Women reject 95% of potential partners on dating apps

[Wild self]

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We aren’t talking about what people should do. We are talking about what they are doing. What you are describing is feel good romantic socialism.And human mate selection doesn’t work like that. And for women, the main reason they don’t stay in their lane is because that advice rarely plays out in reality no matter how many times it’s pandered. Get an average guy. Get a nice guy. Get a hard worker. Get a....U think women haven’t heard that shyt from birth? You also think they haven’t seen chicks play that game, get the most mediocre thing in the room and have him try to boss up on her?
Cool.

So?! You think they don’t know that? But they still gotta at least TRY. Because to them that’s better, even if it doesn’t work out than laying up with somebody they not feeling.

NOPE! Instead a man will try to level up to get resources to attain women out of his league.

You ain’t gotta lie to kick it! Lol! The exact opposite is actually well documented in men. Men overestimate their attractiveness more than women do to ensure all reproduction opportunities are taken. Women don’t want all reproductive opportunities, so they don’t do this as much. I have a study on this of you are interested. So pls stop with the most men are realistic and women are delusional trope.


But I thought the issue was all these hoes ain’t giving average men in their lane a chance? But you just admitted that chicks are more likely to settle and look at other stuff than dudes are...so whose the real problem...




This sounds petulant. “Well if you wanna have a bad life because you didn’t listen to me...” It’s not up to you to determine what will happen to them. In most cases, they get those men and then get dudes in their lanes later on.


Yeah we veering off the rails now.
Women aren’t complaining just about being smashed and dashed. They also complaining about regular degular ugly dudes like Jay-Z cheating on Beyoncé. They also complaining about average broke dudes wanting to get treated like kings while still not looking good, having wack dikk, wanting to go Dutch like roommates, but still playing same games as dudes ahead of them. They complaining about “nice guys”, “bad guys” and all in-between. But what are they DOING? In spite of all that yapping...bytches outchea marrying they
pets, waiting until they got dusty ovaries to settle down, marrying themselves, doing all kinds of shyt to avoid the same relationships they claim they want. That’s b/c they don’t want relationships with just anybody.


Yes and as I’ve been telling you, they don’t care. They want what they want because average outchea acting like he above average anyway. Women not listening to dudes no more because their own experiences haven’t corroborated what you’ve claimed, and in a world where they can do for themselves—they’ll do that instead of dealing with the alternative.

Doesn’t mean they aren’t going to complain about it. Doesn’t mean they might not regret it. But for whatever reason these chicks woke up and decided they’d rather die alone than put up with shyt from a man they can’t even get wet for. And that makes sense.

But this is to a much lesser degree offline IMO. I think virtual reality just heightens fukkery is all. It dehumanizes people.

So a man gotta pay all your bills, spend all of his money, and entertain you, for a consideration of a relationship?

Even the HVM would use you as a pump and dump

 

[Geordi]

Hmmm do you think men would be receptive to this from women? Because...in my experiences they get down right pissed and start bitterly saying “OH SO ITS ALL MEN’S FAULT?!”

There's plenty of places online men can go to get advice from other men. However there is often pushback from women when they see nerds trying to turn into 'playas'

In the simplest terms I think average men and average women need to be more willing to invest fully in each other. They gotta be willing to romance and court one another. I think that basic kindness towards people that look like one another is missing so average people say “if imma put up with this from you, I might as well hold out for better”. I also think average men and women need to spend more time together away from online platforms so they don’t judge each other based off skewed standards. And lastly I think average people need to level up, but not to get better looking people because those people still aren’t compatible with them. Instead they need to elevate their own sphere. Be king and queen of the island you got and be proud of it. Stop trying to conquer new territory. But this is gonna take a lotta counseling, introspection, social skills training and humility on both sides.We not there yet.

The thread is about women rejecting 95% of men. Looks like avg women are the ones that need to give avg men a chance. I dont believe those stats are true in the real world but then that female poster got in here and said "YEAH Thats Right Most of Yall Aint Worth Having Sex With!"

 

[paperbag]

There's plenty of places online men can go to get advice from other men. However there is often pushback from women when they see nerds trying to turn into 'playas'


The thread is about women rejecting 95% of men. Looks like avg women are the ones that need to give avg men a chance. I dont believe those stats are true in the real world but then that female poster got in here and said "YEAH Thats Right Most of Yall Aint Worth Having Sex With!"

CASUAL sex

i understand why Sawatee gets 5 birkin bags and I dont, why can't you understand why Trevante gets fukked in the club parking lot and you dont? Get over it

 

[Phitz]

I posted this before.

