Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[ThrobbingHood]

Yep, they always on they phones too. Cut them bytches off who take long to reply back.

Imagine being called insecure because we don’t play that shyt.

You see women constantly updating their social media with inane bullshyt. But some people expect us to believe we’re too impatient to expect a response on the same day.

Like I said to any man who reads this, you should never take advice from women about women. Even in this thread they’ll rationalise their BS. I’m not saying people aren’t busy and they can’t always respond straight away.

Just use some common sense. An average woman probably has 5-10 guys messaging her. Do you really think she has time to be spinning all those plates on a stick at the same time? Or is she going to make 1 or 2 her priority?

Smarten up Nas.

I’m only giving you the facts. Take it or leave it.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Y’all know you can still bag woman that take awhile to reply right? Just put her on the back burner and pursue other woman. I’m surprised nikkas in this thread all in they feeling talkin bout block her. Just don’t make her your priority but don’t ghost the hoe u can still fukk.

I should reiterate. I’d never block a bytch. When I say “Bush” I mean I don’t bother responding to her. Without fail, a week later, they’re sending me nudes like clockwork.

I’d never advise a breh to block anyone. That’s over emotional. Just play it cool and don’t give her the attention she craves. That’s just how their mind works. They crave attention but only from those who don’t give it.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

It's actually a good thing

Easiest way to find out if shes into you or not



Saves me time

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

OP think of it this way. If you were in a relationship, would you want your girl responding to texts from other nikkas who are trying to hit on her?... Thought as much

Like you I used to feel some type of way about it, but then I realized that some of the women I try to get at are already taken and have no interest entertaining other guys beyond a short convo every now and then when she's bored. That I gotta respect because I wouldnt want my woman to be giving nikkas attention through text. That would mean she has loyalty issues and keeping her options open and thus isnt really into what we have together.

I respect any woman who ignores me because she either has a man and isnt trying to fukk up what she has, or she simply isn't interested.

I'd rather that, than a girl texting me back flirting only to stroke her ego knowing she wont ever throw me the p*ssy.

Just let it go and text other girls, eventually one will bite and show you genuine interest

 

[Majestic]

Y’all know you can still bag woman that take awhile to reply right? Just put her on the back burner and pursue other woman. I’m surprised nikkas in this thread all in they feeling talkin bout block her. Just don’t make her your priority but don’t ghost the hoe u can still fukk.

Nah. If she takes too long, cut her off. She's busy fukking some other dude. If you have experience with women, the ones who reply quick are the ones interested in you. The ones to take too long will replay with just one or two words after

Please don't lie to the guiliible young brehs on here

If you get a girls number and she ain't reply to you within 30 mins - one hour, bush her. It's even worse when you've seen a bytch's last seen on Whatapps that's literally a minute ago, but you sent her a message one hour ago. Don't waste time.

 

[Frump]

I hate it when it’s a female friend or any friend of mine never mind a person I want to date

Don’t tell me you don’t have 8 seconds out of your day to fukkin respond nobodies that busy.

It’s simple common courtesy. Especially if it’s asking to hangout or a question then it’s unacceptable to not answer

 

[Matt504]

Y’all know you can still bag woman that take awhile to reply right? Just put her on the back burner and pursue other woman. I’m surprised nikkas in this thread all in they feeling talkin bout block her. Just don’t make her your priority but don’t ghost the hoe u can still fukk.

The reason nikkas is in their feelings is because they're delusional. They feel entitled to taking priority in woman's life who's basically a stranger because they want to fast track the time it takes to get to the point where they're fukking.

The most ironic part about this is, once these nikkas finally smash, they won't give a fukk about text response times and may even start taking longer to text HER back.

 

[Deuterion]

I just scrolled through last week texts between wifey and myself

Sunday
Wifey- 6 texts
Me -0

Monday
Wifey - 7 texts
Me- 1 response "I'm not
I'm really crap at using the phone i don't know how she tolerates me

..subsequent edit, but this topic is about replying to questions

Over a recent two week period, here is my response times to her direct questi

1. 57 min
2. 1 min[she also answered her own questions twice]

So that's .. 55% of time reply in 5 minutes
And 85% of time, a response within 20 minutes
And that's for a busy
these people expecting insta-responses 100% of the time are a bit delusional
But if you ask real questions in moderation, a two hour time window seems reasonable on the surface

..but then again,, life happens

This is a great post. What we see is most people in your life right away and the times where it takes more than an hour are the exception.

ya'all millennials are moving in the wrong direction. All this instant-communication and constantly-in-touch stuff is new, and it ain't healthy. You and your girl should be communicating when you have time to communicate and living your life present with the people you with the rest of the time. If you got time to talk today then talk today, if you don't got time till tomorrow then wait until tomorrow. I didn't even have a cell phone until I was 24, and it seems like there's a hell of a lot more anxiety and depression and compulsive behavior and crap now than there was back then, when you learned to be patient and present in life.

I agree but if your generation had this same tech you’d be doing the same.

Shorty is seeing other nikkas and you ain't at the top of her priorities.. plain and simple.

People got their phones with them everywhere... work, home, bathroom, while taking a shower, next to them when they asleep etc.

People be taking hours to respond to a text message that ain't even important, like I already forgot about it.

100%. When they take long it’s cuz they have low interest so you a low priority...some dudes like the challenge and end up fukking...I have but at this point I’m like.

