Why successful black men are a$$holes

[Hiphoplives4eva]

So every black man that has not been thrown a bashfest are justified to turn their backs on their community. Lol, ok most people are not going to give you an extra pat on the back for getting an education and getting a well paying job. This is the natural progression of life...but anyway. Essentially, you're saying not only are successful black men are few but they are justified for not reaching back to the black community. Ok.

Not true. Most cultures celebrate this. Only black Americans don't honestly. My parents threw me huge parties once i graduated college and professional school.

 

[Yup]

Successful Black men marrying more Black women will not break the cycle of poverty. Those women will simply spend the money and continue to enrich non-Blacks. Not much different than the successful Black man sharing his money with a non-Black woman!

Black people will begin to break the cycle of poverty when Black women and men couple up and build families the right way. Not all this single mother/baby daddy garbage.

Black people will begin to break the cycle of poverty when the Black community begins to value education as much as we do entertainment and fukkery.

 

[Yup]

Not true. Most cultures celebrate this. Only black Americans don't honestly. My parents threw me huge parties once i graduated college and professional school.

Ya those are your parents. Of course close family and friends going to celebrate you.

 

[Yup]

@kayslay

19? You have not experienced anything at all yet you speak in huge generalizations. Plus you are indeed foul mouthed.

And just fyi. 33 percent of marriages are between people within 2 years of each other. 25% the man is 5 -10 years older. 4% the woman is 5-10 years older.

when you adjust for income, richer men tending to marry younger women, I'd feel comfortable saying the plurality of well off men marry women 5-10 years younger.

So 30 plus successful men are doing exactly as they should. Putting these bytches through the ringer. We have until our 40s then it gets tough. Women have until 28. My shelf life is as long as yours for example. Should worry about yourself

I know its not addressed to me but hitting your 40s to get married for the first time as man, I doubt is very ideal. I undertsand that it happens but its much preferable for a man to get married in his late 20s/ early 30s.
Just cause you can doesn't mean you should. I truly believe men don't have the best prospects as they would younger.

 

[Yup]

Not true. Most cultures celebrate this. Only black Americans don't honestly. My parents threw me huge parties once i graduated college and professional school.

Are you african? If so, where from?

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Are you african? If so, where from?

Nigerian. I was born and raised in the USA though

 

[Yup]

Nigerian. I was born and raised in the USA though

Oh ok cool.

 

[mamba]

Nigerian. I was born and raised in the USA though

Got nothing but love for the Nigerian brehs and brehettes. They're out here gettin' it.

 

[Opus]

I know its not addressed to me but hitting your 40s to get married for the first time as man, I doubt is very ideal. I undertsand that it happens but its much preferable for a man to get married in his late 20s/ early 30s.
Just cause you can doesn't mean you should. I truly believe men don't have the best prospects as they would younger.

You cant argue with stats. You just gave a good number for women. Men are not that way. For men it's more about your assets. A broke nikka marrying at 40 for the first time no. But nikkas that have money. . .you really have no idea.

 

[kayslay]

Black American women aren't as outgoing as women of other races. That's pretty common knowledge. Black American women have very few hobbies and interests outside reality TV, shopping, gossip, Jesus, etc. It's not much better for Black American men. Most brehs don't have many hobbies or interests, either.

Black Americans, in general, don't know how to have much fun beyond the standard club/party scene.

That's americans in general. eveyone outside hipsters. especially this time of year?
and what do you consider hobbies?

 

[Yup]

You cant argue with stats. You just gave a good number for women. Men are not that way. For men it's more about your assets. A broke nikka marrying at 40 for the first time no. But nikkas that have money. . .you really have no idea.

Any billionaire/millionaire can find a young woman to wife. That doesn't mean anything...

 

[Opus]

Any billionaire/millionaire can find a young woman to wife. That doesn't mean anything...

All I'm saying is men who are successful have more options to marry younger. And a million dollars is not that much money

 

[mamba]

That's americans in general. eveyone outside hipsters. especially this time of year?
and what do you consider hobbies?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_hobbies

You can't even get the average Black woman to hop in a swimming pool, let alone take interest in other hobbies.

 

[philmonroe]

All I'm saying is men who are successful have more options to marry younger. And a million dollars is not that much money

You could've just kept the first part the second is kinda stupid.

 

[kayslay]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_hobbies

You can't even get the average Black woman to hop in a swimming pool, let alone take interest in other hobbies.

I didnt ask you to link me to wiki, i asked YOU what YOU consider hobbies.
Majority of the things on that list is everyday shyt. And MANY of those things BW do so.....
do you have any hobbies yourself? serious question
I hear BW say all the time that the want to do new stuff with their boos not same ol movies same ol restaurants.
So that being said
Im SO glad i didn't come up in yall generation
Yall let those few bad encounters make yall miss out ALOT of women I see. smh.