Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

Is a woman taking all day to respond acceptable behavior TO YOU?

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Frump

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I hate it when women say they wanna chill with you first, but take forever to replay to messages. It's disrespectful.

I went off on a female friend because she always takes long to respond to texts which is one thing but to either ignore me making plans or too flake all the time and say she’s coming out and then not show up without telling me is disrespectful

It takes 5 seconds to say sorry I can’t make it.im a pretty easy going person but I have no tolerance for sh1t like that

Iam a pretty loyal person/friend and when the other person seems to not care it annoys me
 

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How you get the number if she has a man? :patrice:
Women give out numbers like hot cakes breh, sometimes just to get a breh off her space. Thats why it doesnt mean shyt in 2018 if you got a girl's number. A follow-up meeting is the only thing that will confirm if she has the slightest bit of interest in you.
 

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Then she shouldn't be giving her number out like it's fukking candy. Stop wasting men's time. If she ain't feeling the guy, she should tell him she a ain't interested. This shyt is so fukking frustrating. It's woefully disrespectful.
That’s just how the game is. Women love attention. Whether we like it or not, guys asking for their numbers is an ego boost. And most of the time, they’re not really interested in the guy, more so what he can do for her.

Does it suck? Yeah. Is it annoying? Abso-fukking-loutely. But that’s just how they’re wired.

You can’t let it get to you. Trying to apply logic to a woman’s mind will just give you a headache.
 

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Maybe they are busy and have a life. It’s not that serious.
Yeah, I'm so busy that I can't spare 10 seconds to reply back :troll: I'm so busy that I can't reply back even though I'm on lunch break scrolling through social media. :troll: I'm so busy that I can't reply back eventhough i'm on the train home and I got my earphones in scroll down my music list.:troll:

Wow, this thread full of awful excuses. :mjlol: I ain't never seen a chick without her phone all in her face.
 

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Women give out numbers like hot cakes breh, sometimes just to get a breh off her space. Thats why it doesnt mean shyt in 2018 if you got a girl's number. A follow-up meeting is the only thing that will confirm if she has the slightest bit of interest in you.
Nah B, most women that have a man won't give you their real number if she's on some faithful shyt. At the most she'll tell you her IG name and that's it.
 
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I’ve been dating a lot recently and I have found myself having less and less time for women who take 5 and 6 hours at a time to respond. I know common “mack” and “pua” wisdom is to disregard this and let her text when she gets around to it but I’m like “fukk that”. I get the logic behind it and it works but I feel like if a woman has not recognized my value enough to respond to me within a reasonable amount of time, she is not worth my time. I got a homie in prison that texts back faster than some of these broads...to me it’s unacceptable. So the question I have is does anyone else feel the same way? I personally don’t have the time or energy to be trying to conquer low interest bytches...if she ain’t with it and won’t put forth any effort she can keep it pushin’.

P.S. If you’re not out here dating and smashing hold your opinion because your lack of female attention FORCES you to follow up on every opportunity. I’m asking dudes who are successful with women and in a good space in life.

if she dont text....then
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breh look at it like this...as a man...thats about his business....career...healthy....single....black
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you can have your pick....just understand that you wont/cant get'em all
 

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I went off on a female friend because she always takes long to respond to texts which is one thing but to either ignore me making plans or too flake all the time and say she’s coming out and then not show up without telling me is disrespectful

It takes 5 seconds to say sorry I can’t make it.im a pretty easy going person but I have no tolerance for sh1t like that

Iam a pretty loyal person/friend and when the other person seems to not care it annoys me
I hope you cut her off? Doesn't look like she respects you. You ain't her friend. She's using you to gas herself up inside.
 

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Just because you got the girl number dont mean you automatically at the top of her list..:mjgrin:

A nikka more in shape might be higher
A nikka with more bread might have her interest
But where the odds are evened is the mind and the mouthpiece:birdman:
Simply call her if you actually care to push the envelope..:ufdup:

Calling her and actually planting your positive voice and thoughts in her head for 10 minutes is like nutting in a bytch raw after masteurbating...she not getting a full load...but that's what the meetup is for...:ld:


Texting a female you just met in these times is like the local rapper putting up his mixtape on livemixtapes...its a good chance you gonna get lost in the shuffle..

Her social circle online and offline already has the upperhand..You just dont have that luxury

/CLOSE THREAD

breh said ALL that needed to be said in one post. :wow:
 

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Then she shouldn't be giving her number out like it's fukking candy. Stop wasting men's time. If she ain't feeling the guy, she should tell him she a ain't interested. This shyt is so fukking frustrating. It's woefully disrespectful.

