Why successful black men are a$$holes

[mcdivit85]

To all the dudes saying that black women didn't want them when they were on the come up and they're still resentful, and that somehow solidifies why they may choose non-black women.

My question is, did non-black women want you when you were on the come up? Or did they just come around when the finished product started looking shiny? And because they're non-black, and you held no resentment toward them, that them not being there either didn't bother you?

Please explain this clearly.

Peace

 

[mamba]

I didnt ask you to link me to wiki, i asked YOU what YOU consider hobbies.
Majority of the things on that list is everyday shyt. And MANY of those things BW do so.....
do you have any hobbies yourself? serious question
I hear BW say all the time that the want to do new stuff with their boos not same ol movies same ol restaurants.
So that being said
Im SO glad i didn't come up in yall generation
Yall let those few bad encounters make yall miss out ALOT of women I see. smh.

You didn't ask me about my hobbies? You asked me what I consider hobbies.

I have a number of hobbies. I'm an electronics whiz, car enthusiast, rock climber, bowler among many other things. How about those Black women choose more interesting boos as opposed to carbon copies of the same type of nikka. Perhaps they'd get a different set of experiences.

Just a thought!

 

[mamba]

To all the dudes saying that black women didn't want them when they were on the come up and they're still resentful, and that somehow solidifies why they may choose non-black women.

My question is, did non-black women want you when you were on the come up? Or did they just come around when the finished product started looking shiny? And because they're non-black, and you held no resentment toward them, that them not being there either didn't bother you?

Please explain this clearly.

Peace

What is there to explain?

The non-Black woman wasn't there to support. Neither was the Black woman.

The successful man sees them as both eligible women. They're on equal footing in his mind. He takes the one he wants. It's that simple. Neither made an investment in him. He's not obligated to invest in either of them.

He shouldn't be shamed into investing in the Black woman simply because she throws a pissy fit. She's not entitled to his money.

 

[Yup]

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What is there to explain?

The non-Black woman wasn't there to support. Neither was the Black woman.

The successful man sees them as both eligible women. They're on equal footing in his mind. He takes the one he wants. It's that simple. Neither made an investment in him. He's not obligated to invest in either of them.

He shouldn't be shamed into investing in the Black woman simply because she throws a pissy fit. She's not entitled to his money.

I disagree that some black men look at black women and non-bkack women on an equal level. I personally feel like they are more willing to close tgeir eyes on somethings they wouldn't tolerate on black women. Plus the fact that their social circles will more likley consist of non-black. But what @kayslay and I are saying is that black men are keeping an eye for the black golddiggers when It is the white/asian girls they should watch out for. But again all this always goes out of one ear until after they get bit.

 

[kayslay]

You didn't ask me about my hobbies? You asked me what I consider hobbies.

I have a number of hobbies. I'm an electronics whiz, car enthusiast, rock climber, bowler among many other things. How about those Black women choose more interesting boos as opposed to carbon copies of the same type of nikka. Perhaps they'd get a different set of experiences.

Just a thought!

Reread my post.
Its funny that those things are considered hobbies when you do but when BW do it their just wasting money.
who said they were all dating the same kind of guy

Yall contradict yourselves ALOT!

 

[philmonroe]

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I disagree that some black men look at black women and non-bkack women on an equal level. I personally feel like they are more willing to close tgeir eyes on somethings they wouldn't tolerate on black women. Plus the fact that their social circles will more likley consist of non-black. But what @kayslay and I are saying is that black men are keeping an eye for the black golddiggers when It is the white/asian girls they should watch out for. But again all this always goes out of one ear until after they get bit.

Man fukk that they all on the same level ain't no this group does it less stuff. Gold digging is gold digging so if you feel you to keep an eye out put them on everybody. Can't be getting caught on no Malcolm X "get your hands out my pocket" flow just because the chick black.

 

[kayslay]

Man fukk that they all on the same level ain't no this group does it less stuff. Gold digging is gold digging so if you feel you to keep an eye out put them on everybody. Can't be getting caught on no Malcolm X "get your hands out my pocket" flow just because the chick black.

how is a woman of equal means "gold digging" though?

 

[philmonroe]

how is a woman of equal means "gold digging" though?

I'll answer your question when you show me where I said that.

 

[Opus]

You could've just kept the first part the second is kinda stupid.

We are talking about successful people.

If you've been making 6 figures for 10-15 years and you do not have a million in assets you are doing it wrong.

If you are smart with real estate or stock market it happens a lot quicker.

 

[Opus]

To all the dudes saying that black women didn't want them when they were on the come up and they're still resentful, and that somehow solidifies why they may choose non-black women.

My question is, did non-black women want you when you were on the come up? Or did they just come around when the finished product started looking shiny? And because they're non-black, and you held no resentment toward them, that them not being there either didn't bother you?

Please explain this clearly.

Peace

I'm not one of those guys. I've just observed it is now easier to land women that once seemed out of my reach. But I think black women were around more so maybe that's why they get judged more harshly? Like black women may have dissed the butt hurt nikkas and they remember whereas white women just were non existent. So when black women come around later they have bad history but Becky appears with a clean slate? I dunno. I'm speculating here.

