these chicks really dont care bout motivation, that's not tangible enough. i bet my a6, new shoes, or comfortable living space will trump your motivation any day; regardless of how awful i treat them.
and i agree, dudes think just cus they're on the right path, women should fall over them. a lot of us rate ourselves higher than we actually are. but when these dudes finally get picked up by a woman from another team, that's when black women start calling foul -- which has to end. if these chicks didn't want a nikka before, they gotta stop pretending they want the nikka when they see him with a white, latina or asian chick.