Winter is Coming

[Scott Larock]

Exactly. The number of "good" men is basically equal to the number of "good" women. Problem is those "good" women still think they need the "great" man instead of just building with a good man.

With this bad economy alot one men living home at the 25 to 34 age to go than before, alot of these guys aren't even dating.

Truthfully black women do want the finished product. I understand them so I can't get mad at them, as black men we just have to be better and work harder. Plain and simple. I supported feminism because it destroys chivalry and courtship. Let them get to the point were they have to step to a man and pay for a day, I'm for it.

Black women are different t due to them never having any male. Leadership to look up too, they will shyt on dudes other races will take. Unfortunately as black man we learn and adapt to this situation and work our way through it.

The or lm is they competing with guys who got options for other races of women and they usually and start k up to those races of women when it ones to traits and character when he marries out they get mad but he wouldn't want them anyways because they don't experience the same life.

They still end up at square 1 erase dudes don't cater to them outside of sex, they have to have different dating rules cuz men treat them very different. Not only do educated black men have different taste alot of all men don't trick money on them, so even if they marry their not fully taken care off they have to provide for self because our society is now quite liberal.

They got it hard because they missed the Patriarchy boat completely now the good dues they have to fight to seperate themselves from the hood rats to get attention from them.

Exactly. They want the finished product. Dude isn't a "catch" until he's made it and they can brag about him to their birdbrain friends.

 

[MikelArteta]

I cant really blame black females in the hood for going after a thug or a gang-banger or a hustler b/c they're they're the only ones who offer safety and financial stability even if he's, as they say "flexing'. A lot the so-called 'lame' black men should realize this.

Then add all the promotion with rap music and most importantly lack of responsible fathers in the home to show a good example for their daughters and sons, and here we are.

I've seen A PLETHORA of 'good girls' who were homebodies and studious get involved with street nikkas.

Don't know why people in here are acting like its not true and nikkas are just making this up.

its the coli, its like its a sin to say that fatherlessness is rampant in our community, and a large part of black women make horrible choices in men

I was at church today and there is this woman there who gets beat by her boyfriend and verbally abused, every week she's crying and my sister is always talking to her and ish, I told my sister she's a grown woman pack your bags and leave, nikka was always a dirtbag and everyone knew but just because he drove a bmw.

 

[philmonroe]

this thread is about black ppl...so i said black dudes

i agree though...and that adds to my point. theres a reason I've only made like 3,4 posts in this thread. It's just rehashed shyt that isnt gonna change so who cares. I'm worried about me and mine

Ok I gotcha on the black people part just didn't think it was necessary since like you said it was already known we are talking about black people. That's why I was hoping it was just what you put and not no bullshyt. As for the rest of your post exactly just keep improving yourself and somebody will be down with you but all the woe is me from dudes nah son. Hell that shyt annoying from chicks and even worse from dudes that's why I'm not with it. Keep doing your thing though man.

 

[miranda]

but but you should settle for 5'4 215lb laquisha with 2 kids

You must be a different type of Black women. Average bird thinks an engineer drives trains.

Sad thing is most engineering brehs, who make a tremendous amount of money and are highly intelligent, don't end up with Black women unless they went to an HBCU.

We need to be duplicating those genes in the Black community, not those of Treyvathian and Ray Ray.

breh black men are under-represented everywhere except at the ttc, clubbing on a friday night, crime reports and prisons in ontario

Laquisha, treyvanthian, ray ray, clubbing, crime reports, prison

You c00ns are fukking disgusting.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

without money dude would be invisible
without a white woman on his arm they wouldn't eve look at him

its like a draft, black women always have the number 1 pick for the majority of black men, but they taking kwame brown, but they taking sam bowie over michael jordan and complaining after the fact when they had the opportunity

"you didn't want me when you had me / now you on your 3rd baby daddy / and you hate to see a nikka happy"

method man

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Its mutual sweetheart. Your playing the victim here. And if your average looking in this age of instagrams and music video models and a proliferation of porn everwhere than expect to relatively invisible. Life is very unfair.

that's the whole basis for this thread



in this age of instagram ballers, sexy male models on facebook, nikkas tricking in the club on hoes, nikkas flying hoes across the country to fukk, nikkas bragging bout eating ass.......

if you are an average nerdy nikka with no money and game, expect to be relatively invisible... life is unfair




i mean when did we decide that nerds should be getting the bytches anyway? this is that young shyt... nerds was getting fukked up in school... white school, black school... go to china.. you think they picking on the martial art kids?? fukk no... they picking on the chinese nerds... i mean it's life


you think bill gates was getting all the bytches? you think he gets them now? yea... cause he got 60 billion dollars... he gets all the panties in the world at his feet.. but when he was a nerdy nikka in 6th grade, he was getting stuffed in a locker


such is life... you want the pick of the litter... look good and have money... anything less, and your available picks goes waaaaaaaaaaaaaay down in the draft

 

[iBrowse]

@KingMalik you wouldn't happen to be a certain ex poster who left because they got called unattractive by a female poster would you?

@trilldealbaby

late pass

 

[Aceofspades404]

@trilldealbaby

late pass

See why you tryna instigate? I didn't even see this post

 

[JLova]

You need to get out more. See it all the time. Nerdy, square sista gets passed up for the big ass, light skin, sexy chick. Them awkward (looks like she fukk with white dudes) sistas aren't fending off black men, believe that.

Just to add to this post....some nikkaz will cry about not finding good, proper women...but will lie, steal and cheat on em when they find one. I see it all the time. Good people being underappreciated and screwed over all the time, it's not specific to any gender.

 

[mrken12]

So when are mods locking this thread?

 

[Aceofspades404]

The problem I find with some sistas is they want the finished product...they don't want a dude who's on his way to making moves. They want the well dressed, engaging, balling out engineer but don't want the struggling, geeky engineering student who doesn't have the freshest gear.

Saw that all the time when I was in school. But Asian and white women were chasing them nikkaz. Different priorities.

Luckily there are a group of sistas that will work with a nikka, there's just not a lot of them. Many will invest in white men.

But wouldn't you consider the latter plotting?
I know some guy made a thread about it stating how women would lock in on stem guys during undergrad to guarantee them a lavish lifestyle in the future.
We lose either way

 

[Blackout]

But wouldn't you consider the latter plotting?
I know some guy made a thread about it stating how women would lock in on stem guys during undergrad to guarantee them a lavish lifestyle in the future.
We lose either way

Did they lock onto these smart men during high school?

By the time stem guys reach college you can tell if they are a finished product and are going to get money or not.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Did they lock onto these men during high school?

By the time stem guys reach college you can tell if they are going to get money or not.

most ppl go away for college and that is also when a lot of women start looking for their husbands, so even though you know stem guys are gonna be making it, they are still in their potential stage since it's not a 100% guarantee they make it.

 

[Blackout]

most ppl go away for college and that is also when a lot of women start looking for their husbands, so even though you know stem guys are gonna be making it, they are still in their potential stage since it's not a 100% guarantee they make it.

Well if they are getting good grades in college and are STEM they are still most likely gonna make it which increases their popularity more.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Well if they are getting good grades in college and are STEM they are still most likely gonna make it which increases their popularity more.

so are you saying these guys aren't in their potential stage?