 

[Scott Larock]

To all the dudes saying that black women didn't want them when they were on the come up and they're still resentful, and that somehow solidifies why they may choose non-black women.

My question is, did non-black women want you when you were on the come up? Or did they just come around when the finished product started looking shiny? And because they're non-black, and you held no resentment toward them, that them not being there either didn't bother you?

Please explain this clearly.

Peace

It's not about who wanted or didn't want you it's the socialization between the different groups of women, you got it wrong. I know bummy dudes in their 30s who have better luck with non black women than black women. The truth is these other races of women socialize easier and it's less forced as opposed to sisters. A broke nikka probably won't date period but other races will show that dude more love, I mean sometimes you just wanna know you got someone to talk to breh, a broke nikka ain't getting married to white chick's either but trust me that white girl will talk to you once in a while even if she ain't trying to let you smash.

I've had conversations end the second I told a sister I went to a crappie school. Real talk.

But when you get right they mad you don't want them. Sisters don't k ow how to handle shyt right, they bad at gold digging too.

 

[mcdivit85]

Wait a mintue, so dudes are saying that NO BLACK WOMEN AT ALL wanted them when they were broke? That black women only date ballers?

Let's be real. You n#ggas aren't talking about black women in general. No, you're not. You're talking about the Instagram models, the XXL hoes, the wannabe video vixens who clowned, ignored and laughed at your attempts to get in their pants.

Cute, nerdish, suburbanite Ashley wanted you. Yea, she was the Delta who was studing Chemical Enginerring with the slim, non-Coke bottle body and the afro. Oh, she was smiling every time you walked in the library. She sat next to you in class every day. She offered to "come over" and study....even when there was no test. But you didn't want her.

No, you wanted the big booty, DD titty-having, tattos on my neck and back b#tch who shops at the store you worked at part-time while in college. You know, the chick who looked like she just got done at the latest rap video shoot. The one whose social media has pictures that you spend alone time with just you and your bottle of lotion.

Dudes can't tell me black chicks didn't want them. The ones they wanted, and always want, didn't want them.

Newslfash: Those types of black chicks still don't want you. They don't care IT certs. They don't about a $100K 9-5 J-O-B. They don't care about Argygle socks. They don't care about Bitcoin.

So, don't hold your breath on Bria Bette dating Tyrone the Financial Analyst. Or Amber Rose getting with Hakeem the Regional VP of Sales. Or Miracle Watts cupcaking with Jerome the IT Manager.

Those types tend to date pro athletes, entertainers or hustlers. For those types, it's not just about money.....it's about how you get the money and the swag you have. So, no, they're not going to date a CPA even if he's making $250K. And no, they're not going to date an IT Analyst even if he makes $150K. Why? Because those types of women are not impressed by job titles.

And it's not a black thing.....it's a shallow, pumpkinhead b#tch thing.

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

What is there to explain?

The non-Black woman wasn't there to support. Neither was the Black woman.

The successful man sees them as both eligible women. They're on equal footing in his mind. He takes the one he wants. It's that simple. Neither made an investment in him. He's not obligated to invest in either of them.

He shouldn't be shamed into investing in the Black woman simply because she throws a pissy fit. She's not entitled to his money.

But then why call out the black womans' non-support if neither supported? Dudes making it sound like Becky was cooking Hamburger Helper while Donnell studied for the bar exam.

If Becky and Tanika didn't want Donnell, then why only clown Tanika? And on top of that, why now share the wealth with Becky?



Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

It's not about who wanted or didn't want you it's the socialization between the different groups of women, you got it wrong. I know bummy dudes in their 30s who have better luck with non black women than black women. The truth is these other races of women socialize easier and it's less forced as opposed to sisters. A broke nikka probably won't date period but other races will show that dude more love, I mean sometimes you just wanna know you got someone to talk to breh, a broke nikka ain't getting married to white chick's either but trust me that white girl will talk to you once in a while even if she ain't trying to let you smash.

I've had conversations end the second I told a sister I went to a crappie school. Real talk.

But when you get right they mad you don't want them. Sisters don't k ow how to handle shyt right, they bad at gold digging too.

So, are you saying that black women have no evidence of dating broke men? Or men who are not financially stable?

That's odd because it seems at least once a week there's a thread, on this very forum, brow-beating black women for dating men based off "swag" or some other personality trait rather than things like career and financial stability.

So, as an ignorant minded-man, I'm confused. Which one is it?

Peace

 

[AtomicUse]

All I'm saying is men who are successful have more options to marry younger. And a million dollars is not that much money

Let me hold a mill then

Since it ain't that much

@mamba , you still posting in here This thread 50+ pages.

I usually fukk with your posts, but I'm calling BS on bruthas not having hobbies. I race my SS and my G8GT, attend and write theater/arts/plays, do rec swimming and run. I see brothers doing a few of those things too.

Only dap I can give you on that, is most dudes I know don't do much other than play ball, work, and pass around the same women. Warehouse working blue collar type dudes.

Why you going so hard homie?