Winter is Coming

[Blackout]

These dudes you know personally or dudes on here? Cause if its the later I'm throwing the challenge flag

Personally.

 

[philmonroe]

That's great but in many areas I've been where hood mentality was rampant black women who liked nerds was rare

Its all relative to your area

Its relative to your area but come on my dude you can find that clique in every city. That's a copout saying hood mentality like there is nowhere in most places where cats are at that they can find a black "nerdy" enclave. Like I said that's not even my twist but I know dudes that are into that and they know where to find like minded cats so why can't most of theses dudes? I mean I'm also assuming most are adults or at least old enough to drive around to find these places. Gotta put some blame on these cats to or your failing them honestly

 

[Blackout]

Its relative to your area but come on my dude you can find that clique in every city. That's a copout saying hood mentality like there is nowhere in most places where cats are at that they can find a black "nerdy" enclave. Like I said that's not even my twist but I know dudes that are into that and they know where to find like minded cats so why can't most of theses dudes? I mean I'm also assuming most are adults or at least old enough to drive around to find these places. Gotta put some blame on these cats to or your failing them honestly

By the time they find a nerdy enclave they are already with a non black woman lol.

I don't know if your trying hard to blame them for getting in where they fit in

 

[philmonroe]

By the time they find a nerdy enclave they are already with a non black woman lol.

I don't know if your trying hard to blame them for getting in where they fit in

Sir how am I trying hard to blame them about getting in where they fit in? I didn't say anything about them dating non black or any of that shyt. I don't care if you're not shytting on other blacks. I do think its bogus that people kick that I can't find black people stuff with my intrest and that's always been my pov on this issue esp if you live in a city. That has jack to do with getting in where you fit in IMO.

 

[Blackout]

Sir how am I trying hard to blame them about getting in where they fit in? I didn't say anything about them dating non black or any of that shyt. I don't care if you're not shytting on other blacks. I do think its bogus that people kick that I can't find black people stuff with my intrest and that's always been my pov on this issue esp if you live in a city. That has jack to do with getting in where you fit in IMO.

Think what you want.

I know what I see And experience

 

[philmonroe]

Think what you want.

I know what I see And experience

I already do that regarding the thinking part. I know what I see and experience too and this isn't just about you so stop acting like it is. Dudes stay on that flow like I'm singling you specifically out. I'm saying all the cats on this flow are full of shyt not just you on this issue. Its nothing personal

 

[Blackout]

I already do that regarding the thinking part. I know what I see and experience too and this isn't just about you so stop acting like it is. Dudes stay on that flow like I'm singling you specifically out. I'm saying all the cats on this flow are full of shyt not just you on this issue. Its nothing personal

Not all of them are on bullshyt lol

 

[philmonroe]

Not all of them are on bullshyt lol

Your right but too many are. shyt you'd think 90% of "nerds" getting curved checking so,e of these threads. Same with the "educated" woman and that's just not reality for the majority of people even the ones that are part of these groups. Truth usually is they want people that don't fit into their grouping then complain about it.

 

[newworldafro]

so basically....corny black men should just be grateful for fat and ugly black chicks while the swag boys get all the pretty women....huh?

Expand your options brothers. There's some "other chicks" out there that will show you love and you don't have to date 2-3 notches down either

And my friends is the battle line right here ....................where the rubber meets road.......................

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

96 pages

I swear y'all are some losers

 

[Yup]

 

[Will Ross]

Lol what does it matter? Like I said, my friends I grew up with who were similar suburbanite non-thugs all get black women too and they were not mixed. No excuse.

Anyway this is me from a couple of days ago. I'm on crutches right now.

Spoiler

I'm 34. I'm still a scrawny nerd and I still have no problem getting black women.

In fact, I just got a text from a black chick who wants to come over and fukk tomorrow...broken leg and all.

A black man that does not fit into what people say is socially acceptable Will have issue getting black women.
From the way you're dressed you don't stand out as being diffrent from the typcial suburban black man.

 

[mamba]

They only judge black dudes by that "swag" shyt.They'll call a nikka corny, but then turn around and date Chad the corny white guy.

Unfortunately, a lot of brothers are compensating with that "swag" shyt.It's all they have to bring to the table in a lot of cases.


I believe there is something to these stereotypes.I work with a white chick who's married to a brotha.I was talking to her one day and we got on the subject of dating.

She straight up told me---and I quote- "It's not all that hard to find a good black man.Just go after the ones the black girls don't want.Those are normally the good ones"

Truth.

 

[Real N Quotes]

I feel this is becoming more true everyday with 25% of black males getting married, marrying white and its only going up.


My cousin is a regular as dude. Bout 5'9 28 year old accountant,with an associate degree and he is marrying a white women. Now this is taboo in my family he'll be the second one ever to do this. I asked him why? I always used to steal his black women porn from him so I know he likes black women.
He told me they dont want a regular ass nikka nikka looked like he was going to cry, said simply black women didnt fukk with him like that so he could get a plain jane white or wait until they settled for him. Now I love my cousin dude is the epitome of a good guy though, church going college educated and he goes to concerts with me. I could tell it hurt his heart when he chose to do this. Now is he a c00n because black women reject him? or should he be happy?


Im seeing it more and more too guys that look like this

having to go white because they get no play. How can you call this brother a c00n for me a good guy and simply not getting acknowledged in our community for such

To each his own
Pawgs love us brehs

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

A black man that does not fit into what people say is socially acceptable Will have issue getting black women.
From the way you're dressed you don't stand out as being diffrent from the typcial suburban black man.

Dress better. Take pride in your appearance when you leave your house.