Women Taking Too Long to Respond to Texts is Now a Deal Breaker for Me.

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Women are taught to play hard to get, and not to be “too available”. But do men really like the thrill of the chase? I’ve known dudes that chase girls, and have bushed “easy” women, so

 

[null]

If it's a one off, no. If she cannot use her phone at work, no. Irrespective of age/generation if she habitually doesn't text you back as a maximum after she wakes up the next morning then don't waste your time. Everyone checks their phone in the morning.
If I am iffy about a girl I don't save her number in my phone at all. I send the message and delete all traces of it. After that point respond to her messages and delete.

 

[EA]

I never text first so I don’t have these problems

I actually have girls ask me if I’m upset with them for some reason because they never hear from me. I work ~50 hours a week and I don’t have time for games. If we’re not having a constructive conversation (which you can’t do if it’s spread over 7 hours) then there’s no point talking to me.

 

[Diondon]

Women are glued to their phones every minute of every waking hour in 2018
I know what the vibe is like when a chick is digging me, I know what it's like when she's not.
Maybe she has a dude. Maybe she has several dudes.
Reassess your place on her totem pole of importance and move accordingly.
and I aint even with all that texting shyt. Try something different. Give her a call

 

[Mensch Fontana]

A bytch is on her phone at least 10 times every hour, if she don't respond once in that hour she done

 

[Action Mike]

Females always busy or going through some shyt if they dont fukk with you

Billions of em out there. On to the next. Its easy.

 

[Phitz]

I never paint all acts with one brush. My girl I have now didn't respond instantly all the time(I was busy too but just referring to when I did text, so I understood), especially in the beginning. She would respond hours later. Her job gets intense pretty often and she can't really check the phone like that except for lunch or some breaks. You have to look ath the hours they are responding. If I'm focused on something I dont' answer either.

For me if I'm watching Futbal or American Football, the text aren't gonna come like that. Case by case.

 

[richaveli83]

Depends but it's definitely a red flag. Everyone is always on their phones. It takes only a few seconds to respond. If she's busy all she has to do is send a quick response saying she'll hit me back up. People make time for who they want.

 

[Action Mike]

Bruh, it’s nothing for a few hours to go by without me repomding to a text, sometimes I don’t respond to shyt until I get home from whatever I’m doing, be it work, the gym, running errands or just hanging out. So yes, if you text me at 1pm, you may not get a reply until 7pm, and yea, I may respond once and then not respond for hours because I’m not gonna do a back and forth at that time.

Yea, for some, lack of response is because they’re not feeling you, for others they simply don’t feel the need to jump every time a new message comes thru. I’d personally get nothing done with the number of texts I get from my friends, mom , boyfriend, and group chats if I responded to every message immediately. Like someone said, you gotta know the person.

All these paragraphs on the coli tho..

You replying to michael b jordan within 5 mins. Max. Facts.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

I never respond to text until days later, I dont even see them half the time. Except when it comes to my husband. He was like OP when we started dating. He told me like a week into dating that I didnt answer the phone or text back like he needed me to and that it would be a deal breaker. I told him I hate phones and showed him all my missed calls and unviewed text. I told him people call/text too much so I just keep my phone on silent until I get a block of time to respond. He bought me a cheap smartphone, told me to not give the number to anyone and to not miss a call or text. It worked. I could keep the volume up because no one had the number but him. I always answered it or hit him right back.


Now. This was a man serious about dating me. If you're not serious then these women owe you nothing.

 

[Action Mike]

The worst thing to do is rationalise and make excuses for her in your head

"Shes busy"

"Shes going through shyt"

" i get busy to respond the next day too i think"

wtf

Move on breh to other contacts on your phone that will behave themselves.

 

[Sccit]

I never respond to text until days later, I dont even see them half the time. Except when it comes to my husband. He was like OP when we started dating. He told me like a week into dating that I didnt answer the phone or text back like he needed me to and that it would be a deal breaker. I told him I hate phones and showed him all my missed calls and unviewed text. I told him people call/text too much so I just keep my phone on silent until I get a block of time to respond. He bought me a cheap smartphone, told me to not give the number to anyone and to not miss a call or text. It worked. I could keep the volume up because no one had the number but him. I always answered it or hit him right back.


Now. This was a man serious about dating me. If you're not serious then these women owe you nothing.

ACCORDING TO THE COLI CONSENSUS, 79% OF THIS FORUM WOULDA LOST CONFIDENCE UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT YOU SIMPLY WERENT INTERESTED



INSTEAD OF MOVIN WIT THAT LEVEL OF INSECURITY, YOUR MAN ADDRESSED THE ISSUE HEAD ON AND YALL NOW MARRIED FOR IT

CONGRATS

 

[Goat poster]

I’ll reiterate what the RIGHT people in this thread have said.

IF SOMEONE IS REALLY FEELING YOU THEY WILL MAKE TIME TO RESPOND AND INTERACT WITH YOU

Fukk what anybody else in this thread has said, this is pure SOCIOLOGICAL and BIOLOGICAL.

Keep chasing people who clearly don’t have a high interest in you if you want folks

You’ll find out they were giving you clear indications from jump sooner or later

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Atleast you get girl's numbers

The best some of us can do is get to listen to other men talking about how girls dont text them back fast enough

Exactly there's obviously some interest there if they were given a number but if the frequency of contact doesn't meet expectations then delete it

 

[Phitz]

I never respond to text until days later, I dont even see them half the time. Except when it comes to my husband. He was like OP when we started dating. He told me like a week into dating that I didnt answer the phone or text back like he needed me to and that it would be a deal breaker. I told him I hate phones and showed him all my missed calls and unviewed text. I told him people call/text too much so I just keep my phone on silent until I get a block of time to respond. He bought me a cheap smartphone, told me to not give the number to anyone and to not miss a call or text. It worked. I could keep the volume up because no one had the number but him. I always answered it or hit him right back.


Now. This was a man serious about dating me. If you're not serious then these women owe you nothing.

Its good you're spending less time on this male forum interacting with so many other men, and being more respectful to this man that was seroius about dating you.