ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
The real question you should be asking is: “am I bringing more than my p*ssy to the table to warrant asking for more?”So if a woman wants more than this, she’s the problem?
The real question you should be asking is: “am I bringing more than my p*ssy to the table to warrant asking for more?”So if a woman wants more than this, she’s the problem?
Interesting looking back at what a 24 year old me was saying in this thread.
Now that I'm in my 30s, i'll still stand by what I said w/ some modifications. If you're young (<25) and black and on your way to being financially successful & stable, it is a little tougher to get an attractive black woman instead of an equally attractive white or latina woman. Not impossible, just tougher. It's a lot more work in terms of managing image, swag, whatever you want to call it. It is what it is. Our women have to be honest about this shyt.
I'll say this though, when I got out of the south and moved to LA shyt was different. Unless they're in the scene themselves black women out in LA were a lot more chill and just open to a regular dude who had his shyt together. The ones I was dating were GOAT status in terms of attractivness to low maintenance...they just wanted to come through, smoke some weed, watch some Netflix fukk, grab some dinner and repeat. And this was ranging from girls who grew up in Inglewood to Ladera Heights to the Valley. All just chill, low maintenance, and didn't expect me to be swagged out. Ultimately I wound up w/ a half black half latina chick from the valley.
I was making $170K+ by the time I moved out there vs. like $70K when first responding in this thread, but I don't think it was the driver because I spent my money on travel and living spaces not clothing and cars. I also wasn't breaking anything off for these women. The women I was messing with were also mid-20s vs. early 20s.
I do wonder if it's gotten better or worse for this next generation, though...the ones who are like 21-25 right now. It seems like the pressure to be on some thug shyt to pull isn't as great but the need for clout is like 2x as important. Hopefully this Corona shyt helps w/ that.
Was he the Drx before DrX?Damn, I remember that nikka Mr Forte
The real question you should be asking is: “am I bringing more than my p*ssy to the table to warrant asking for more?”
Most successful Black men had to have a lot of stuff bend our way.
Makes you really appreciate things. That’s why I never stunt on other Black men. A different bend here and there and my story would be totally different.
See what happens when you try to give a woman some insight brehs?
Insight to what?!?!?See what happens when you try to give a woman some insight brehs?
Most successful Black men had to have a lot of stuff bend our way.
Makes you really appreciate things. That’s why I never stunt on other Black men. A different bend here and there and my story would be totally different.
So if a woman wants more than this, she’s the problem?
I’m sure you have men lining up with this attitude.Insight to what?!?!?
You know nothing about me and you really think I’m gonna let some name on a message board tell me about myself as a woman?
Breh, I tried to put it succinctly to her as you did in your post, but like a typical bird she lashed out.Who said anything about a problem?
And I have no problem treating the people I’m with well. I get nice gifts, have flown low maintenance gfs overseas with me for free, all that. I don’t want to have to do all that shyt on the front end to pull them though. Why would I when they haven’t earned it?
If our relationship is established based on you just enjoying my company no matter what based on who I am instead of some image, you’ll be Gucci.
Why you catching feelings then?Insight to what?!?!?
You know nothing about me and you really think I’m gonna let some name on a message board tell me about myself as a woman?
You did not say this originally. What I took from your post was an ideology that many men harbor in which they expect royal treatment without putting any effort. But now that you’ve explained your stance, I agree with you.Who said anything about a problem?
And I have no problem treating the people I’m with well. I get nice gifts, have flown low maintenance gfs overseas with me for free, all that. I don’t want to have to do all that shyt on the front end to pull them though. Why would I when they haven’t earned it?
If our relationship is established based on you just enjoying my company no matter what based on who I am instead of some image, you’ll be Gucci.