I doubt that most Men would have a problem if women consistently let nikkas know she's not interested in them especially if she's interested in his friend.
This. I don’t get how people tell women to vet carefully. Don’t Fukk everything. Don’t. Dont. Don’t when it comes to sex. Literally hold body count over their heads as leverage for future romantic partnerships...and then in the same breath are resentful if women are picky.
Why on earth should a woman go through everything she gotta go through to prepare for sex that she might be shamed for and risk her life and health for...for a gaggle of dudes she not even attracted to with a high likelihood of her not even potentially enjoying the sexual encounter?
Women ain’t hard to understand.