Why successful black men are a$$holes

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I believe a lot of successful black men are a$$holes because when they were broke or average most black women never gave them the time of day and looked at them in disgust. But now that they're successful these same women come in flocks. They didn't want to build a future with these men, they wanted the finished product. It's kind of like payback for black men and plus black men have way more options when they're successful.
There's a lot of truth to this to a certain degree...
 

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There's a lot of truth to this to a certain degree...
Anyway, dudes are sticking to this script right or wrong. Let the PAWGS PAAGS PALGS oe whatever else eat:troll:
So if a bw says this about bm she is justified?:ehh:
 

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Anyway, dudes are sticking to this script right or wrong. Let the PAWGS PAAGS PALGS oe whatever else eat:troll:
So if a bw says this about bm she is justified?:ehh:
why do u hate bm, is it becuz ur father abandoned you?
 

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these chicks really dont care bout motivation, that's not tangible enough. i bet my a6, new shoes, or comfortable living space will trump your motivation any day; regardless of how awful i treat them.

and i agree, dudes think just cus they're on the right path, women should fall over them. a lot of us rate ourselves higher than we actually are. but when these dudes finally get picked up by a woman from another team, that's when black women start calling foul -- which has to end. if these chicks didn't want a nikka before, they gotta stop pretending they want the nikka when they see him with a white, latina or asian chick.
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Peolpe of all races are delaying marriage until they reach middle class status these days. Until then, people just want to sow their oats. Its not the most productive game paln for society but it is whst it is.

There is nothing wrong with a young man taking pride in his work toward building a successful future for himself and using that as a source of confidence ans self esteem. but if your using that to sell your self to young women who aren't thinking about settling down yet then you're going to loose. If you're an adult and you think yoir great job , degree , etc is leverage (pull) over a woman who has the same, then you will loose agin.

The solution is to study hard go to school etc for yourself. Not because you think its going to help you with women. If thats why your going to school etc, then you need to reevaluate your life.
 

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Its true, its a mix of bitterness and the plethora of women they suddenly have access to.
There are incredibly attractive and sexually skilled women that will throw themselves at a successful man, no matter how he acts or how he treats other people, and that changes personalities.
Add that to the fact that the successful are much more likely to be single-minded and even a little sociopathic alongside the necessary aggressiveness, and you have quite a combination.
 

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I troll too often on this site when it comes to black women. If you're motivated, going place in life and aren't ugly then there is no reason you can't pull a decent black woman. Most of yall think just because you're in college or have a degree that black women should drool over you. Nah some of yall just aren't as cool as you think you are.

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The fact that I can form complete coherent sentences and not have to quote a reality show to make a singular point leads me to believe that I deserve a certain "caliber" of Black women. Looks are important to me as long as she's brilliant like I am, most of the time I end up with washed-up hoes, or mouth-breathers though, and I feel like I can do a lot better.
A lot of Black men have been praised by their mothers and family members for being mediocre, they get pats on the back for doing things that the average person already does, especially the ones that come from "ain't-shyt" families. He'll graduate high school and his family will treat him like he's their Albert Einstein. Or he'll go away to college and graduate with a 2.4 in communications, and they'll act like he's the cream of the crop. There's an odd dichotomy between treatment of men in the black community and treatment of men in other communities (though there are some similarities between how "Brown/Middle Eastern" men are treated and Black men by their respective communities).
 

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The fact that I can form complete coherent sentences and not have to quote a reality show to make a singular point leads me to believe that I deserve a certain "caliber" of Black women. Looks are important to me as long as she's brilliant like I am, most of the time I end up with washed-up hoes, or mouth-breathers though, and I feel like I can do a lot better.
A lot of Black men have been praised by their mothers and family members for being mediocre, they get pats on the back for doing things that the average person already does, especially the ones that come from "ain't-shyt" families. He'll graduate high school and his family will treat him like he's their Albert Einstein. Or he'll go away to college and graduate with a 2.4 in communications, and they'll act like he's the cream of the crop. There's an odd dichotomy between treatment of men in the black community and treatment of men in other communities (though there are some similarities between how "Brown/Middle Eastern" men are treated and Black men by their respective communities).

No there aren't. Indian mothers may coddle their sons but they don't tell their sons that they are brilliant for passing their GED. Many indian men are high achieving and work really hard for their families as well as are very family oriented. You aren't gonna to be told that you are einsten for completing a badic requirement.
 

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he has "potential" and "swag"

the next nikka she messes with will need ot have a job, his own place, his own car etc.

even the dude that hit her raw had none of the above.

The other nikka boarded her flight just off his appearance and "aura" the next nikka is getting a cavity searched and being questioned in her guantomono bay

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he has "potential" and "swag"

the next nikka she messes with will need ot have a job, his own place, his own car etc.

even the dude that hit her raw had none of the above.

The other nikka boarded her flight just off his appearance and "aura" the next nikka is getting a cavity searched and being questioned in her guantomono bay
Cavorting and canoodling b*stards :scust:.
 
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