Imagine is probably the most important thing in the black community. Even the pro black artist type are crazy concerned about the type of "vibe" aka imagine they give off to others, alot of black men hold resentment towards black female's that turn them down over and over. And If we keep it 100 black women turn down alot of black males to get the one that looks "socially" acceptable or has outlandish goals. But in the mean time she has "needs" that she aint trying to get from average black male #1
A man however is going to smash Hard 5-10, we not choosing like the women. And you can say what you want, but the range of "What a woman will give a chance" is radically different between races, with white women being the most open in my experience. Black women and Asian women being the most "closed minded" about what they will accept.
I love my sisters, but yall some choosy women. Yall like what yall like and wont settle for anything less until there's no other options.
My brothers we are just as bad, the problem with us is we give the 5 of all races a chance, but there is no loyalty in the "relationship" when we do. We cheat, we have side chicks etc etc
I walked in all the fields, I've had white, black, mixed, latina, girlfriends. I will say this.... a down ass woman regardless of the race is one of the best things a man can ask for. Personally I could never get with another white woman. The disconnect even when you connect is to wide in my experiences.