The worst thing to do is rationalise and make excuses for her in your head

"Shes busy"

"Shes going through shyt"

" i get busy to respond the next day too i think"

wtf

Move on breh to other contacts on your phone that will behave themselves.

This is what I’m gonna teach my son once he gets older...if something don’t make sense it’s cuz it don’t. Unless she works underground in a coal mine she can get back to you in a reasonable timeframe period and plain. If she taking long it’s cuz she has low interest so you either invest time to see where it goes or you bush her, your choice. But never forget that YOU ARE THE PRIZE SON!

I’ll reiterate what the RIGHT people in this thread have said.

IF SOMEONE IS REALLY FEELING YOU THEY WILL MAKE TIME TO RESPOND AND INTERACT WITH YOU

Fukk what anybody else in this thread has said, this is pure SOCIOLOGICAL and BIOLOGICAL.

Keep chasing people who clearly don’t have a high interest in you if you want folks

You’ll find out they were giving you clear indications from jump sooner or later

Yeah man and I understand why some men chase because sometimes you can flip a low interest chick but it’s a risk. You can lose time and money both things you could have been giving to a woman with a decent level of interest. I live in the LA Metro area too and dates are $100 easily and it adds up when you have 2 - 3 women in a rotation.

My prison bae text back faster than some of these hoes.



You're a loser and that's why women are putting you on the back burner.

I hope this made you feel better about yourself.

 

[Majestic]

Imagine being called insecure because we don’t play that shyt.

You see women constantly updating their social media with inane bullshyt. But some people expect us to believe we’re too impatient to expect a response on the same day.

Like I said to any man who reads this, you should never take advice from women about women. Even in this thread they’ll rationalise their BS. I’m not saying people aren’t busy and they can’t always respond straight away.

Just use some common sense. An average woman probably has 5-10 guys messaging her. Do you really think she has time to be spinning all those plates on a stick at the same time? Or is she going to make 1 or 2 her priority?

Smarten up Nas.

I’m only giving you the facts. Take it or leave it.

This is very true. You're setting yourself up for failure if you do.

 

[FishNGrits]

Nah. If she takes too long, cut her off. She's busy fukking some other dude. If you have experience with women, the ones who reply quick are the ones interested in you. The ones to take too long will replay with just one or two words after

Please don't lie to the guiliible young brehs on here

If you get a girls number and she ain't reply to you within 30 mins - one hour, bush her. It's even worse when you've seen a bytch's last seen on Whatapps that's literally a minute ago, but you sent her a message one hour ago. Don't waste time.

Think we coming from different angles. If you crushing on the girl and trying to cuff I wouldn’t take that. But if you want to pipe I would still pursue if she agrees to go out with you and don’t turn down none of your advances. Just don’t prioritize her is all Im saying. I’ve been on that end fukked and like u said she started blowing my shyt up

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

OP think of it this way. If you were in a relationship, would you want your girl responding to texts from other nikkas who are trying to hit on her?... Thought as much

Like you I used to feel some type of way about it, but then I realized that some of the women I try to get at are already taken and have no interest entertaining other guys beyond a short convo every now and then when she's bored. That I gotta respect because I wouldnt want my woman to be giving nikkas attention through text. That would mean she has loyalty issues and keeping her options open and thus isnt really into what we have together.

I respect any woman who ignores me because she either has a man and isnt trying to fukk up what she has, or she simply isn't interested.

I'd rather that, than a girl texting me back flirting only to stroke her ego knowing she wont ever throw me the p*ssy.

Just let it go and text other girls, eventually one will bite and show you genuine interest

How you get the number if she has a man?

 

[Majestic]

I hate it when it’s a female friend or any friend of mine never mind a person I want to date

Don’t tell me you don’t have 8 seconds out of your day to fukkin respond nobodies that busy.

It’s simple common courtesy. Especially if it’s asking to hangout or a question then it’s unacceptable to not answer

I hate it when women say they wanna chill with you first, but take forever to replay to messages. It's disrespectful.

 

[360dagod]

Just because you got the girl number dont mean you automatically at the top of her list..

A nikka more in shape might be higher
A nikka with more bread might have her interest
But where the odds are evened is the mind and the mouthpiece
Simply call her if you actually care to push the envelope..

Calling her and actually planting your positive voice and thoughts in her head for 10 minutes is like nutting in a bytch raw after masteurbating...she not getting a full load...but that's what the meetup is for...


Texting a female you just met in these times is like the local rapper putting up his mixtape on livemixtapes...its a good chance you gonna get lost in the shuffle..

Her social circle online and offline already has the upperhand..You just dont have that luxury

 

[Rawtid]

Maybe they are busy and have a life. It’s not that serious.

 

[Majestic]

Just because you got the girl number dont mean you automatically at the top of her list..

A nikka more in shape might be higher
A nikka with more bread might have her interest
But where the odds are evened is the mind and the mouthpiece
Simply call her if you actually care to push the envelope..

Calling her and actually planting your positive voice and thoughts in her head for 10 minutes is like nutting in a bytch raw after masteurbating...she not getting a full load...but that's what the meetup is for...


Texting a female you just met in these times is like the local rapper putting up his mixtape on livemixtapes...its a good chance you gonna get lost in the shuffle..

Her social circle online and offline already has the upperhand..You just dont have that luxury

Then she shouldn't be giving her number out like it's fukking candy. Stop wasting men's time. If she ain't feeling the guy, she should tell him she a ain't interested. This shyt is so fukking frustrating. It's woefully disrespectful.