That’s just how the game is. Women love attention. Whether we like it or not, guys asking for their numbers is an ego boost. And most of the time, they’re not really interested in the guy, more so what he can do for her.

Does it suck? Yeah. Is it annoying? Abso-fukking-loutely. But that’s just how they’re wired.

You can’t let it get to you. Trying to apply logic to a woman’s mind will just give you a headache.

This is why I give women my number nowadays so that when they hit me up I know there’s interest there. I pulled one last week...slid her my number and she hit me up the next day and I took her out yesterday...I made this thread after I got home. I got this new lawyer shorty that says she wants to be on the team but she responds mad late and she apologized for it once but my instant reaction as a man was.

:hhh:

But then I thought about all the PUA and Mack stuff on the internet and thought “I can’t bush her off this...she might be working on an IPO for a large silicon valley tech firm and has to have her part done by noon”. But then I remembered that I do WTF I want to and that I don’t like it and so I’m bushing her. We were supposed to go out today but if she hits me up I’ma be like.

:hhh: “I made other plans...”
 

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Nah B, most women that have a man won't give you their real number if she's on some faithful shyt. At the most she'll tell you her IG name and that's it.
I dont know what type of women you been around but girls give out numbers just cause they dont mind the attention.....even when they are in a commited relationship. They know giving you the number isnt gonna hurt her because she can always just ignore your texts or block you when you annoy her if you're too slow to realise she not interested in you.

Another thing is most guys come off as "friendly" when approaching women and ask for the number i a friendly manner. So most women wont even want to come off rube by refusing it. They will give it to you, and once you text her trying to hit, they'll ignore you till you get the message.

It aint that hard to understand breh. Getting her number dont mean shyt unless you get a follow-up meeting.
 

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I hope you cut her off? Doesn't look like she respects you. You ain't her friend. She's using you to gas herself up inside.

Well tbh she has a pretty big drinking problem and I found out she does this to everyone even family.

So it’s hard for me to take it that personal.

I also don’t think she’s using me to gas herself up. I don’t know how she’s gassed up over a friendship
 

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Then she shouldn't be giving her number out like it's fukking candy. Stop wasting men's time. If she ain't feeling the guy, she should tell him she a ain't interested. This shyt is so fukking frustrating. It's woefully disrespectful.

:dwillhuh:

My nikka I get it...

If bell Atlantic was around:flabbynsick::to: and cingular was still giving 1000 minutes a month, the world would be a different place...but unfortunately everything is unlimited and that seeps right into the woman's attention tank..:ld:


She can be interested at the beginning and not feel you afterwards and she can have low interest at first and then change her mind.sometimes low interest stays low interest.that's just how women and the variables are...

If you call and leave a positive impression, who knows where it might go..

She might not give you any play now, but she might feel differently, 6 months later..or she can be a good networking buddy...

Everything not gonna be a touchdown, but why be mad at a 5 yard gain that could possibly end up a touchdown later...

Be as positive as possible and dont burn unnecessary bridges
 

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I dont know what type of women you been around but girls give out numbers just cause they dont mind the attention.....even when they are in a commited relationship. They know giving you the number isnt gonna hurt her because she can always just ignore your texts or block you when you annoy her if you're too slow to realise she not interested in you.

Another thing is most guys come off as "friendly" when approaching women and ask for the number i a friendly manner. So most women wont even want to come off rube by refusing it. They will give it to you, and once you text her trying to hit, they'll ignore you till you get the message.

It aint that hard to understand breh. Getting her number dont mean shyt unless you get a follow-up meeting.
Bullshyt!!!! No woman that's in a committed relationship is giving her number to a man that is pursuing her.
 

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This is why I give women my number nowadays so that when they hit me up I know there’s interest there. I pulled one last week...slid her my number and she hit me up the next day and I took her out yesterday...I made this thread after I got home. I got this new lawyer shorty that says she wants to be on the team but she responds mad late and she apologized for it once but my instant reaction as a man was.

:hhh:

But then I thought about all the PUA and Mack stuff on the internet and thought “I can’t bush her off this...she might be working on an IPO for a large silicon valley tech firm and has to have her part done by noon”. But then I remembered that I do WTF I want to and that I don’t like it and so I’m bushing her. We were supposed to go out today but if she hits me up I’ma be like.

:hhh: “I made other plans...”
Wonderful :salute: Don't let these bytches control you. Even if you're working on a big case, you telling me you've never looked at your phone once during the day? How are your colleagues or you boss in contact with you? You telling me that you don't check your phone during lunch? Bush her.
 
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