Alot of UGLY and AVERAGE people are acting like they are too good for each other, too many single people are trying to pair up above their attraction level.

 

[Wild self]

Women never say lets teach these corny men how to become more like the guys I want sex with.

If a fat homely girl was complaining she cant get dikk we would all tell her to lose weight, get some nice clothes, flirt etc.

That is a MAJOR, MAJOR problem. No one wants to share valid life-changing game to men anymore. Just "get it on your own and stop complaining" bootstraps rhetoric that even a lot of PUA like (early Mack Lessons) Tariq Nasheed had. Its like they are even more disgusted at "no game" having men striving to be better mates in the dating game. Which is why they never tell you the proper exact body language, the words to use, the delivery of those same odds, when to make a physical move, and so on

 

[semicko82]

That is a MAJOR, MAJOR problem. No one wants to share valid life-changing game to men anymore. Just "get it on your own and stop complaining" bootstraps rhetoric that even a lot of PUA like (early Mack Lessons) Tariq Nasheed had. Its like they are even more disgusted at "no game" having men striving to be better mates in the dating game. Which is why they never tell you the proper exact body language, the words to use, the delivery of those same odds, when to make a physical move, and so on

Most of these dating coaches don’t have no game. I usually see these dudes with average looking women. I remember when Donavan Sharpe got exposed for having a ugly cac girlfriend

 

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There's plenty of places online men can go to get advice from other men. However there is often pushback from women when they see nerds trying to turn into 'playas'


The thread is about women rejecting 95% of men. Looks like avg women are the ones that need to give avg men a chance. I dont believe those stats are true in the real world but then that female poster got in here and said "YEAH Thats Right Most of Yall Aint Worth Having Sex With!"

That’s how a lotta women do feel these days but chicks can be coaxed outta the castle. But not by smash and dashing, telling them they gon die bitter and alone if they don’t choose up on dudes that are lukewarm about them too. A lotta men got their chips on their shoulders.
Today’s dating market needs 90s RnB energy.

 

[Geordi]

CASUAL sex

i understand why Sawatee gets 5 birkin bags and I dont, why can't you understand why Trevante gets fukked in the club parking lot and you dont? Get over it

5 Birkin bags is 100k. p*ssy isnt worth 100k its free. This is what we are saying, yall dont want a regular dude to fukk his female counterparts.

 

[Wild self]

You just provided the same solution I provided earlier. Average men need to get off online dating and the average women will follow. Then they will have no choice but meet in real life where they can get a better feel for each other with more natural interactions.

Far as the paying for dates thing you keep bringing up, a big reason men hate paying for first dates especially with online dating is because there’s no incentive paying for a meal for a woman he will most likely not even see again. There are a lot of women using men for free meals on these apps.

And it’s wild hypocritical to do all this “I got my own money, I don’t need a man for that” then complain bout paying for your own meal. That is strictly an American woman thing. I’ve lived in 2 European countries and the women there pride themselves on being independent, taking the good and bad with a smile on their faces. Only in America do women want modern rights while holding onto traditional expectations when equality becomes inconvenient for her.

Its lack of humility. Even millionaire men know that being an a$$hole has more social drawbacks than benefits, and those HVM humble themselves quickly. Women who boss up, always feel that they gotta get revenge and they take it out on all men they come across.

 

[Wild self]

5 Birkin bags is 100k. p*ssy isnt worth 100k its free. This is what we are saying, yall dont want a regular dude to fukk his female counterparts.

They crabbish, they rather see "average" men die out and not tell average women anything to improve themselves. A lot of feminists hate discipline and humility. That are traits of a BAD PERSON in general.

 

[Geordi]

That’s how a lotta women do feel these days but chicks can be coaxed outta the castle. But not by smash and dashing, telling them they gon die bitter and alone if they don’t choose up on dudes that are lukewarm about them too. A lotta men got their chips on their shoulders.
Today’s dating market needs 90s RnB energy.

I'm cool with wining and dining, then girl said yall are gettin fukked in parking lots. I'ma start handing out fake burkin bags for this parking lot sex

 

[Wild self]

Most of these dating coaches don’t have no game. I usually see these dudes with average looking women. I remember when Donavan Sharpe got exposed for having a ugly cac girlfriend

Sone of them are, yeah. But the PUA coaches that are successful, still get mad at average dudes seeking legit knowledge to improve themselves, like a professor in a college course that talk down to their students because they have the keys for a successful future and those students cannot graduate until they pass that course. That Power-hungry mindstate is why the average man damn near has to commit war before valuable knowledge can be released to improve his condition.

