Winter is Coming

[Arishok]

Some dude musta been trolling lol

But I think it's the area ur in that's the problem

I don't think he was.

Some dude made a thread about me a while back and dude kept going in about how unattractive I was and how I didn't deserve a thread. Another breh said I looked like a man and I remember one dude saying I was ugly and always looked sweaty

But again, I don't know what it is about me that can't attract black men around my area.

 

[MikelArteta]

I do message them that they still insist though

I don't do dating sites anymore

me neither dating sites suck in general

 

[Blackout]

Not saying you but my experience has been dismissed simply because I'm a woman and can "walk outside and get dikk" which is only true for really attractive/head turning women which I am not

Mines get dismissed because they claim that I was anti-social and didn't approach yet simply being put in the friedzone means that I approached and have social skills.

 

[Wild self]

Either that or it's ...or it was a single isolated incident and/or these women were chasing or trying to attract men "out of their league."

I've seen dudes spit game at women just about anywhere when they are completely dressed down wearing a handkerchief/sweatpants...I've seen dudes go at women at the gas station, the laundromat, grocery stores, or when they're just running errands not trying to impress anybody. ANd I know I'm not the only one.

Men (black men especially) don't care about matching underwear, whether your purse matches your outfit or what color nails you have ...dudes see a phatty...they goin in. Even these so-called black female nerds/pointdexters get hit on as long as they fit in those jeans right.

I guess we all forgot about the #youOKsis movement? Or were those women lying?

I don't give a damn about women's fashion. If she has a good body and a good looking face, is all I care about in order to smash. Fashion is for snobs.

 

[BlackMajik]

I don't think he was.

Some dude made a thread about me a while back and dude kept going in about how unattractive I was and how I didn't deserve a thread. Another breh said I looked like a man and I remember one dude saying I was ugly and always looked sweaty

But again, I don't know what it is about me that can't attract black men around my area.

Damn he musta been looking at pics of when u finished a workout lol

 

[capt_saveahoe]

But I've never put that on my profile and I'm not about to change it up simply so I can get a black guy to message me. I always say that I'm into art, drawing, comic books, video games, arcades, and such because that's what I'm into. If a black guy reads that and thinks "she only dates white dudes" then the problem is them not me especially considering that (on okcupid) I answered "yes" to "Do you strongly want to date within your race?" or however the question was framed.

I know, but we've bought into alot of stereotypes and pigeonholed ourselves. Your interests alone shouldn't have black guys closing your profile but they've seen too many anime loving weaboos that explicitly say they only want white and asian guys. So they move on to the next one. Message guys first or use the swiping function to like their profiles.

I said yes to strongly prefering dating of someone of the same race and marked it as very important. My profile is nearly empty besides my education and a few funny/witty lines and my allegiance is constantly questioned...apparently i have the look, occupation and vibe


PS UIUC has to be the worst school to be in for a black person. If you cant meet a black person in class or through student organizations you never will

 

[AtomicUse]

I don't think he was.

Some dude made a thread about me a while back and dude kept going in about how unattractive I was and how I didn't deserve a thread. Another breh said I looked like a man and I remember one dude saying I was ugly and always looked sweaty .

Damn.

 

[Arishok]

I know, but we've bought into alot of stereotypes and pigeonholed ourselves. Your interests alone shouldn't have black guys closing your profile but they've seen too many anime loving weaboos that explicitly say they only want white and asian guys. So they move on to the next one. Message guys first or use the swiping function to like their profiles.

I said yes to strongly prefering dating of someone of the same race and marked it as very important. My profile is nearly empty besides my education and a few funny/witty lines and my allegiance is constantly questioned...apparently i have look, occupation and vibe

Yeah I'm done with dating sites though, I'll stick to the real world

My friend and I are both going to try to get out the house and put ourselves out there so here's to hoping for the summer :praisethesun:

 

[capt_saveahoe]

Yeah I'm done with dating sites though, I'll stick to the real world

My friend and I are both going to try to get out the house and put ourselves out there so here's to hoping for the summer :praisethesun:

Make weekend trips to the viagra triangle and lets engage in some bedroom acrobatics

 

[Arishok]

Make weekend trips to the viagra triangle and lets engage in some bedroom acrobatics

nikka I'm tried to get wifed up

 

[capt_saveahoe]

nikka I'm tried to get wifed up

We can have a series of one night marriages. What's in a name...?

 

[Aceofspades404]

women can always get dikk if they want just go to a bar or whatever

so sex equals relationships now?

 

[Arishok]

We can have a series of one night marriages. What's in a name...?

 

[MikelArteta]

so sex equals relationships now?

she said Sex

never said sex equals relationships but if a woman wants dikk its readily available

 

[YoungSimpson]

Not saying you but my experience has been dismissed simply because I'm a woman and can "walk outside and get dikk" which is only true for really attractive/head turning women which I am not

I agree with most of what you said in this thread, but with this bullshyt. I was just looking at the instagram linked in your sig prior to reading this post. I saw you in that wonderwoman swim suit. You can definitely get it. Its plenty nikkas in Champaign that would beat.