Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

Is a woman taking all day to respond acceptable behavior TO YOU?

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GoldCoastSaint

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Its good you're spending less time on this male forum interacting with so many other men, and being more respectful to this man that was seroius about dating you.


My man is next to me most of the time lol. I log on while he watches tv I dont like.

But thanks for your concern hoe.
 

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Sometimes people are busy. What you’re saying may be true but not all the time. Sometimes I may be in the middle of a task and saw someone texted but just don’t want to respond because it will start a convo and I don’t want to get distracted. I’ll then forget I read it and not respond for awhile. This happens to guys I like, family, my own father!

I’m not a big texter and I feel like it kills communication you can have in person when you meet up if you’re constantly texting. I’m more of a meet in person person. That’s where your real cues come in my opinion. I do agree that once you see someone is constantly on their phone and they don’t text back within a timely manner they’re probably full of shyt though. It’s really a case by case basis. Now immediate cut off for me is the person that meets in person and has their head in their phone. I’ll say something once and if it continues I just leave. I make it a point to apologize profusely if I have to text or take a call. If the person is boring it doesn’t matter, no need to be rude.

Good luck breh...dating sucks :yeshrug:.
 

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I never respond to text until days later, I dont even see them half the time. Except when it comes to my husband. He was like OP when we started dating. He told me like a week into dating that I didnt answer the phone or text back like he needed me to and that it would be a deal breaker. I told him I hate phones and showed him all my missed calls and unviewed text. I told him people call/text too much so I just keep my phone on silent until I get a block of time to respond. He bought me a cheap smartphone, told me to not give the number to anyone and to not miss a call or text. It worked. I could keep the volume up because no one had the number but him. I always answered it or hit him right back.


Now. This was a man serious about dating me. If you're not serious then these women owe you nothing.
I ain't buying no chic I'm casually dating a phone and I damn sure ain't paying the bill just to get a timely mannered response. Either block all those numbers that are clutter or I'll step aside and allow one of the lames to play the game.
 

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:laff: at 12 hours max. Y’all really on one if you think 12 hours is reasonable. 2 hours should be the max (watching a movie or taking a nap). Girls are on they phone 24/7 brehs. bytches be texting and driving brehs.

So if you text her at 9am and she don’t respond til 9pm :mjlol: She would of checked her phone over 100 times and still hasn’t text you back. Some of y’all really rookies to the game
 

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ya'all millennials are moving in the wrong direction. All this instant-communication and constantly-in-touch stuff is new, and it ain't healthy. You and your girl should be communicating when you have time to communicate and living your life present with the people you with the rest of the time. If you got time to talk today then talk today, if you don't got time till tomorrow then wait until tomorrow. I didn't even have a cell phone until I was 24, and it seems like there's a hell of a lot more anxiety and depression and compulsive behavior and crap now than there was back then, when you learned to be patient and present in life.




“You youngins and them damn cellular devices” :flabbynsick:
 

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I HATE texting convos I like to interact more in person THEN when I’m comfortable with the person I text or what ever
 

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:laff: at 12 hours max. Y’all really on one if you think 12 hours is reasonable. 2 hours should be the max (watching a movie or taking a nap). Girls are on they phone 24/7 brehs. bytches be texting and driving brehs.

So if you text her at 9am and she don’t respond til 9pm :mjlol: She would of checked her phone over 100 times and still hasn’t text you back. Some of y’all really rookies to the game

Excatly.

They acting like these office manager women out here have intense hobbies out here or in operating theaters. :russ:

Ive had women get mad-ish when i dont respond to there good morning 8am text before 11am, and im gonna go from that to deal with a bytch that respond every 6 hours?

Someone is talking to them and knowing when someone likes you and not that attention seeking shyt is easy when you experince it.

Eat Ls for breakfast, aint a big deal to delete them.
 

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I knew the women in here would be on that bullshyt. :mjlol:

Like I said, believe their actions and not their words (especially on here.)

If they’re really feeling you, they’ll make time for you. Period. Don’t believe any other horse shyt. It’s just mindless bird babble.
 

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Very simple truth, you're not a rockstar - insofar, you're not famous, so of course you aren't priority 1 in her life, even if she's feeling you. We all know its bullshyt, with how much people check their phones, a bytch can't text back within 30 mins? Its never that she "can't". She's simply not interested in chatting with you, unless you have something planned. Even girls who treated me like a living god, took long to reply. Women are vapid, they're not with any kind of real conversation that doesn't involve you punching their throats with your cock. So you have to act accordingly.

This of course is no different to emails, AIM, and screening phone calls. Its been done in its own context for decades. The goal is to try to skip texting or expedite the process and meet up with the broad. I like your bravado OP, but you're trying to reinvent the wheel, we already know the text game, all women do it. So the gist of your post should really be; Chase it if you want to, I prefer not to text at all and meet up.
fukking bullshyt. If she feeling you she's replying within seconds.
 

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fukking bullshyt. If she feeling you she's replying within seconds.
Y’all know you can still bag woman that take awhile to reply right? Just put her on the back burner and pursue other woman. I’m surprised nikkas in this thread all in they feeling talkin bout block her. Just don’t make her your priority but don’t ghost the hoe u can still fukk.
 
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