We need more dudes dropping game on types of body language, words being used, and so on to improve the quality of the dating game as a whole.

 

[Rayzah]

You just provided the same solution I provided earlier. Average men need to get off online dating and the average women will follow. Then they will have no choice but meet in real life where they can get a better feel for each other with more natural interactions.

Far as the paying for dates thing you keep bringing up, a big reason men hate paying for first dates especially with online dating is because there’s no incentive paying for a meal for a woman he will most likely not even see again. There are a lot of women using men for free meals on these apps.

And it’s wild hypocritical to do all this “I got my own money, I don’t need a man for that” then complain bout paying for your own meal. That is strictly an American woman thing. I’ve lived in 2 European countries and the women there pride themselves on being independent, taking the good and bad with a smile on their faces. Only in America do women want modern rights while holding onto traditional expectations when equality becomes inconvenient for her.

I lived in Europe and Asia and have dated Africans. American women think they are all dimes and deserve micheal B Jordan or whoever they think is the pinnacle. They will treat a above average dude the same way they treat the bum nikkas. They don’t know what they want or who they like. That’s the problem.

They say they shouldn’t settle but who’s to say they are the ones settling? They just don’t appreciate shyt and don’t know how to pick a mate. Now the ones that do, they ain’t online complaining, they ain’t calling KS asking for advice. They aren’t even debating these facts, the women who have their shyt together knows KS is speaking facts and isn’t looking for validation online. They are busy being great and taking care of their homes.

 

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So a man gotta pay all your bills, spend all of his money, and entertain you, for a consideration of a relationship?

Even the HVM would use you as a pump and dump

Step 1. Let me nip this in the bud because men keep throwing this shyt in women’s faces like it matters to them. You don’t have anything to do with what another chick is doing with another man. Mind your own business. You can’t control it. You can’t predict it. So you wasting energy speculating about it. This ain’t a chick you already in a relationship with. If you leave her for a $3 coffee date and then go spend $150 simping a bytch on OnlyFans for putting chocolate sauce on her feet, ain’t nothing coffee date can do about it and she’d sound stupid and entitled for being pressed over a hypothetical. You’ll drive yourself crazy with resentment trying to anticipate what one man gets that you not getting. Meanwhile, you not marrying and simping every woman either. There might be chicks in the past who got entire cars, and some barely getting a hug from the same dude. Until you are a couple, that shyt is obsolete.

Step 2. Who is talking about paying bills? We talking about just simple dating and courtship that women want without having to bear the brunt of the shame, aggravation, physical safety risk, sexual disappointment from average dudes with emperor entitlement.

So in answer to your question. Nope. The guy I’ve been talking to asked me out to breakfast initially. Then we went for a hike at the Whitewater Center.

I think breakfast was all of $35. Hiking is free.Next time we went out, we went biking around the city. Came back to his spot and I cooked him lunch.
Just casual intimacy. Getting to know each other. Feeling out if you can spend time in each other’s company and have fun without getting tired of being around them.

Personally, I pay my own bills so money won’t move me and the guys I tend to meet are in my same field anyway so that not even an issue. So I’m primarily concerned with companionship, compatibility, intellect and personality in the guy I’m with.

And that means time spent is just as important if not more so, than money. Right now we just feeling each other out. But it’s mutually beneficial and neither of us are giving anything up or risking much to simply enjoy each other’s company on the weekend or travel together.
It’s nice and he keeps coming back or wanting to chill so no pressure.

But what he didn’t do was ask me out, escalate to sex, then tell me we goin Dutch if I don’t want to come back to his place on the first date, then tell me a HVM wouldn’t want me so I might as well buss it open the way some dudes be doing online.

 

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I'm cool with wining and dining, then girl said yall are gettin fukked in parking lots. I'ma start handing out fake burkin bags for this parking lot sex

I don’t worry or deal with other people’s hypothetical sex lives.if I sit here and worry about how some chicks getting their house note and car note paid by multiple men or worry about what a guy did for a chick in the past, nobody is ever going to make it. Because people grow and change with time. Dude might’ve been a super simp but became aware of his mistakes by the time he meets the next chick. That chick shouldn’t be bitter b/c he in a different place. Same things with dudes. Life don’t work like that. Some are hanging on to bitterness over hypothetical sexual situations that ain’t even confirmed and using that as an excuse for not treating the one you dealing with well.

Women doing the same thing...