So you admit that your ability to solely provide (the hallmark of a traditional husband) is severely hindered, yet you still feel entitled to a traditional wife?
Why wouldn't there be? dating a 21 year old with kids as compared to a 31 year old? If thats your hang up whats the difference? Age doesn't matter than much, to were man is gonna put up with a kid simply because she's younger. At that point its probably best to rock with the older chick instead of the youngsta.Oh so there are caveats huh? How convinient.
So you admit that your ability to solely provide (the hallmark of a traditional husband) is severely hindered, yet you still feel entitled to a traditional wife?
A wife is still suppose to do her wifely duties even if her man is not doing his.
Why wouldn't there be? dating a 21 year old with kids as compared to a 31 year old? If thats your hang up whats the difference? Age doesn't matter than much, to were man is gonna put up with a kid simply because she's younger. At that point its probably best to rock with the older chick instead of the youngsta.
Where did I make the argument that I was? The point is to expect a traditional wife when you're not a traditional husband is ludicrous.Then your no better than the man that is not providing
A wife is still suppose to do her wifely duties even if her man is not doing his.
Where did I make the argument that I was? The point is to expect a traditional wife when you're not a traditional husband is ludicrous.
Yet BW are compared to everyone else.The dude said don't compare us to white men do to the system we are under.
He never said anything about providing.
Well coli logic is mostly jokes, to add to that I've never been the typical dude let alone coli dude. I brought up kids because the title say's "why does every woman have kids"...I mean I hope you not taking the coli dudes serious... some of the women too. 90 percent of these dudes will type out one thing and when presented with the situation do exactly the opposite of what they claimed they would.I just think youre flipping the script. On the coli any woman who is young and looking for a husband should find one because all that matters is youth and beauty, remember? Now you're going against The Colis conventional wisdom that youth Beauty and the desire to be married isn't the only criteria. (Not sure why you brought up kids. They weren't apart of the equation. )
The point I'm making and which I made in one of my platinum threads that thanks to the anti marriage family culture among black men doesn't matter at what age a black woman wants to marry she has few options unless she willing to date out.
That's exactly what he's talking about. He's talking about the lack of resources that black males have compared to white men. He also makes tons of threads about women being traditional.The dude said don't compare us to white men do to the system we are under.
He never said anything about providing.