Why successful black men are a$$holes

[Opus]

I live in the Bay Area and study computer science, holla at me in a couple of years I will treat you fine, chocolate.

 

[mrken12]

And this still hasn't been sent to The Bushes.

 

[mamba]

I am talking in a marriage.

It's still his money. That is, unless she played a role in him amassing it. The woman has no right to his money just as a man has no right to a woman's body.

Which supports my main point. Black women don't care about the "man" in the successful man equation. They just want his money, just like the non-Black women, and are bitter when they can't spend it.

Black man has a right to do what he pleases with his success and wealth. Be proud of a Black man who beat the odds. Don't be bitter because you can't enjoy his money. That's petty.

 

[Opus]

It's still his money. That is, unless she played a role in him amassing it. The woman has no right to his money just as a man has no right over a woman's body.

Which supports my main point. Black women don't care about the "man" in the successful man equation. They just want his money, just like the non-Black women, and are bitter when they can't spend it.

Black man has a right to do what he pleases with his success and wealth.

Maybe she meant discussion and not consent.

 

[Yup]

It's still his money. That is, unless she played a role in him amassing it. The woman has no right to his money just as a man has no right over a woman's body.

Which supports my main point. Black women don't care about the "man" in the successful man equation. They just want his money, just like the non-Black women, and are bitter when they can't spend it.

Black man has a right to do what he pleases with his success and wealth.

How can you marry someone with that mentality. It's his money, really?

 

[Yup]

It's still his money. That is, unless she played a role in him amassing it. The woman has no right to his money just as a man has no right to a woman's body.

Which supports my main point. Black women don't care about the "man" in the successful man equation. They just want his money, just like the non-Black women, and are bitter when they can't spend it.

Black man has a right to do what he pleases with his success and wealth. Be proud of a Black man who beat the odds. Don't be bitter because you can't enjoy his money. That's petty.

Then that's not a marriage. So a wife has no say on your finances because it is yours not hers. Maybe that's why you're not married. Unbelievable!
I don't subscribe to that what I have is my husband and my husband uas is mine.

 

[mamba]

How can you marry someone with that mentality. It's his money, really?

Yes. Whatever he brought into the marriage is his.

Are you saying women are owed a man's assets?

 

[Yup]

It's still his money. That is, unless she played a role in him amassing it. The woman has no right to his money just as a man has no right to a woman's body.

Which supports my main point. Black women don't care about the "man" in the successful man equation. They just want his money, just like the non-Black women, and are bitter when they can't spend it.

Black man has a right to do what he pleases with his success and wealth. Be proud of a Black man who beat the odds. Don't be bitter because you can't enjoy his money. That's petty.

Ok.

 

[mamba]

Then that's not a marriage. So a wife has no say on your finances because it is yours not hers. Maybe that's why you're not married. Unbelievable!
I don't subscribe to that what I have is my husband and my husband uas is mine.

That's why a Black woman should find a man to build with, not expect a nikka who has already made it to upgrade her.

When you build together, assets are shared. That's clear.

If I come into the marriage with $10 million and you come in with $100K, are you saying you should have a say over my $10 million?

 

[Yup]

Yes. Whatever he brought into the marriage is his.

Are you saying women are owed a man's assets?

Cool, I wasn't raised that way. I see why marriages don't last in the us if your this mindset is indicative of the rest of the rest of population.

 

[Yup]

That's why a Black woman should find a man to build with, not expect a nikka who has already made it to upgrade her.

When you build together, assets are shared. That's clear.

If I come into the marriage with $10 million and you come in with $100K, are you saying you should have a say over my $10 million?

How many blaxl women are waiting for a black man to upgrade her though? Are there even enough black men without a record lest we talk about those with wealth.

 

[mamba]

Cool, I wasn't raised that way. I see why marriages don't last in the us if your this mindset is indicative of the rest of the rest of population.

A lot of women are making a lot of money in the United States.

When they enter a marriage, are they putting all their assets on the table?

For the most part, it's still husband's money = family's money. Wife's money = wife's money.

 

[Scott Larock]

Over 35 not married no kids, I go to the bar to drink and watch the game

Marriage is probably past me. Good buddy just turned 50 no kids, never married, successful airline pilot. Just dates and calls it a day.

You'd be surprised how many women dude dates at 50 with no kids

Kinda hard to take most sisters seriously, they'll deal with a nikka they know ain't shyt cuz he got a little bread.

all the single mom's who runs up on him knowing he ain't no good.

Smh

 

[Yup]

That's why a Black woman should find a man to build with, not expect a nikka who has already made it to upgrade her.

When you build together, assets are shared. That's clear.

If I come into the marriage with $10 million and you come in with $100K, are you saying you should have a say over my $10 million?

What I am saying it's you are married and that is your household income and no longer falls under my money his money. So what's the point of marriage then?

 

[mamba]

How many blaxl women are waiting for a black man to upgrade her though? Are there even enough black men without a record lest we talk about those with wealth.

Seems like enough if they always want to throw a fit when they see a successful Black man with a non-Black woman. We've already established that it's all about the money. Those Black women are mad they didn't get upgraded.