How many mothers even say this???
How many mothers encourage their sons to go the gym, or develop their sense of humor? How many mothers truly instill social confidence in their son?
I love my mother to death, but I can't say she provided any type of support in these areas, except focusing on education that help me become successful. Maybe she thought my dad would develop that in me but my pops worked 60-70 hours a week, so that didn't happen. I had to learn on my own.
I don't think a woman needs to say much to a man about the "game". Just say what you're truly attracted to. Confident, in-shape, engaging, men of means. Status/Money/Looks/Confidence attracts women. It's not that difficult. Help you sons level up and put him in a position where he has options. That's all that is needed.
Mothers don't say that b/c their love blinds them to the way their sons might actually look and how they actually are. Hell mothers be out there wondering why their sons ain't found a nice chick even tho they sons are mass murderers.
Lol!
"He doesnt have a job, and he's been playing World of Warcraft 24/7 and only breaks for Taki's and Hotpockets...but he has a great heart! Such a sweet boy!"
In your mom's eye you are already a catch. Can't improve upon perfection. As a past teacher there was nothing worse than dealing with mothers who whose mommy goggles wouldn't allow them to acknowledge their son's issues.
Will curse their daughters plumb the fukk out for breathing wrong. Sons set the whole damn school on fire and they talm bout "he just has an overactive mind! Has to be engaged" ass bytches.
Motherhood can make you delusional. Moms enable
simptoms b/c they can't possibly understand why a woman wouldn't want her son even if he is socially inept, ugly, obnoxious, broke, depressing to be around, disrespectful, creepy, etc.
Unconditional love can be a blessing and curse. Which is why parental love has its place and it's limits. It nurtures us while romantic love forces us out of our comfort zones to become better individuals to obtain it.
Edit: This is gonna make me look like a piece of shyt for saying this but I believe in my heart of hearts it's true. All of this is why male energy is needed when raising kids. Without it mother's animosity towards daughters isn't tempered which can lead to chicks raised in single homes becoming vicious yet vulnerable to male affections. For men it can create bytches b/c there was no man there to literally kick his ass in gear. As the surrogate man of the house he can become coddled, and fail to excel at male life benchmarks b/c he doesn't need to do so as a result of having mom's unconditional love. Not saying this is always the case but I've seen some shyt.