Why successful black men are a$$holes

[Yup]

This. Too many chicks interested in riding the gravy train, but don't want to put in any work to get there. What's mine is mine and what's yours is yours. 50/50, right, ladies?

Lets see if a man chooses a woman for her looks alone to wife, isn't it the man's own responsibility. If a man lets his penis (forgive my crudeness) dictate his partner that's his problem.
As awkward as bill gates is im sure he could have found a model chick to marry.

 

[Yup]

40 year old men get married all the time. Quite often, it's their 2nd or 3rd marriage. A woman at 40 has a very difficult time remarrying. It's just nature, brehette.

A 40 yr old man is old and most will not marry 20-25 yr olds.

 

[Maximus]

Lets see if a man chooses a woman for her looks alone to wife, isn't tge man's iwn responsibility. If a man lets his penis (forgive my crudeness) dictate his partner that's his problem.
As awkward as bill gates is im sure he could have found a model chick to.marry.

I'm not sure what that has to do with what I said. And please proofread before you post.

 

[mamba]

This. Too many chicks interested in riding the gravy train, but don't want to put in any work to get there. What's mine is mine and what's yours is yours. 50/50, right, ladies?

That's what they don't understand. They don't want to put in the work and build with a man. They just want the finished product. But, they don't want to be there as he was grinding toward success.

Successful Black men see right through that phony mess.

 

[Yup]

Women progressively lose the ability to reproduce once they hit a certain age. That's the closest thing to an expiration date we have in the human form, brehette.

Men have the freedom to marry when we please. Women don't determine what's a suitable age for men, as we control the proposing part of the process.

I don't need to dictate the suitable age for men. Its not rocket science that a man that ia getting married for the first time in his late 40s is old regardless

 

[Wild self]

I am very approachable and I am open. If I am not interested I thank them and day I am not interested.

LOL you probably have a face when a man talks to you if he isn't your required type or have loads of $$$

A lot of women don't have insight on a man's ambitions. They rather go for the easy kill.

 

[Yup]

I'm not sure what that has to do with what I said. And please proofread before you post.

Did you not understand what I wrote. Why ask me to proofread after you've clearly read it....so annoying.

 

[mamba]

Y'all acting like black women are preying black men with money just because they are displeased that wealthy black men are marrying non black. Again you've got rhe wrobg race of women. Black women are not waiting on black men to fund their lifestyles. There are more non black trophy wives than blaxk ones. I see nothing with black women wanting a wealthy husband. I don't understand why blacl men feel that black women should only accept broke men.

I never said there's anything wrong with wanting a wealthy husband. Just put in the work to help him build that wealth.

Don't show up after the fact, hoping he'll upgrade you. By then, it's too late.

 

[Yup]

LOL you probably have a face when a man talks to you if he isn't your required type or have loads of $$$

A lot of women don't have insight on a man's ambitions. They rather go for the easy kill.

You don't know how I am so please don't tell me about myself. I am very respectful of people and I know how hard it is to approach someone.

 

[Wild self]

Yes. If that community supported those men as they worked to attain that wealth, they have every right to be angry.

The Black community isn't like other communities in that regard. Black people value the nikka trying to be a rapper or an athlete more than the Black man trying to be a doctor, engineer, etc.

Sad but true @Yup

 

[Opus]

You keep trying to make this about money like BW havent always dated men of less means.
The better question would be do you think you NON black spouse would?

Oh please miss me with your respectability politics!
IIm not bitter, Im sorry i hav to be the one to burst yalls bubble when it comes to women and how we think.
Grade school has passed No ONE on this site is in grade school. we can't erase that past.
that's like saying the solution to slavery and Jim Crow was to go back into to Africa before our Ancestors were captured
I have seen it SEVERAL times on this board and thread you are free to look for you self.
"asian and white women respect and appreciate nerds more so than BW" and variations of that statement have been regurgitated many times on this board.
Its just as big a crock of shyt as when BW claim white men appreciate black beauty more than Black men.
What makes you dudes think women my age are checking for yall like that is beyond me.
yall really think that Jay Z/Beyonce Solange/Husband shyt happens in real life...and yall say BW idolize Beyonce too much. smh
Im not trying to belittle men of a certain age but What was is no longer.
Young chicks dont want to be with no dude 10-15 years older than them for the rest of their lives.
It may be cool for a minute but forever, nah.
That kind of pairing has it's issue once you hit that 5yr mark, That generational gap become very apparent.

Get your shyt together man, i dont want you to be out here on that Still trying to pick up chicks.
My cousin and one of my friends play old men like that for their money all the while having 2-3 dudes their age that they fukk with.
It's a generational thing not a BW thing btw. We are in the sugar baby generation.

No its not like going back in the past. It's reaching the future. You're the one talking about building a nation. Well, the next generations going to need direction. Grade school and how we treat each other matters.

The youngins are good with burgers and milkshakes. I was dating a 23 year old dental student. She just wanted a place to study and groceries to cook. Mostly I smash them and move on. nikkas not dumb. At that age chicks have alot of growing to do and I'm not getting wrapped up in that. And lol at you knowing 3 women not about shyt but all these young broads tricking 2, 3 older dudes at a time.

I lie too though but I already know there are instances I ain't about shyt. I look young and have a six pack and do the nae nae. I keep my Tinder age at 29 lol

6-8 years younger works. It's really about where you're at in your life and career. In any event 35 year old man >>>> 35 year old woman any day.

Also, I'm a noob so don't blame that fukkery on me. You will never see me saying a cac or asian does anything better than a sis

 

[Yup]

I never said there's anything wrong with wanting a wealthy husband. Just put in the work to help him build that wealth.

Don't show up after the fact, hoping he'll upgrade you. By then, it's too late.

Why assume that black women are waiting to be upgraded though. Why make that assumption?

 

[mamba]

A 40 yr old man is old and most will not marry 20-25 yr olds.

Most will not. I simply pointed out the fact that most 40 year old men have more options than 40 year old women.

 

[mamba]

Why assume that black women are waiting to be upgraded though. Why make that assumption?

Most are. You ask most of these women what they're looking for in a man. Definitely sounds like they want to be upgraded.

They aren't looking to build. They want that "stay-at-home-run-errands" lifestyle of cac women.

Black women just are afraid to articulate that shyt.

 

[Yup]

Sad but true @Yup

That's what they don't understand. They don't want to put in the work and build with a man. They just want the finished product. But, they don't want to be there as he was grinding toward success.

Successful Black men see right through that phony mess.

So all these men getting married to the women were with women who build with them? Do men not leave women that they grew with to 'upgrade' to someone they perceive more 'attractive' every day?

Most will not. I simply pointed out the fact that most 40 year old men have more options than 40 year old women.

K.