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The crux of my entire argument is people should stay in their lanes. Average women should stick with average dudes, unattractive women should stick with unattractive dudes if they want a long term relationship.
We aren’t talking about what people
should do. We are talking about what they
are doing. What you are describing is feel good romantic socialism.
And human mate selection doesn’t work like that. And for women, the main reason they don’t stay in their lane is because that advice rarely plays out in reality no matter how many times it’s pandered. Get an average guy. Get a nice guy. Get a hard worker. Get a....U think women haven’t heard that shyt from birth? You also think they haven’t seen chicks play that game, get the most mediocre thing in the room and have him try to boss up on her?
Im sure there are average and below average dudes who play games and just wanna hit and quit etc. And yes if you’re just going to get hit and quit you might as well do it with the most attractive. I don’t nor have I ever argued against that.
Cool.
What I’m saying is an above average man has the option of being with above average women, so he will fukk a woman below his s but rarely will he ever take it beyond that with her.
So?!
You think they don’t know that? But they still gotta at least TRY. Because to them that’s better, even if it doesn’t work out than laying up with somebody they not feeling.
Even tho men want the baddest chicks, men tend to be more realistic about where they stand.
NOPE! Instead a man will try to level up to get resources to attain women out of his league.
A man will admit to himself he isn’t attractive enough to get the baddest chicks so he will adjust his standards accordingly. WRONG. Hell even homeless dudes will holler at a New York judge if she a dyme. The average man is not expecting to be chosen by a bad chick the way average women expect to actually be chose by a top 10% man.
You ain’t gotta lie to kick it! Lol! The exact opposite is actually well documented in men. Men overestimate their attractiveness more than women do to ensure all reproduction opportunities are taken. Women don’t want all reproductive opportunities, so they don’t do this as much. I have a study on this of you are interested. So pls stop with the most men are realistic and women are delusional trope.
Crazy shyt is the less attractive men actually would have a chance with bad chicks if they didn’t count themselves out.
An unattractive or average looking man has a much better chance at having an actual relationship with an attractive woman than the other way around.
She’ll overlook his looks if he has confidence or is funny, among other qualities. A man who attracts bad chicks don’t give 2 fukks how confident or funny that unattractive chick is.
But I thought the issue was all these hoes ain’t giving average men in their lane a chance? But you just admitted that chicks are more likely to settle and look at other stuff than dudes are...so whose the real problem...
If average women are cool with just being used for sex by men above their weight class that’s fine by me.
This sounds petulant. “Well if you wanna have a bad life because you didn’t listen to me...”
It’s not up to you to determine what will happen to them. In most cases, they get those men and then get dudes in their lanes later on.
But they don’t seem to be. They’re complaining ain’t no good men and all they do is get used for sex. While the average man is rarely getting laid. So who exactly are the ones smashing and kicking these women to the curb?
Yeah we veering off the rails now.
Women aren’t complaining just about being smashed and dashed. They also complaining about regular degular ugly dudes like Jay-Z cheating on Beyoncé. They also complaining about average broke dudes wanting to get treated like kings while still not looking good, having wack dikk, wanting to go Dutch like roommates, but still playing same games as dudes ahead of them. They complaining about “nice guys”, “bad guys” and all in-between. But what are they DOING? In spite of all that yapping...bytches outchea marrying they
pets, waiting until they got dusty ovaries to settle down, marrying themselves, doing all kinds of shyt to avoid the same relationships they claim they want. That’s b/c they don’t want relationships with just anybody.
All I been saying all along is a woman has a better chance at a relationship with a man on her level attractiveness wise. There is a much higher percentage of average men who will wife an average woman than there are above average men who will. There is no debating that.
Yes and as I’ve been telling you, they don’t care. They want what they want because average outchea acting like he above average anyway. Women not listening to dudes no more because their own experiences haven’t corroborated what you’ve claimed, and in a world where they can do for themselves—they’ll do that instead of dealing with the alternative.
Doesn’t mean they aren’t going to complain about it. Doesn’t mean they might not regret it. But for whatever reason these chicks woke up and decided they’d rather die alone than put up with shyt from a man they can’t even get wet for. And that makes sense.
But this is to a much lesser degree offline IMO. I think virtual reality just heightens fukkery is all. It dehumanizes people.
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