Why successful black men are a$$holes

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A few things:

This applies to all men

No race of broke dude gets more ass than the black man

No matter what you look like, if you're in shape and have your own place, you have at least two decent-looking chicks but you can smash at any given time. I don't care what you say.

Some women are a$$holes too because they know if they didn't look the way they look, a lot of dudes wouldn't talk to them.
 

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Interesting looking back at what a 24 year old me was saying in this thread.

Now that I'm in my 30s, i'll still stand by what I said w/ some modifications. If you're young (<25) and black and on your way to being financially successful & stable, it is a little tougher to get an attractive black woman instead of an equally attractive white or latina woman. Not impossible, just tougher. It's a lot more work in terms of managing image, swag, whatever you want to call it. It is what it is. Our women have to be honest about this shyt.

I'll say this though, when I got out of the south and moved to LA shyt was different. Unless they're in the scene themselves black women out in LA were a lot more chill and just open to a regular dude who had his shyt together. The ones I was dating were GOAT status in terms of attractivness to low maintenance...they just wanted to come through, smoke some weed, watch some Netflix fukk, grab some dinner and repeat. And this was ranging from girls who grew up in Inglewood to Ladera Heights to the Valley. All just chill, low maintenance, and didn't expect me to be swagged out. Ultimately I wound up w/ a half black half latina chick from the valley.

I was making $170K+ by the time I moved out there vs. like $70K when first responding in this thread, but I don't think it was the driver because I spent my money on travel and living spaces not clothing and cars. I also wasn't breaking anything off for these women. The women I was messing with were also mid-20s vs. early 20s.

I do wonder if it's gotten better or worse for this next generation, though...the ones who are like 21-25 right now. It seems like the pressure to be on some thug shyt to pull isn't as great but the need for clout is like 2x as important. Hopefully this Corona shyt helps w/ that.



Breh you said it

Cali Black women are the absolute GOAT. They don't care about superficial high maintenance shyt, plus they love outdoor activities

My GOAT type of woman
 

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I know plenty of successful black men, many of them are my friends.

None of them fit into the box OP is talking about.
None of them resent black women
None of them using life experience from age 14 to dictate how they move at 30

I've yet to sit down with a black doctor or lawyer and hear him go "yeah fukk black women they didn't give me no p*ssy 20 years ago :stopitslime:"
No, most of them are married to black women.


Honestly, this is kinda sad. I think many of ya'll make up narratives in your head and run with them. Ya'll doing the white man's work though ill give you that.... Truth is many of you have never moved in the circles you claim to and it shows in your posts:yeshrug:
 

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Most successful Black men had to have a lot of stuff bend our way.

Makes you really appreciate things. That’s why I never stunt on other Black men. A different bend here and there and my story would be totally different.

Exactly.
 

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So if a woman wants more than this, she’s the problem? :wow:

Who said anything about a problem?

And I have no problem treating the people I’m with well. I get nice gifts, have flown low maintenance gfs overseas with me for free, all that. I don’t want to have to do all that shyt on the front end to pull them though. Why would I when they haven’t earned it?

If our relationship is established based on you just enjoying my company no matter what based on who I am instead of some image, you’ll be Gucci.
 

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Who said anything about a problem?

And I have no problem treating the people I’m with well. I get nice gifts, have flown low maintenance gfs overseas with me for free, all that. I don’t want to have to do all that shyt on the front end to pull them though. Why would I when they haven’t earned it?

If our relationship is established based on you just enjoying my company no matter what based on who I am instead of some image, you’ll be Gucci.
Breh, I tried to put it succinctly to her as you did in your post, but like a typical bird she lashed out.

A hit dog will holler.:hubie:
 

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Insight to what?!?!?
You know nothing about me and you really think I’m gonna let some name on a message board tell me about myself as a woman?:mjlol:
Why you catching feelings then?

Breh gave you some good logical insight on what you should be asking yourself when demanding "more" from a man...
 

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Who said anything about a problem?

And I have no problem treating the people I’m with well. I get nice gifts, have flown low maintenance gfs overseas with me for free, all that. I don’t want to have to do all that shyt on the front end to pull them though. Why would I when they haven’t earned it?

If our relationship is established based on you just enjoying my company no matter what based on who I am instead of some image, you’ll be Gucci.
You did not say this originally. What I took from your post was an ideology that many men harbor in which they expect royal treatment without putting any effort. But now that you’ve explained your stance, I agree with you.
 
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