Non black women wanted me on the come up.
I got ignored by black women in my area cuz they thought I was too nerdy so in my younger days I was with non black women.
I used to resent black women until I realized that its only those in my area who did this because people in my area had the hood mentality. If I never realized this then I would of been a c00n with a white chick right now.
Personally, I was ignored or passed over by the majority of black girls when I was in HS but I wasn't unpopular. White girls, asian girls, and mexican girls were just a lot more accepting of my corniness. I was an ok basketball player but I was an amazing tennis player.
I was a smart, corny dude and other types of chicks were just a lot more accepting of my lame ass so I was bitter. I ended up going to a HBCU and I realized that I was just a lame ass dude who blamed black women but even then....I got a little more confidence and black women noticed more but I still feel it's a little harder for me to get a black women's attention.
Is it so wrong to want the Miracle's, Bette's, or the best that black women have to offer? Yeah, most everyone ends up settling but dang...let us dream that we can get fine females instesd of basic looking broads.
There's a lot of evidence stating that, for me I couldn't date sisters till ingot something going but I'm older breh than most guys on here, but since you want me to elaborate sisters usually don't have a middle ground and alot of these poor dudes are thug and very masculine. I'm not a thug and I look pretty harmless for a older breh secondly sisters tend to either want a thug or a highly educated brother. I'm working on being the later. I go to school and I'm a bit past 30.
I will say what I met in terms of women usually isn't a black women, the majority will not want me like that. The ones who do are very old and child ridden.
Black women like leaders thugs can lead and rich nikkas can lead you won't see too many sisters with the average brother who shops at Marshalls though. What Hispanic women take black women ain't taking this is true.
Truthfully speaking we socialize much differently than other races and it's a culture thing, hate it or love it.
Why did you go to an HBCU if you felt bitter against black women, did you not realize there would be a lot of them there? Wouldn't you have felt more comfortable going to a PWI?
What type of fairy tale land do you live in where most black women don't want a man that shops at Marshalls?
When I go shopping at Target, Ross, Marshalls etc. all I see is black couples.
The average black women marries the average black man. Point Blank Period.
Let's be real, what you all are really saying is the black women you think are 10s (the Instagram chicks like Lira Galore, Miracle Watts etc.) don't want you and that is what you really have an issue with.
You complain about the black chicks not wanting you because you are corny, but if a black chick who is a 6 approached you you'd turn her down in a heart beat. You all however, would have no problem dating a white, Asian, or Hispanic girl who is a 6, in fact you'd rate them higher than you would the average black woman.
You all need to be honest and stop with the bullshyt.
What's funny is that I know of a two black girls (light skin at that ) who were "corny" and didn't get any play from black dudes in high school and they are now certified 10s. Their facebook comments are full of thirst,especially from guys that curved them.
One of them seems to date across the rainbow, but the other is on the policy. If she were to come to the coli you all would be calling her a bedwench, but you all seem to feel you are justified in your feelings for generalizing and curving black women. Is she not also justified in curving black men because they shunned her in high school.
They don't know any better. When you're doing better than the stereotype it's easy to believe you're actually doing something with your life. You see it on here all the time "I've never been to jail, I'm educated and I don't have kids..." Like son you're fukking 20 ummm you're supposed to have those things into place PLUS more.
Gotta step out, this was a real ass thread... many cats can relate to this shyt alot of sisters do.
Truthfully average nikkas are better off dating non black, they'll appreciate you more since they socialize at a lower level, real talk let's keep it 100.
I go to a black event, everthing is about the grown and "established" whites and others just party to party, nikkas gotta show off to the world they got something.
Let's be blunt, we gotta get over that shyt, if you a average nikka, don't even bother
I believe a lot of successful black men are a$$holes because when they were broke or average most black women never gave them the time of day and looked at them in disgust. But now that they're successful these same women come in flocks. They didn't want to build a future with these men, they wanted the finished product. It's kind of like payback for black men and plus black men have way more options when they're successful.
Not just black women, all women don't fukk with you heavy or for long when you're broke. Also being black you have the world against you. I hate 99% of people and 99.9% of women because i know they are all vain shallow and about themselves. No one gives a fukk about what you've been through only about where you at. A trust fund baby is the same as a dude who went from nothing to the top to these hoes.
Thats not true...ww and aw mess with you all. Right isnt this pawg and paag life exist?Women fukk with broke dudes all the time black broke dudes no one really messes with them cuz they have no value. A Hispanic man who is broke can still get a job from a Hispanic business owner, a broke black man has little value because nothing is really built for us by us everything we get is at the mercy from those who control us.
Gotta step out, this was a real ass thread... many cats can relate to this shyt alot of sisters do.
Truthfully average nikkas are better off dating non black, they'll appreciate you more since they socialize at a lower level, real talk let's keep it 100.
I go to a black event, everthing is about the grown and "established" whites and others just party to party, nikkas gotta show off to the world they got something.
Let's be blunt, we gotta get over that shyt, if you a average nikka, don't even bother
Thats not true...ww and aw mess with you all. Right isnt this pawg and paag life exist?
Soon they will be heading million men marches and pushing for laws that stop discrimination against bm. That will really show those ungrateful/bitter/ lonely bw.