certain type of dude is gonna entertain but that dude is tryna hit it and move on to the next while she slow texting the real one in her phone.

You’ve got to judge each situation on their individual merit. Sometimes she might be really feeling you but she is genuinely busy. And if she is, she’ll have the courtesy to apologize and make plans for another time.

You can tell when someone is dismissive. That’s why I prefer talking to texting. And even on the phone we don’t need to talk for more than 10 minutes. If I’m calling, it’s to arrange a date. None of this “you hang up first” bullshyt. That’s for school kids.

I will say this, even if you slide your number, she’s always going to expect you to make the first move. That’s just how we’re wired. We initiate and they reciprocate. Plus, we all know women have no game when approaching men, even via messaging. That’s why we do all the heavy lifting.

All we can do as men is focus on improving ourselves: socially, financially and spiritually. Women are going to naturally gravitate towards winners. Just do you and they’ll follow.

I find that sliding the number works for me but YMMV.