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yet there wifed and up married
Back when I was really against IR dating and focused on black women, I thought dating outside your race was weak and a sellout move. I really ain't want to be looked at like that. So I remember curving the fukk out of this white chick one time. I still think about it 
We was good friends growing up. My school had kids from the hoods and burbs, so we got cool. we spoke on the phone, aol all through middle school. Hung out together. We went to different high schools and fell out of touch. So after graduating, we like 19-20, I'm with my crew out and about and who I see 
Shorty runs up and jumps in my arms all crazy like "wheeeeerreeeee have you been?" 
My crew sitting there and for some reason I felt ashamed. She was a cute, slim blonde chick but I felt ashamed knowing my boys was probably thinking "you like white girls dog" 
So I curved the fukk outta her, brushed her off like "cool seeing you" 
like we wasn't best friends before. It's been like six years and I still feel bad for that cuz shorty looked hurt. It don't matter cuz it was years ago, I got a girl and she married to a boring white dude now but I always wonder. Lost opportunity.
We was good friends growing up. My school had kids from the hoods and burbs, so we got cool. we spoke on the phone, aol all through middle school. Hung out together. We went to different high schools and fell out of touch. So after graduating, we like 19-20, I'm with my crew out and about and who I see Shorty runs up and jumps in my arms all crazy like "wheeeeerreeeee have you been?" My crew sitting there and for some reason I felt ashamed. She was a cute, slim blonde chick but I felt ashamed knowing my boys was probably thinking "you like white girls dog" So I curved the fukk outta her, brushed her off like "cool seeing you" like we wasn't best friends before. It's been like six years and I still feel bad for that cuz shorty looked hurt. It don't matter cuz it was years ago, I got a girl and she married to a boring white dude now but I always wonder. Lost opportunity.
I peeped what the real undertone of this thread awhile back.
I'm from California, I grew up around men just like this. These men know what they really want, no need to justify it
like I said, these guys need to just date out and enjoy their lives, something must be missing if they're dating non black women yet STILL making discussions on the black woman, something aint right
Deep down they know what's up.
I've actually seen that too
that thug dikk
Oh, you uppity.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
If I wanted a non black woman I wouldn't be single right now lol.I peeped what the real undertone of this thread awhile back.
Stop blaming one side or the other, it is a collective problem. Our (all) women must understand the power that they hold. Men move in the shift of what women expect. If men can expect to just wear fly clothes and talk smooth to get into you, he will not have to achieve anything “greater”. It's the reason that men in cultures that have to be married to have sex will work hard in school, and find their wives immediately. So these so called nerds or cornballs will pursue money/school like many men will to achieve that goal of having access to women or what women want. Too often the nerd or cornball is bitter for his failed attempts at creating relations with black women and will date/marry out. This is the same result for the cornball or nerdy white male who runs to Asian women or other race of women because white women are the “issue”. I guarantee you majority of these guys with this issue don’t know how to communicate with women of their race at all in reality (I had this issue). Instead of taking the blatant rejection it’s internalized into something deeper.
White women have lived through constant validation through society. I can’t be the only one who sees how confident they are to approach black men. A lot of these cornballs/sisters are taken advantage of by other races (black experiment/Usually a phase in their lives). Also those women get ridiculed for leaving their tribe for leaving their race of men. Reason I believe the divorce rate of black men interracial marriage are high, let’s be honest. What benefit is other race of women from marrying black men, it comes with ridiculed from their own race. They will still be able to extract finances from him while not being with him e.g. divorce.
Maybe I’m wrong thinking this way, but when other race of women date black men. I believe they date "safe" black men to a higher standard of what they expect out of them than black women are. They expect marriage; they expect children, and being financially supported. We must start expecting more out of each other. Stop stereotyping each other. Our expectations of each other are all screwed up. Their enough black women out here who feel incompetent has a black women because she lacks a certain amount of ass or body. This issue is on both sides.
Forgive the long responses, this has affected me for years. Most black men do not end up understanding why this actually happens and blame black women instead of seeing how conditioning is the reasoning corny black men are left out.
White women have lived through constant validation through society. I can’t be the only one who sees how confident they are to approach black men. A lot of these cornballs/sisters are taken advantage of by other races (black experiment/Usually a phase in their lives). Also those women get ridiculed for leaving their tribe for leaving their race of men. Reason I believe the divorce rate of black men interracial marriage are high, let’s be honest. What benefit is other race of women from marrying black men, it comes with ridiculed from their own race. They will still be able to extract finances from him while not being with him e.g. divorce.
Maybe I’m wrong thinking this way, but when other race of women date black men. I believe they date "safe" black men to a higher standard of what they expect out of them than black women are. They expect marriage; they expect children, and being financially supported. We must start expecting more out of each other. Stop stereotyping each other. Our expectations of each other are all screwed up. Their enough black women out here who feel incompetent has a black women because she lacks a certain amount of ass or body. This issue is on both sides.
Forgive the long responses, this has affected me for years. Most black men do not end up understanding why this actually happens and blame black women instead of seeing how conditioning is the reasoning corny black men are left out.
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Back when I was really against IR dating and focused on black women, I thought dating outside your race was weak and a sellout move. I really ain't want to be looked at like that. So I remember curving the fukk out of this white chick one time. I still think about it
That's what happens when you live for other people.
Ivan Trillwater.
This dikk ain't freeeee
This is what people on the coli need to realize. Not everyone who dates a white woman or a woman that is non-black has a grudge against black women. Just date a girl who is down for you and makes you happy no matter what race she is. Who cares what other people may think.
I also agree with the people that said if you don't fit a certain agenda, you won't get play from black women but to a certain extent its sort of the same the other way around too just not under the same consequences.
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But you are a sellout.A starving man gonna eat wherever he can.
I've dated multiple black women. They showed me "some" love. But to keep it 150%, it was always hard for me to pull. So when the relationships ended, it would be a real drought. I'm talking a year drought
If you are out publicly cupcaking with white women YOU ARE A SELLOUT.but it's okay, you need to do what is right for your happiness and mental health, if you need to fish in the gutter for patty mayonnaise, mai li and Blanca to get your dyck wet, then do you.
I'm not a man so I'm not going to p retend I understand the concept of being involuntarily celibate. I think sex is a basic human need, and these dudes on here need to stop driving themselves to the edge of suicide by not getting any female interaction.
My only point is don't walk around holding these nonblack women's hands in public and then wonder why black women don't take you seriously. Stop fronting like you're ProBlack if you date out.
Whooty Chaser
#PAWGSET
LOL at all this bullshyt. Black men who date/marry white women do it because they like white women, not because of rejection from black women.
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