Some dudes are just lost man. Dealing with women is something every male that wants to become a actual man has to learn. Unfortunately, the beta male circuit seems to be running rampant these days. My only solution is to keep these soft people out of my circle because they just don't get it. I'm not defending everything Tariq has said, but there is definitely going to be some things men learn that might not be popular or politically correct.
On another note, why is it every time a black person speaks out on black issues they have to either be labeled as a saint or totally evil? Nobody in the world is all one thing. Malcolm, MLK, Huey, etc all had their faults. History gets rewritten and we get left with a fantasized version of these people..