when I was a single dude, I would just invite a hoe over my apartment. I'd have my fridge like this nikka:
and then go head and cook a little meal on my pack porch on the grill. I mean, it is a minimal cost and I was gonna cook for myself anyways
save the math because no one is suggesting we should all spend 250 a date. why should broke men and women date? it just creates broke children.
contrary to popular belief, its normal for women to want the guy with the biggest toy chest. this fear of being wanted just for our money is a joke considering our lack of resources. fukked up part is only black women are held to this low standard. dudes dont take that dusty behavior over the fence with other women when they come across some money.
You know about Chi City Man
I'm a first generation american, all my family who came here were "broke man and woman" couples but most are successful now because they built up from nothing together to something together. Two people making minimum wage will get out of poverty faster than a single person making minimum wage because of shared expenses. The black family coming together is the first step to economic empowerment. Spending money on frivolousness is why the black community is still in the condition we are despite making more money than ever. Money has power but nobody gives our power/money away as freely as blacks.
And the bottom line is there is not enough rich black men to go around so women would have to get accustomed to sharing the few men who do have money. And you would be creating a whole underclass of non-dateable men with nothing to live for or look forward to. Sounds like the old days with the king with all the wives and the peasants who die virgins.
I'm a first generation american, all my family who came here were "broke man and woman" couples but most are successful now because they built up from nothing together to something together. Two people making minimum wage will get out of poverty faster than a single person making minimum wage because of shared expenses. The black family coming together is the first step to economic empowerment. Spending money on frivolousness is why the black community is still in the condition we are despite making more money than ever. Money has power but nobody gives our power/money away as freely as blacks.
And the bottom line is there is not enough rich black men to go around so women would have to get accustomed to sharing the few men who do have money. And you would be creating a whole underclass of non-dateable men with nothing to live for or look forward to. Sounds like the old days with the king with all the wives and the peasants who die virgins.
I done met a chick at the Barnes n Nobles at the Frisco mall then had her ride around with me talking
And didn't spend a dime
I been with said chick a year now
Youve got to be an idiot to spend 250 bucks on a chick youve only met once or twice before.
Spend 250 bucks in part to impress a chick only to get the, "I had a nice time last night, but..."
Any girl that expects a man to spend that much money on the first couple of dates isnt worth your time.
Props for getting a stranger to ride with you
We met off blackpeoplemeet so we spoke on the phone for 2 weeks before meeting
She teaches and got her Master's last year
going towards her PhD
She aight for not spending a dime besides gas money on the first date